Is it weird when your dad comments inappropriately about the way you play video games?

[HaloFan97]

This morning while my family was out to eat, we were randomly talking about The Sims (TS4) when my dad mentioned how I always made my sims have sex in the shower?? Which I do not do that a lot and I thought it was a little creepy they were peeking in on my gameplay when I wasn't watching... also, about a few months ago, he mentioned how a lot of my characters were really busty, which is true, but I still think it was weird he was saying these things out loud in front of people and he should have minded his own business. As you see, I am very insecure about certain things and I'm afraid people will judge me, so I try my best to keep my personal business to myself and I barely speak in public. I dunno, was my dad being a little creepy those times? I don't think he is a bad person but I didn't like how he was talking to others about this, like... sims in the showers and kissing, like, whatever, that was one time, and that's kinda weird that your're interested in that...

[GlaceonChireiden]

I would probably question you about those too, I agree with your dad.
Have sex on the bed like a normal person, OP.

[Lune]

That ain't creepy more like a comment

[ṼṏẌṏḭḊ]

It sounds more like he's trying to make you feel embarrassed. That's what dads do, because it's funny.

[HaloFan97]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Midori:

Does your lock have a door

no

[HaloFan97]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von ṼṏẌṏḭḊ:

It sounds more like he's trying to make you feel embarrassed. That's what dads do, because it's funny.

I guess..

[HaloFan97]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von JustSomeLego:

I would probably question you about those too, I agree with your dad.
Have sex on the bed like a normal person, OP.

1. I was talking about a video game where literally characters would have sex in anything including a rocket ship, plus idk what you were trying to say, but I was not the one having sex, the characters did it on free will, and I still will never understand why, and 2, I'm not that weird, I post a few risque things every once in a while but I am just being an edgy, normally.

[Candyy]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Klutzy:

This morning while my family was out to eat, we were randomly talking about The Sims (TS4) when my dad mentioned how I always made my sims have sex in the shower?? Which I do not do that a lot and I thought it was a little creepy they were peeking in on my gameplay when I wasn't watching... also, about a few months ago, he mentioned how a lot of my characters were really busty, which is true, but I still think it was weird he was saying these things out loud in front of people and he should have minded his own business. As you see, I am very insecure about certain things and I'm afraid people will judge me, so I try my best to keep my personal business to myself and I barely speak in public. I dunno, was my dad being a little creepy those times? I don't think he is a bad person but I didn't like how he was talking to others about this, like... sims in the showers and kissing, like, whatever, that was one time, and that's kinda weird that your're interested in that...

So your parents with doing TOC TOC on the door before enter?? Mines at least respect that v:

As for insecurity, shyness, and being secretive I can relate A LOT...

However, I specifically told my parents to never talk about me with others with the exception of one of my aunts and cousin and ... Well,stuff like grades, what I study, how am i, am I feeling well... Becuase that is unevitable to ask..., but well is not rly hard for them to just talk about something else or make up something

My mom understands me very well on this becuase her mom was too annoying with that type of stuff...

So yeah, trying talking about it with them?

Some other family members do not like how secretive I am, but I barely see them anyways to care

And well, I played switch games with my parents multiple times ,they know what I am playing...but well, idk.... in none of my games AS FAR AS I KNOW there is no ahmmm ppl doing sex on shower 🤷

So I cannot relate to that SPECIFIC scenario v:

[HaloFan97]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Candyy ♡:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Klutzy:

This morning while my family was out to eat, we were randomly talking about The Sims (TS4) when my dad mentioned how I always made my sims have sex in the shower?? Which I do not do that a lot and I thought it was a little creepy they were peeking in on my gameplay when I wasn't watching... also, about a few months ago, he mentioned how a lot of my characters were really busty, which is true, but I still think it was weird he was saying these things out loud in front of people and he should have minded his own business. As you see, I am very insecure about certain things and I'm afraid people will judge me, so I try my best to keep my personal business to myself and I barely speak in public. I dunno, was my dad being a little creepy those times? I don't think he is a bad person but I didn't like how he was talking to others about this, like... sims in the showers and kissing, like, whatever, that was one time, and that's kinda weird that your're interested in that...

So your parents with doing TOC TOC on the door before enter?? Mines at least respect that v:

As for insecurity, shyness, and being secretive I can relate A LOT...

However, I specifically told my parents to never talk about me with others with the exception of one of my aunts and cousin and ... Well,stuff like grades, what I study, how am i, am I feeling well... Becuase that is unevitable to ask..., but well is not rly hard for them to just talk about something else or make up something

My mom understands me very well on this becuase her mom was too annoying with that type of stuff... :csd2smile:

So yeah, trying talking about it with them?

Some other family members do not like how secretive I am, but I barely see them anyways to care

And well, I played switch games with my parents multiple times ,they know what I am playing...but well, idk.... in none of my games AS FAR AS I KNOW there is no ahmmm ppl doing sex on shower 🤷

So I cannot relate to that SPECIFIC scenario v:

This is a different game and it's not really considered sex, and its mostly censored, but that was one time when my father walked in at a bad time and he was just talking about that out loud at the dinner table.. I tried to change the conversation so I wouldn't be seen as a total weirdo.. there was also one incident not related to the sims when I was younger when my parents punished me big time over something actually bad that I was doing and it scarred me to the point I chose to keep my personal interests and hobbies completely secretive since I was scared of what people would think of me...

[HaloFan97]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Midori:

Does your lock have a door

girl I don't even have a lock

[Candyy]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Klutzy:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Candyy ♡:

So your parents with doing TOC TOC on the door before enter?? Mines at least respect that v:

As for insecurity, shyness, and being secretive I can relate A LOT...

However, I specifically told my parents to never talk about me with others with the exception of one of my aunts and cousin and ... Well,stuff like grades, what I study, how am i, am I feeling well... Becuase that is unevitable to ask..., but well is not rly hard for them to just talk about something else or make up something

My mom understands me very well on this becuase her mom was too annoying with that type of stuff...

So yeah, trying talking about it with them?

Some other family members do not like how secretive I am, but I barely see them anyways to care

And well, I played switch games with my parents multiple times ,they know what I am playing...but well, idk.... in none of my games AS FAR AS I KNOW there is no ahmmm ppl doing sex on shower 🤷

So I cannot relate to that SPECIFIC scenario v:

This is a different game and it's not really considered sex, and its mostly censored, but that was one time when my father walked in at a bad time and he was just talking about that out loud at the dinner table.. I tried to change the conversation so I wouldn't be seen as a total weirdo.. there was also one incident not related to the sims when I was younger when my parents punished me big time over something actually bad that I was doing and it scarred me to the point I chose to keep my personal interests and hobbies completely secretive since I was scared of what people would think of me...

I only share my likings with the ppl I trust v:

But yeah, if you do not want more situations like this talk about it with your parents

Seriously, they should do the TOC TOC on the door -.-

[Zaika]

My dad makes weird comments like that but he doesnt think much past it so theres no real issue. Just uncomfortable comments x_x the feeling really sucks lol

[[N]ebsun]

hate to break it to you, but parents spill the beans on absolutely everything you do...
at work, with their friends.. anywhere - your "embarrassing" moments are the number 1 topic.

[Hammer Of Evil]

probably best to steer clear of games with nsfw themes until you are in a position to move out.

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von ṼṏẌṏḭḊ:

It sounds more like he's trying to make you feel embarrassed. That's what dads do, because it's funny.

true

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

know this op

1 i have no dad so idk

2 family sucks.

3 who cares it's family. Just ignore their comments.

4 one up the ante by saying something worse lol