Is it weird when your dad comments inappropriately about the way you play video games?

[HaloFan97]

This morning while my family was out to eat, we were randomly talking about The Sims (TS4) when my dad mentioned how I always made my sims have sex in the shower?? Which I do not do that a lot and I thought it was a little creepy they were peeking in on my gameplay when I wasn't watching... also, about a few months ago, he mentioned how a lot of my characters were really busty, which is true, but I still think it was weird he was saying these things out loud in front of people and he should have minded his own business. As you see, I am very insecure about certain things and I'm afraid people will judge me, so I try my best to keep my personal business to myself and I barely speak in public. I dunno, was my dad being a little creepy those times? I don't think he is a bad person but I didn't like how he was talking to others about this, like... sims in the showers and kissing, like, whatever, that was one time, and that's kinda weird that your're interested in that...

[Sir Seanicus, Esq.]

Are ya winnin', son?

[Q-T_3.14.exe]

My dad once walked in to tell me to shut up because I was laughing my evil laugh while destroying a Civ in early game and they protected by the Great Wall wonder which makes enemy units move less tiles in Civ V. They were gone. Extinct. Destroyed.

[kbiz]

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My dad once walked in to tell me to shut up because I was laughing my evil laugh while destroying a Civ in early game and they protected by the Great Wall wonder which makes enemy units move less tiles in Civ V. They were gone. Extinct. Destroyed. :csd2smile:

HAHA!

OP, just doesn't seem like a big deal. Move on.

[Apollo702]

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My dad once walked in to tell me to shut up because I was laughing my evil laugh while destroying a Civ in early game and they protected by the Great Wall wonder which makes enemy units move less tiles in Civ V. They were gone. Extinct. Destroyed. :csd2smile:

HAHA!

OP, just doesn't seem like a big deal. Move on.

Sometimes when you can't build all the wonders you let the AI get em'- and then send in the military!

[kbiz]

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HAHA!

OP, just doesn't seem like a big deal. Move on.

Sometimes when you can't build all the wonders you let the AI get em'- and then send in the military!

Oh yeah! I totally related to Cutie Pie. Love me some Civ strategy.

[Insomniac Jack]

Sounds like a "are you winning son?" moment.

[kbiz]

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Sounds like a "are you winning son?" moment.

Depends on a lot on OP's age.

[Apollo702]

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Sounds like a "are you winning son?" moment.

Depends on a lot on OP's age.

We don't have that do we?

That would help a lot with the context.

[DrummerJacob]

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This morning while my family was out to eat, we were randomly talking about The Sims (TS4) when my dad mentioned how I always made my sims have sex in the shower?? Which I do not do that a lot and I thought it was a little creepy they were peeking in on my gameplay when I wasn't watching... also, about a few months ago, he mentioned how a lot of my characters were really busty, which is true, but I still think it was weird he was saying these things out loud in front of people and he should have minded his own business. As you see, I am very insecure about certain things and I'm afraid people will judge me, so I try my best to keep my personal business to myself and I barely speak in public. I dunno, was my dad being a little creepy those times? I don't think he is a bad person but I didn't like how he was talking to others about this, like... sims in the showers and kissing, like, whatever, that was one time, and that's kinda weird that your're interested in that...

Maybe your dad is noticing something strange or changing about you and wants to let you know he's aware.

Keep in mind, they knew you before you even knew what sex was and see changes and its always awkward but theres always a time when family confronts your perception of sex and your approach to it in the ways they observe.

Its part of growing up.

[kbiz]

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Depends on a lot on OP's age.

We don't have that do we?

That would help a lot with the context.

Big difference between 15 and 35. Just sayin'.

[Q-T_3.14.exe]

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HAHA!

OP, just doesn't seem like a big deal. Move on.

Sometimes when you can't build all the wonders you let the AI get em'- and then send in the military!

It is a peace keeping operation. We are here to protect and preserve these wonders. We protect the wonders from those who built them. :P

[Apollo702]

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Sometimes when you can't build all the wonders you let the AI get em'- and then send in the military!

It is a peace keeping operation. We are here to protect and preserve these wonders. We protect the wonders from those who built them. :P

OMG!

I have not laughed in a million years!

That was good!

[Apollo702]

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We don't have that do we?

That would help a lot with the context.

Big difference between 15 and 35. Just sayin'.

Go check out the OP's profile.

Oh my.

[Valerie]

Me and my dad are like the best of friends. I wouldn't mind if he said something like this and often time he liked watching me play games - especially story related ones. I use to play RDR2 for him a lot which had a few racy moments and I just laughed when he made comments about those moments. It might be a little weird if he said it out in public but thankfully my dad wouldn't do that. If he did I could easily talk to him about it and he would stop.

Who knows maybe he's just trying to take an interest in your hobby and trying to break the ice with a joke? My dad also commented on how big the boobs are on some characters and I would just say, "Ask the people who made it" or make a joke and we'd laugh. Never really bothered me 'cuz I knew he took an interest and genuinely enjoyed some of the stories that came from these games he didn't know how to play.

[Adversary]

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This morning while my family was out to eat, we were randomly talking about The Sims (TS4) when my dad mentioned how I always made my sims have sex in the shower?? Which I do not do that a lot and I thought it was a little creepy they were peeking in on my gameplay when I wasn't watching... also, about a few months ago, he mentioned how a lot of my characters were really busty, which is true, but I still think it was weird he was saying these things out loud in front of people and he should have minded his own business. As you see, I am very insecure about certain things and I'm afraid people will judge me, so I try my best to keep my personal business to myself and I barely speak in public. I dunno, was my dad being a little creepy those times? I don't think he is a bad person but I didn't like how he was talking to others about this, like... sims in the showers and kissing, like, whatever, that was one time, and that's kinda weird that your're interested in that...

My estranged father hated video games the last time I checked, which was somewhere in the ballpark of 28 years ago. Also last time I checked - because I have his dox - he now lives in another state.

I forgive him for his transgressions, though that doesn't mean I want the degenerate pederast anywhere near me. That being said, my younger brother used to break into my room at night and get onto my computer so he could have trashy lesbians make out in The Sims 2.

Eventually I password protected the bios. The password was essentially me telling him to commit unhappy. The only reason he got it out of me was because I, like the rest of my kin, talk in my sleep and will respond to questions while asleep.

As for The Sims 4, I only post about that on 4chan. As to why, I will not say.