ِas introvert person playing games depend on communication

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as an introvert person playing game depend on mic and communication to each other like Outlast so i bought Rode mic to To communicate with other's

i played with ppl that i don't know and after a few days i played with them and after a week i played with them for the third time and they was very nice to me "Random search" so they invited me to their server on discord i was happy that day and we had so much fun together and i felt like finally i found my place in discord communtiy..

next day they kick me out from thier server and i asked why? may i know why? no answer and i felt like a clown i was stupid enough to rise my hope..

In the end we will die alone.

[Edward Von Worms]

as someone who is incapable of trust in humans i feel a similar pain.

[ṼṏẌṏḭḊ]

Don't give up after one experience.

[superslayer]

Did you post memes outside of the meme channel

[Psychlapse]

People are fickle. Put it behind you and keep pushing forward.

If you really want to be part of a community you will eventually find one you can settle into.

Also, this kind of ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ happens more than you think. People be People.

[Rio]

Sometimes people just get mean and decide to be mean to you randomly for laughs. happened to me plenty of times. Like one of the last times i was on vrchat I thought some people were cool.. But it turned out they were hackers and they just wanted to screw with me as their last target.

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引用自 Irene ❤：

You mention you're introvert, so you won't communicate with them when you don't have to. In an online world it means you don't care about them. They log in, see that you're ignoring them, but other friends messaged them. They messaged because they are outtrovert and they won't feel comfortable if they never talk.

In the long run, they formed their own small groups to "care for each other" and communicated all withoutout you, and you became redundant and not trustworthily, so they removed you. Communication is key to hold onto people.

If you're introvert, then chances are you'd be alone. It's usually the outtrovert that finds you, let you experience some love, and eventually talk to you less and less, finally leaving you alone.

i I understand your point

first of all i play with them three times two times "random search" i was very nice to them i give them heals i told them secrets and tips about the game and they was nice to me

next day "third time" i joined with them randomly they asked me to join thier server on discord i joined and we played outlast and talk we had so much fun i felt like this is my place next day they kick me? and they starting to be mean to me,,i asked them no answer they ignored me and deleted me and i sent to them friend request after they deleted me i felt like clown and stupid ..

How can I not be trustworthy when they did not give me time?
if they will kick me out next day why they invited me in first place?
too many Q in my head It's causing me anxiety

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引用自 Sparky mark phillips：

as someone who is incapable of trust in humans i feel a similar pain.

it hurts

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引用自 ⛧：

Sometimes people just get mean and decide to be mean to you randomly for laughs. happened to me plenty of times. Like one of the last times i was on vrchat I thought some people were cool.. But it turned out they were hackers and they just wanted to screw with me as their last target.

i believe that's what happened to me it hurts you know...

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引用自 Psychlapse：

People are fickle. Put it behind you and keep pushing forward.

If you really want to be part of a community you will eventually find one you can settle into.

Also, this kind of ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ happens more than you think. People be People.

i hope so

[Irene ❤]

引用自 ❄إِيثرال：

How can I not be trustworthy when they did not give me time?
if they will kick me out next day why they invited me in first place?
too many Q in my head It's causing me anxiety

They already formed their own group. Which means they all wish to keep themselves that group for more gaming opportunities. If 1 of them feared you for whatever reason - e.g. you play better than him - a little backstab will happen, and you're gone without anyone explaining to you.

There are survival methods to overcome this, especially at work.

1) lead or be lead - When you join a new group, ask and find out who that leader is. Then talk to that leader in a no respect tone to show you are not someone weak. It's not to pick a fight. It's to demonstrate to everyone in that group that you can be a 2nd choice. That way the weakest in the group won't stab you. That person will try to make friends with you.

2) Never reveal your true thoughts. People will pretend to be your friend, ask who you like or dislike, then record it and use it against you. In any group, there will be weak people who use those survival skills.

3) Communicate. Talk to people around often. So if there is 1 backstab, the others will side you as you communicate with them. They might even reveal to you who that backstabber is.

However if it's just few games, people invited you and deleted you on just 1-3 days, then they only need a backup character. Probably their main friend have returned. Their group, their rules. Just remember their group name and never support it in future.

[Andrey]

I think different games are very different in terms of communication, community, how easy it is to find friends in them. In one game i have a lot of friends and a guild and in others i dont even want to stay with people. Maybe because different gameplay requires different relations: more close and free or more formal and strict.
Also i think you can't be friends with "them". You can have a lot of friends but you will be a friend with "him" or with "her" individually. It is a personal matter.

[ZZZZZ]

theres an important lesson if it comes to the internet.. many are no "real" friends, they leave sooner or later.. either cuz they found a different community that fits their interest more, or cuz they got a new game.. or cuz they got a new job.. or a new real life partner.. or tons of other reasons.. oh and some ofc hold grudges if u made the wrong joke but play friendly till they simply dont answer u anymore

[Q-T_3.14.exe]

I don't bother friending people on MP games. I got friend requests which I denied because we just met and we prolly won't meet again and during that meeting you really think this will last?

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引用自 Irene ❤：

引用自 ❄إِيثرال：

How can I not be trustworthy when they did not give me time?
if they will kick me out next day why they invited me in first place?
too many Q in my head It's causing me anxiety

They already formed their own group. Which means they all wish to keep themselves that group for more gaming opportunities. If 1 of them feared you for whatever reason - e.g. you play better than him - a little backstab will happen, and you're gone without anyone explaining to you.

There are survival methods to overcome this, especially at work.

1) lead or be lead - When you join a new group, ask and find out who that leader is. Then talk to that leader in a no respect tone to show you are not someone weak. It's not to pick a fight. It's to demonstrate to everyone in that group that you can be a 2nd choice. That way the weakest in the group won't stab you. That person will try to make friends with you.

2) Never reveal your true thoughts. People will pretend to be your friend, ask who you like or dislike, then record it and use it against you. In any group, there will be weak people who use those survival skills.

3) Communicate. Talk to people around often. So if there is 1 backstab, the others will side you as you communicate with them. They might even reveal to you who that backstabber is.

However if it's just few games, people invited you and deleted you on just 1-3 days, then they only need a backup character. Probably their main friend have returned. Their group, their rules. Just remember their group name and never support it in future.

i believe if i did that it will make difference yes i am introvert person but i can speak i can make a topic from no where but i didn't push myself and it's my fault

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引用自 Andrey：

I think different games are very different in terms of communication, community, how easy it is to find friends in them. In one game i have a lot of friends and a guild and in others i dont even want to stay with people. Maybe because different gameplay requires different relations: more close and free or more formal and strict.
Also i think you can't be friends with "them". You can have a lot of friends but you will be a friend with "him" or with "her" individually. It is a personal matter.

I know I can't be friends with them anymore but I have the right to know why they did this to me?