Are nerds cute?

[PawgaliciouS QueeN]

What's your opinion?

[PawgaliciouS QueeN]

Origineel geplaatst door (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Origineel geplaatst door Metal Sophear Solid ✩JB✩:

If I did, you would've bowed out and accepted your fate a long time ago.

I said be respectful, I didn't say be a push over. lol

Yeah, showing humility equals being a pushover. Are you even a woman? Sounds like you have a lot of misogynistic viewpoints.

[BlackBloodGhost]

Origineel geplaatst door Metal Sophear Solid ✩JB✩:

Origineel geplaatst door (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Lol.
You literally shown how much you've cared here.
As for the whole DMs bit, you keep thinking like that some how matters to me?
You think I have things that are 'embarrassing' for me.
I mean, I was never going to bring up that guy's kinks and when you did it thinking I some how would get embarrassed over that? lol.
That was really classy.

The only thing you've done is project and gaslight, I wonder why my "do you own a mirror?' question was never answered.

To be fair, I wouldn't own a mirror either, if you sing they break, if you look at them and smile they break and if you look quickly they break.

Just plain unreliable things lol.

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Origineel geplaatst door Metal Sophear Solid ✩JB✩:

Origineel geplaatst door (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

I said be respectful, I didn't say be a push over. lol

Yeah, showing humility equals being a pushover. Are you even a woman? Sounds like you have a lot of misogynistic viewpoints.

Really?
I've shown humility a lot lol.
Did I not own up to the things you pointed out?
And really, are you even a women? You didn't know birth control rods existed.....

[PawgaliciouS QueeN]

Origineel geplaatst door (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Origineel geplaatst door Metal Sophear Solid ✩JB✩:

The only thing you've done is project and gaslight, I wonder why my "do you own a mirror?' question was never answered.

Oh you mean your insulting?
And what have I projected and gaslight exactly?

First question is nonsensical.
Second - you know what, making fun of your very own kinks in an attempt to make others look bad, and then being this unappreciative for said person having put up with it in your favor? Talk about the epitome of ungratefulness.

[PawgaliciouS QueeN]

Origineel geplaatst door (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Origineel geplaatst door Metal Sophear Solid ✩JB✩:

Yeah, showing humility equals being a pushover. Are you even a woman? Sounds like you have a lot of misogynistic viewpoints.

Really?
I've shown humility a lot lol.
Did I not own up to the things you pointed out?
And really, are you even a women? You didn't know birth control rods existed.....

Why would I? I don't let countless strangers...well you know the rest.

Not once have you shown humility, every single thing that has gone wrong in your life recently has somehow been someone else's fault.

[Uncanny Moskvich]

Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize this thread was referring to nerdy women. As for nerdy men, they are seen as undesirable losers. Their only shot in hell at love is an extra, and I mean extra-worthwhile degree.

[PawgaliciouS QueeN]

Origineel geplaatst door Uncanny Moskvich:

Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize this thread was referring to nerdy women. As for nerdy men, they are seen as undesirable losers. Their only shot in hell at love is an extra, and I mean extra-worthwhile degree.

Well now, that's not very nice.

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Origineel geplaatst door Metal Sophear Solid ✩JB✩:

Origineel geplaatst door (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Oh you mean your insulting?
And what have I projected and gaslight exactly?

First question is nonsensical.
Second - you know what, making fun of your very own kinks in an attempt to make others look bad, and then being this unappreciative for said person having put up with it in your favor? Talk about the epitome of ungratefulness.

I made fun of them? and I was unappreciative for him putting up with in in MY favor?
WOWWWWWWWW I guess he isn't being honest with you about that then.

I mean he flat out would egg that ♥♥♥♥ on his own.
Pull up videos and gifs even when I wasn't in the mood for that stuff.
He even would literally say on his own that he was just watching that stuff and doing stuff on his own without ever reaching out to me.

But sure.
If we want to just put all of that on me and how that is 'my' thing.
Okay. Yeah.
Sure.

You want to know something?
I told you I'd be honest with my feelings.
Nothing you have said here has remotely hurt me.
Him lying about that and putting all of that on me, yeah that actually does hurt.
I am genuinely hurt.

Is that what you were aiming for?

Now with that out of the way.
I am unappreciative?
I constantly talked to him, I gave him space, I gave him whatever openness he wanted, I HEAVILY encouraged him to better himself, I loved when he would get excited about nerdy things because he just showed so much passion. I did a lot of sexual things because he really wanted it and I put my entire self at his feet. I am literally in another country to surprise him for his birthday and you are going to ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ tell me I was unappreciative.

I'm not even upset that you said that because I know you are genuinely trying to strike a cord but I just thought that is a very comical comment*.

[BlackBloodGhost]

Origineel geplaatst door Uncanny Moskvich:

Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize this thread was referring to nerdy women. As for nerdy men, they are seen as undesirable losers. Their only shot in hell at love is an extra, and I mean extra-worthwhile degree.

Not necessarily true to be fair. Being a nerd as a guy doesn't mean you can't have relationships.

Like all things in life, it's all about balance. So if you're a geek/nerd as a guy, don't let it define what you can or cannot do.

It may feel the way you say as a teen, but things will get clearer as you age.

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Origineel geplaatst door Metal Sophear Solid ✩JB✩:

Origineel geplaatst door (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Really?
I've shown humility a lot lol.
Did I not own up to the things you pointed out?
And really, are you even a women? You didn't know birth control rods existed.....

Why would I? I don't let countless strangers...well you know the rest.

Not once have you shown humility, every single thing that has gone wrong in your life recently has somehow been someone else's fault.

If you say so lol.

[Uncanny Moskvich]

Origineel geplaatst door BlackBloodRum:

Origineel geplaatst door Uncanny Moskvich:

Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize this thread was referring to nerdy women. As for nerdy men, they are seen as undesirable losers. Their only shot in hell at love is an extra, and I mean extra-worthwhile degree.

Not necessarily true to be fair. Being a nerd as a guy doesn't mean you can't have relationships.

Like all things in life, it's all about balance. So if you're a geek/nerd as a guy, don't let it define what you can or cannot do.

It may feel the way you say as a teen, but things will get clearer as you age.

Women in my area would rather date a scumbag r@pist, murderer, druggie, and woman beater that would murder them over a nerdy guy. I say this as a guy almost in his mid 20's and just got out of his first relationship.

[BlackBloodGhost]

Origineel geplaatst door Uncanny Moskvich:

Origineel geplaatst door BlackBloodRum:

Not necessarily true to be fair. Being a nerd as a guy doesn't mean you can't have relationships.

Like all things in life, it's all about balance. So if you're a geek/nerd as a guy, don't let it define what you can or cannot do.

It may feel the way you say as a teen, but things will get clearer as you age.

Women in my area would rather date a scumbag r@pist, murderer, druggie, and woman beater that would murder them over a nerdy guy. I say this as a guy almost in his mid 20's and just got out of his first relationship.

Perhaps true for your area, but you're still young (compared to me) and as you age a bit more I think your view will change. You will always see things from your own perspective, so if your initial perspective is negative, then everything will appear negative to you.

It's also worth remembering the world is a big place and not all women are crazy all the time.

[Uncanny Moskvich]

Origineel geplaatst door BlackBloodRum:

Origineel geplaatst door Uncanny Moskvich:

Women in my area would rather date a scumbag r@pist, murderer, druggie, and woman beater that would murder them over a nerdy guy. I say this as a guy almost in his mid 20's and just got out of his first relationship.

Perhaps true for your area, but you're still young (compared to me) and as you age a bit more I think your view will change. You will always see things from your own perspective, so if your initial perspective is negative, then everything will appear negative to you.

It's also worth remembering the world is a big place and not all women are crazy all the time.

I really hope the whole world doesn't roll this way because that's all I've been seeing for the past 3 years.

[PawgaliciouS QueeN]

Origineel geplaatst door Uncanny Moskvich:

Origineel geplaatst door BlackBloodRum:

Perhaps true for your area, but you're still young (compared to me) and as you age a bit more I think your view will change. You will always see things from your own perspective, so if your initial perspective is negative, then everything will appear negative to you.

It's also worth remembering the world is a big place and not all women are crazy all the time.

I really hope the whole world doesn't roll this way because that's all I've been seeing for the past 3 years.

Sounds like some strange girls you've been hanging out with. As long as a nerdy guy is hygienic (number one turn off if not, that goes for any guy or girl), there is nothing inherently unattractive about a nerdy guy.

[The Commendatore]

Origineel geplaatst door Uncanny Moskvich:

Origineel geplaatst door BlackBloodRum:

Not necessarily true to be fair. Being a nerd as a guy doesn't mean you can't have relationships.

Like all things in life, it's all about balance. So if you're a geek/nerd as a guy, don't let it define what you can or cannot do.

It may feel the way you say as a teen, but things will get clearer as you age.

Women in my area would rather date a scumbag r@pist, murderer, druggie, and woman beater that would murder them over a nerdy guy. I say this as a guy almost in his mid 20's and just got out of his first relationship.

Yeah, those ain't women. That are dumpsters you can encounter at Mardi Gras who think it's cool to date those types.