some 'incels' aren't incels

[meda]

Incel means 'involuntary celibate' suggesting they are unattractive and undesirable, but isn't appearance subjective? Why is there such a stigma surrounding men who prefer the internet culture and don't try to get with every hot chick in school? I don't believe running a discord server makes you an 'incel' but simply a friendly person trying to create an online community during a time where technology is at it's peak.

[fnv]

arent incels men who hate women because some "sad" backstory?

[Nano]

引用自 Kat：

arent incels men who hate women because some "sad" backstory?

No it means what OP said. People use it as an insult if they don't like the person. It's a buzzword if anything to most people.

[Talby]

ever wonder why the world's oldest profession is what it is? At least partially

[76561198356019466]

I'm one because i have zero social skills and evidently I always come off as a pervert.

After 47 years I've gotten used to it.

[𝕁𝕒𝕔𝕜𝕝𝕖]

The answer is … who cares. In the real world no one gives a ♥♥♥♥ about these titles, you wake up, go to work, come home and do it again the next day like everyone else.

[Ice Robertson]

I'm more voluntary celibate, I had my fun in the past but now i don't even wanna kiss a woman and i don't know why.

I'd rather have a cup of coffee.

[meda]

引用自 Ice Robertson：

I'm more voluntary celibate, I had my fun in the past but now i don't even wanna kiss a woman and i don't know why.

I'd rather have a cup of coffee.

honestly, incense and coffee is the way to go!

[76561198356019466]

引用自 Ice Robertson：

I'm more voluntary celibate, I had my fun in the past but now i don't even wanna kiss a woman and i don't know why.

I'd rather have a cup of coffee.

I would love a companion because it's been so long, BUT i'm getting to the age where if I have a choice, I'll take bacon over sex.

[Ice Robertson]

引用自 meda：

honestly, incense and coffee is the way to go!

Thanks man.

Occasionally i see a nice looking woman, like when i voted in our election, But that didn't even last the day until i forgot and moved on.

[xAlphaStarOmegax]

引用自 Kat：

arent incels men who hate women because some "sad" backstory?

That's what I was thinking.

[76561198356019466]

引用自 meda：

引用自 Ice Robertson：

I'm more voluntary celibate, I had my fun in the past but now i don't even wanna kiss a woman and i don't know why.

I'd rather have a cup of coffee.

honestly, incense and coffee is the way to go!

not if you haven't been laid in 30 years,

[Fajita Jim]

引用自 🎃tiny E🎃：

not if you haven't been laid in 30 years,

Man...

Is it that hard, or are you just not trying?

[76561198356019466]

引用自 Fajita Jim：

引用自 🎃tiny E🎃：

not if you haven't been laid in 30 years,

Man...

Is it that hard, or are you just not trying?

im too tired to think about it right now. i think the base of the problem is that I don't know how to try, There is some subconscious social awareness most people are born with, that i was evidently born without. In 30 years I have never once been taken seriously asking someone out.

[arinfled]

Usually when we say incel, we're talking about single men who hate and blame women for their loneliness. I know plenty of sweethearts who are either unlucky or bad at taking initiative, and I would never call them incels because they move forward with a healthy mindset instead of looking for someone to condemn.

[Sixtyfivekills]

Guess you could say they're IN CELLS of their own.