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What’s your opinion about online dating….
And have you ever considered dating someone from internet
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I think it doesn't matter where it's started. It can be online or a library or a pub.

At some point, people have to talk on phone, meet up to talk more to understand each other.

Communication is what will score that relationship. That means be able to express love and a character individually. To talk in a nice way in order to let people feel secured and approve each other.

Train up in communication skills. Talk to different people. Get that experience, then find that girl to talk to. When ready for love, it doesn't matter if it's online or pub. All that's needed is her phone number.
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CaptainG の投稿を引用:
󠀡󠀡 の投稿を引用:
Untrue. As long as you take care of yourself and look presentable, I've had some clicks and I'm no southern belle myself.
I think ugly excludes presentable:PuzzleBallDONT_KNOW:
You gotta have confidence in yourself without being egotistical also.
SnakeFist の投稿を引用:
An ugly woman can still get a date with a hot woman. A ugly guy can get a date with an ok looking guy, But an ugly guy can't get a date with a hot woman. And an ugly woman can't get a date with an ok looking guy.
Wrong my wife is objectively inferior to me in looks, I think she is gorgeous but feelings and objectivity are not the same.
󠀡󠀡 の投稿を引用:
saranacX の投稿を引用:
I've long been against it for myself. Always felt it was sketchy. I may have second thoughts here soon as I'm not getting any younger and the "yolo" is building in my system.
Vaccination status is its own thing now. Just fyi.

No femmes, no fats, no Asians, no non-purebloods.
What kind of response is this btw? I must've skimmed over it lol.
Lilly 2023年5月5日 20時59分 
Meh, I don't get why people knock it when they literally do it through tinder. It's the same BS. Doesn't matter where you meet someone, it's all the same. Most of them are NPCs anyway.
more $$$ = better results
Lils の投稿を引用:
Meh, I don't get why people knock it when they literally do it through tinder. It's the same BS. Doesn't matter where you meet someone, it's all the same. Most of them are NPCs anyway.
Tinder is usually local I assumed this person meant in like a forum or sumn if that’s the case there ain’t no problem with online dating. I just meant like super long distance.
Lilly 2023年5月5日 21時08分 
Anosmyk の投稿を引用:
Lils の投稿を引用:
Meh, I don't get why people knock it when they literally do it through tinder. It's the same BS. Doesn't matter where you meet someone, it's all the same. Most of them are NPCs anyway.
Tinder is usually local I assumed this person meant in like a forum or sumn if that’s the case there ain’t no problem with online dating. I just meant like super long distance.
I guess that makes a difference. We're all always traveling anyway, but I guess some people don't like to go too far from home?
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Anosmyk の投稿を引用:
Tinder is usually local I assumed this person meant in like a forum or sumn if that’s the case there ain’t no problem with online dating. I just meant like super long distance.
I guess that makes a difference. We're all always traveling anyway, but I guess some people don't like to go too far from home?
I mean with me if it’s 2 hours away or more I’m not leaving. 4 hours max if we split half way and meet in middle to make it 2 hours.
Lilly 2023年5月5日 21時13分 
Anosmyk の投稿を引用:
Lils の投稿を引用:
I guess that makes a difference. We're all always traveling anyway, but I guess some people don't like to go too far from home?
I mean with me if it’s 2 hours away or more I’m not leaving. 4 hours max if we split half way and meet in middle to make it 2 hours.
I guess that's reasonable. I mean I don't know much about that stuff, but traveling is always nice, that stuff is like a bonus maybe.
Irene ❤ の投稿を引用:
I think it doesn't matter where it's started. It can be online or a library or a pub.

At some point, people have to talk on phone, meet up to talk more to understand each other.

Communication is what will score that relationship. That means be able to express love and a character individually. To talk in a nice way in order to let people feel secured and approve each other.

Train up in communication skills. Talk to different people. Get that experience, then find that girl to talk to. When ready for love, it doesn't matter if it's online or pub. All that's needed is her phone number.

That's all loverly advice, However . . . one should never discount the power of throwing $$$ into the pot.

Or just be a cro-mag and do as many guys do.
No thanks, I prefer to keep my kidneys.
Jeff 2023年5月5日 22時43分 
Melted chocolate on toast の投稿を引用:
And have you ever considered dating someone from internet

I met my wife through online dating. We've been married now for 12 years and I can't imagine life without her.
When couples connect to each other, it comes from telepathy in their unconscious minds without prior notice, so it needs to be in close situations when they face each other. People you see behind monitors don't give you that telepathy connection. Their appearance can be very different from what you see in close situations, depending on many possible reasons.

Their behavior and desires can be way different when they chat compared to their reality. Many people hide behind masks on social media. They act like someone they have a dream to be, not their current reality.

So finding a partner online is totally nonsensical, in my opinion.
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P.S. Another thing is that there is a famous quote that says, "Those Who Do Not Learn History Are Doomed To Repeat It."

So when I reached my 18th birthday, I decided to research my future lifestyle as an atheist. I told myself, You should prove yourself. Why should you live a healthy life if you still don't believe in God?

So I put many years into researching many topics on the internet. One of them was, Why shouldn't I date lots of people instead of staying with one person my whole life? Because when you have multiple partners instead of one, it seems to have very little cost and much more pleasure.

Therefore, I researched before choosing this lifestyle, and I found out that I was totally wrong. I asked friends of mine who had multiple partners; I researched in corn-stars topics; I researched everywhere about these things; and then I found out that actually having multiple partners will reduce the joy of it. It's like you only eat chicken every day because you don't like it. After a while, you prefer to stay hungry until you fill your stomach with chicken again.

So I found out that if you find a partner and love him/her 100%, it would be an ultimate joy if you stayed with him/her for your whole life and loved her as I said.

The final thing is that love is due to abstinence. People who choose many partners will lose their love sense, which means they won't ever find a chance to love someone and have the ultimate feeling of joy.

Finally, if you see today that I don't prefer to be promiscuous, it's not because I can't, I'm scared of my parents, or I abstain because of God. Though God's suggestions do not conflict with your bliss, But the only reason that I prevent myself from dating any random person is because I want to feel the ultimate joy of having a partner, so I'm waiting for the right person.

It's like you are hungry. If the goal of eating is just to fill the stomach, So you can eat from trash cans too. But the goal is not just to fill your stomach; the more important goal of eating is to enjoy your food as much as you can.


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Melted chocolate on toast の投稿を引用:
And have you ever considered dating someone from internet

I met my wife through online dating. We've been married now for 12 years and I can't imagine life without her.
That can happen, but it's too risky. I say in 90% of situations it will end in failure, and the other 10% will become successful, as you mentioned for yourself. I don't intend to accept this risk, especially for someone who has put his whole life into finding the perfect partner for himself.

I believe taking risks is necessary for living, especially if you want to progress, but they should be reasonable. I always take risks for my life too, but they should be reasonable for me depending on my condition.

For example, if I want to take the risk of investing in something, I never put my whole wealth into it. I take the risk when I have enough wealth and only put 20% of it into investing. I call an example like this a reasonable risk for my own life because if I lose my whole cash, it means only 20% of my wealth is gone. It's more like a Backup Plan.
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Grynn 2023年5月5日 23時04分 
Cancer if you're a man. If you're a female though you get to pick and choose since men outnumber women on those websites and get bombarded with chat requests and comments all the time.
If you're talking to a girl on some dating website you can bet she's talking with at least 10 other guys.
In my opinion, people who go to dating websites looking for love end up alone by their mid-thirties, and these people are usually women.

Abaddon the Despoiler の投稿を引用:
If you want to get gang raped and fed to a dog, internet dating is for you.
Don't threaten me with a good time.
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