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At some point, people have to talk on phone, meet up to talk more to understand each other.
Communication is what will score that relationship. That means be able to express love and a character individually. To talk in a nice way in order to let people feel secured and approve each other.
Train up in communication skills. Talk to different people. Get that experience, then find that girl to talk to. When ready for love, it doesn't matter if it's online or pub. All that's needed is her phone number.
That's all loverly advice, However . . . one should never discount the power of throwing $$$ into the pot.
Or just be a cro-mag and do as many guys do.
I met my wife through online dating. We've been married now for 12 years and I can't imagine life without her.
Their behavior and desires can be way different when they chat compared to their reality. Many people hide behind masks on social media. They act like someone they have a dream to be, not their current reality.
So finding a partner online is totally nonsensical, in my opinion.
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P.S. Another thing is that there is a famous quote that says, "Those Who Do Not Learn History Are Doomed To Repeat It."
So when I reached my 18th birthday, I decided to research my future lifestyle as an atheist. I told myself, You should prove yourself. Why should you live a healthy life if you still don't believe in God?
So I put many years into researching many topics on the internet. One of them was, Why shouldn't I date lots of people instead of staying with one person my whole life? Because when you have multiple partners instead of one, it seems to have very little cost and much more pleasure.
Therefore, I researched before choosing this lifestyle, and I found out that I was totally wrong. I asked friends of mine who had multiple partners; I researched in corn-stars topics; I researched everywhere about these things; and then I found out that actually having multiple partners will reduce the joy of it. It's like you only eat chicken every day because you don't like it. After a while, you prefer to stay hungry until you fill your stomach with chicken again.
So I found out that if you find a partner and love him/her 100%, it would be an ultimate joy if you stayed with him/her for your whole life and loved her as I said.
The final thing is that love is due to abstinence. People who choose many partners will lose their love sense, which means they won't ever find a chance to love someone and have the ultimate feeling of joy.
Finally, if you see today that I don't prefer to be promiscuous, it's not because I can't, I'm scared of my parents, or I abstain because of God. Though God's suggestions do not conflict with your bliss, But the only reason that I prevent myself from dating any random person is because I want to feel the ultimate joy of having a partner, so I'm waiting for the right person.
It's like you are hungry. If the goal of eating is just to fill the stomach, So you can eat from trash cans too. But the goal is not just to fill your stomach; the more important goal of eating is to enjoy your food as much as you can.
That can happen, but it's too risky. I say in 90% of situations it will end in failure, and the other 10% will become successful, as you mentioned for yourself. I don't intend to accept this risk, especially for someone who has put his whole life into finding the perfect partner for himself.
I believe taking risks is necessary for living, especially if you want to progress, but they should be reasonable. I always take risks for my life too, but they should be reasonable for me depending on my condition.
For example, if I want to take the risk of investing in something, I never put my whole wealth into it. I take the risk when I have enough wealth and only put 20% of it into investing. I call an example like this a reasonable risk for my own life because if I lose my whole cash, it means only 20% of my wealth is gone. It's more like a Backup Plan.
If you're talking to a girl on some dating website you can bet she's talking with at least 10 other guys.
In my opinion, people who go to dating websites looking for love end up alone by their mid-thirties, and these people are usually women.
Don't threaten me with a good time.