All Women Gamers should unite in order to fight online bullying

[Apexnexius]

#Gals Uniting Against Online Misogyny

There is so much toxic behavior in online lobbies that the easiest way is not to reveal our voices at all.

But not letting our soft voices flow freely over the internet from our microphones, has its downsides too.
It furthers the impression that there are only male gamers playing PC Games.

Basically we're damned if we don't and we're damned if we do. -_-

[Apexnexius]

Messaggio originale di Rymuga:

Messaggio originale di xham6690:

Your laziness is no refutation of my answer.

You answered me the most lazy way possible, with a Youtube video so lazily made they couldn't even get a VA. Feel free to paraphrase the video if you want, or better yet argue with my earlier points.

For someone who talks highly about fighting viciously and crudely, sure seems like you just want an out of this convo.

So much for being a winner (;

Rymuga <3

Not every steam user has a college or a university education. Let's attempt to be tolerant of his ways of handling a debate. I was wrong in my earlier post to question his argumentation style (using cartoons, that is) trying to get his own points across.
Still we should not tolerate the most hateful rhetoric and victim blaming.
Maybe we can enlighten or at least soften his stances a bit.
I believe there is a way here we can reach him with logic even though Xhan6690 is prone to every fallacy in the book.

Got some sleep ready for another happy day. Will read through this thread when I get home again :)

[Heretic]

More identity politics. It's so bizarre now that they're actively breaking equality laws and pushing for segregation.

[Anosmyk]

Messaggio originale di Mattmoo:

Please my friends, allow their to be peace and some civility in this thread.

Not that I expect it at this point, but men should not be "against women".

I have spoken.

That’s why we love you mattmoo

[Rymuga]

Messaggio originale di Apexnexius:

Rymuga <3

Not every steam user has a college or a university education. Let's attempt to be tolerant of his ways of handling a debate. I was wrong in my earlier post to question his argumentation style (using cartoons, that is) trying to get his own points across.
Still we should not tolerate the most hateful rhetoric and victim blaming.
Maybe we can enlighten or at least soften his stances a bit.
I believe there is a way here we can reach him with logic even though Xhan6690 is prone to every fallacy in the book.

Got some sleep ready for another happy day. Will read through this thread when I get home again :)

:p_heart::p_heart:

Yeah good point. Hopefully everything calms down and maybe we can just get him to reference stuff from the video.

I def need some sleep after all this 😂 have a good one

[Apexnexius]

Have a good night Rymuga.
Stay strong

Will check in on this thread later to see if he is more approachable for a proper discourse later on. Bye.

[Nekoborg]

Looks like this thread has unbalanced some folk and brought out the worst of their primal emotions.

It is time some of these folk chill out before the moderators give them a time out.

Please forgive those who have said too much instead of report them. Let's hope those who wrote something that could land themselves in trouble delete their own posts before some self righteous Karen reports them.

Also let's delete any quotes from these unbalanced people if they deleted their emotionally unbalanced and insulting posts.

"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone." ..... meaning please don't be that self righteous Karen whom reports others that got carried away.

[Heretic]

The way I look at it is if you cannot handle an opposition then don't start the thread.

[Hamless Hog]

Messaggio originale di Rymuga:

Messaggio originale di Hogarth:

I know thats not what s/he is trying to say but they need to understand what the link they are providing shows. It shows that people are just blindly reading into things. I like to disagree and I like to be proven wrong, Im kind of a devils advocate.
Yes females shouldnt be bullied , but neither should males. There was a scene in about 2018 of bullyhunters, that just made the problem worse. Attacking bullies isnt the right move online.

The links show that men are on average the perpetrators. The bullies. I never said men weren't getting bullied, just that women face more of it (just for being women):

Messaggio originale di Rymuga:

We should fight for men who get bullied also - standing up for women is not antithetical to standing up for men.

However whenever women are revealed to be women online, the likelihood of their stalking and harassment skyrockets, and it tends to be a lot more dangerous. It's important that fighting misogyny takes priority over general online bullying, since women are targeted.

Especially in the case of being online, gaming online in particular, men often partake in targeted harassment at any woman they can identify. And no, the answer isn't to "attack the bullies." Change can be as simple as recognizing it is happening, supporting victims when you see them get bullied, and condemning bullying when you see someone doing it.

No, It doesnt as I have explained earlier.

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

i 2nd this

makes it easier to pick off free kills to bring my K/D up and free killstreaks

If they got an army of beta simps just corral them into an area they think is awesome and do the main objective / ignore them out of sight out of mind.

[Rhila]

i was a member of some kind of this girls only crew in GTA online.

they bully each other every day and every night until one of them start crying.

half of them hate you so much, and the other half love you so much, nothing in the middle.

they failed to bully me but i also failed to protect some of them from getting bullied by them.
my English was worse than now.

i was young and i knew the solution back then. kick half of them out. the only solution but no one was listening to me.
the leader was good friend of mine, she know them before she know me and she decided to not listen to them or to me.

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

Messaggio originale di Rhila:

i was a member of some kind of this girls only crew in GTA online.

they bully each other every day and every night until one of them start crying.

half of them hate you so much, and the other half love you so much, nothing in the middle.

they failed to bully me but i also failed to protect some of them from getting bullied by them.
my English was worse than now.

i was young and i knew the solution back then. kick half of them out. the only solution but no one was listening to me.
the leader was good friend of mine, she know them before she know me and she decided to not listen to them or to me.

reminds me of that British survival show

where all the girls on one island were all fighting bickering not getting ♥♥♥♥ done and failed hilariously bad at simple tasks.

worst was each wanted to be leader and kept that ♥♥♥♥ up for several days

while guys started out rocky but ended up with one even making chairs and furniture and nets to catch fish with.


seems women in a hierarchy work on the bucket of crab method where if i don't make it you won't either.

while guys can also argue but will work in hen pecking order type of method where they fight bicker but once order is established and top dogs are set and positions they all will unilaterallly work towards a common goal(s)

[GlaceonChireiden]

Wtf go back to the megaman pfp that one was so much better

[Rhila]

Messaggio originale di Fumo Bnnuy Gaming:

Messaggio originale di Rhila:

i was a member of some kind of this girls only crew in GTA online.

they bully each other every day and every night until one of them start crying.

half of them hate you so much, and the other half love you so much, nothing in the middle.

they failed to bully me but i also failed to protect some of them from getting bullied by them.
my English was worse than now.

i was young and i knew the solution back then. kick half of them out. the only solution but no one was listening to me.
the leader was good friend of mine, she know them before she know me and she decided to not listen to them or to me.

reminds me of that British survival show

where all the girls on one island were all fighting bickering not getting ♥♥♥♥ done and failed hilariously bad at simple tasks.

worst was each wanted to be leader and kept that ♥♥♥♥ up for several days

while guys started out rocky but ended up with one even making chairs and furniture and nets to catch fish with.


seems women in a hierarchy work on the bucket of crab method where if i don't make it you won't either.

while guys can also argue but will work in hen pecking order type of method where they fight bicker but once order is established and top dogs are set and positions they all will unilaterallly work towards a common goal(s)

other mixed gender crew i joined later, boys were worst than girls by large margin. all of them are depressed, self harming themselves, thinking about suicide.

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

Messaggio originale di Rhila:

Messaggio originale di Fumo Bnnuy Gaming:

reminds me of that British survival show

where all the girls on one island were all fighting bickering not getting ♥♥♥♥ done and failed hilariously bad at simple tasks.

worst was each wanted to be leader and kept that ♥♥♥♥ up for several days

while guys started out rocky but ended up with one even making chairs and furniture and nets to catch fish with.


seems women in a hierarchy work on the bucket of crab method where if i don't make it you won't either.

while guys can also argue but will work in hen pecking order type of method where they fight bicker but once order is established and top dogs are set and positions they all will unilaterallly work towards a common goal(s)

other mixed gender crew i joined later, boys were worst than girls by large margin. all of them are depressed, self harming themselves, thinking about suicide.

seems about right

[videogames10]

Messaggio originale di Apexnexius:

All Women Gamers should unite in order to fight online bullying

You just need to be more assertive (3:03 in the video).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WamF64GFPzg&t=3s