Guys that say have a lovely day

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I'm_Tired Dec 13, 2023 @ 1:14am

A guy on his way out of the door at my work today told me "Have a lovely day".

I was weirded out by what he said because it's a feminine line used by women.

I've only heard "see ya buddy" and "have a good day" which sounds right and appropriate.

Thoughts?

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Hesti Dec 13, 2023 @ 1:16am

The fact that you're that bothered by it that you thought about it all the way until you got home from work to post a thread about it says way more about you than it does about the guy saying it. That's my thoughts.

Le fishe au chocolat Dec 13, 2023 @ 1:18am

Understandable, have a nice day.

Lunar Fang Dec 13, 2023 @ 1:19am

Originally posted by Hesti:
The fact that you're that bothered by it that you thought about it all the way until you got home from work to post a thread about it says way more about you than it does about the guy saying it. That's my thoughts.

This pretty much, you're reading way to deep into it.

Stakanov Dec 13, 2023 @ 1:28am

Originally posted by Depressed:
A guy on his way out of the door at my work today told me "Have a lovely day".

I was weirded out by what he said because it's a feminine line used by women.

I've only heard "see ya buddy" and "have a good day" which sounds right and appropriate.

Thoughts?

Did your heart start beating faster and faster when he said that?

GigaByteWide Dec 13, 2023 @ 1:45am

Have a nice day~~~<3

KalGimpa Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:07am

Originally posted by Hesti:
The fact that you're that bothered by it that you thought about it all the way until you got home from work to post a thread about it says way more about you than it does about the guy saying it. That's my thoughts.

there is a video of a guy working at a gas station who gave out flowers to his customers

male and female

the males mostly got pissed

one lady was in tears she was so happy to get it

it is weird/sad how deep these things have become ingrained in guys

=(^ ^)= Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:12am

Originally posted by Midori:
Bet that guy had no idea how much he was going to change the course of your day

Lol.

Maria Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:15am

>a feminine line

Mensis Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:16am

Seems a bit fragile to be bothered so much by something so inconsequential...

I'm_Tired Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:19am

Originally posted by Stakanov:

Did your heart start beating faster and faster when he said that?

No. I was deeply puzzled by that.

It really came as a shock for me WTF because i've literally never heard any man that says "Have a lovely day".

Originally posted by HMSNeptune:
Understandable, have a nice day.

That;s normal.

The word we are looking here is "lovely".

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Mensis Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:21am

Originally posted by Depressed:
Originally posted by HMSNeptune:
Understandable, have a nice day.
That;s normal.

The word we are looking here is "lovely".

Have you considered the possibility you might be overthinking this?

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I'm_Tired Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:24am

Originally posted by Mensis:
Have you considered the possibility you might be overthinking this?

Lovely is an effeminate term so I want to know why out of all the words he could've chosen, he came up with lovely?

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Mensis Dec 13, 2023 @ 2:26am

Originally posted by Depressed:
Originally posted by Mensis:
Have you considered the possibility you might be overthinking this?
Lovely is an effeminate term so I want to know why out of all the words he could've chosen, he came up with lovely?

I wasn't aware lovely is now an effeminate word and that it's inappropriate for men to use it.

But even if it was, why does it matter? Men aren't allowed to say effeminate words?

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