I wish I wasn't transgender but I am

[Felexiia]

This is not a joke;

I wish I could simply be content with being born as a man and not envy women for what they are.

I wish I could simply do HRT and "become" a girl but that is no easy feat, even though I am german, as I don't want to sadden my parents.

Being and acting female just feels so much better to me, I recently bought make-up and clothes and really enjoy it and want to get into it more but I could never come out the closet.

I also want to marry some day, have a wife and that of course is of the table if you are trans, since most women want a strong man who can protect them, care for them and be their masculine companion, not some femboy twink, no offense.

Anybody has any experiences in that regard?

[krag hag]

Publicado originalmente por Gumball v9:

The femboy stuff was a joke, relax. And height increase surgery is a normal desire for a man. I'm as fixed as it comes, I don't have any esteem issues.

Pretty funny how you want gender affirming surgeries and I don't lmao

[Goose]

alright gumball, what evidence would convince you that trans people are not harmful, nor are "indoctrinating" people?
because i am certain that we can find it, if you just tell us.

[Goose]

Publicado originalmente por Gumball v9:

Publicado originalmente por Erin:

Sure I still have some dysphoria, but it'll keep decreasing the further I get into my transition, some changes such as fat redistribution take a while to kick in. I really don't understand what makes you think that I would've been happier if I hadn't transitioned, this is what I wanted to do and this is how I feel happy. If I hadn't transitioned I probably would've been mute by now.

We all have to justify our purchases. And I'm fine with whatever you got yourself into, but when it comes to people that still have the option to not enroll into this madness, you need to completely stop trying to influence them to do what you did.

people are trans from the start, you can't be "enrolled" into it.

[Goose]

Publicado originalmente por Gumball v9:

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

alright gumball, what evidence would convince you that trans people are not harmful, nor are "indoctrinating" people?
because i am certain that we can find it, if you just tell us.

I can ask you the same question.

don't deflect, answer the question.

[Chesmu]

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

people are trans from the start, you can't be "enrolled" into it.

People performed the surgery since birth? lol you don't even know what trans means.

[krag hag]

Publicado originalmente por Gumball v9:

We all have to justify our purchases. And I'm fine with whatever you got yourself into, but when it comes to people that still have the option to not enroll into this madness, you need to completely stop trying to influence them to do what you did.

I just don't want OP (or anyone else for that matter) to experience the dysphoria I felt by ignoring it for too long. If you knew what it was like to live with it you wouldn't be saying the things you're saying

[krag hag]

Publicado originalmente por Chesmu:

People performed the surgery since birth? lol you don't even know what trans means.

You don't need surgery to be a transgender person

[Goose]

Publicado originalmente por Chesmu:

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

people are trans from the start, you can't be "enrolled" into it.

People performed the surgery since birth? lol you don't even know what trans means.

i would sure hope i know what it is, considering i am the thing you're trying to say i don't know anything about.

the surgery (transitioning) is a choice, being trans is not.

[Chesmu]

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

Publicado originalmente por Chesmu:

People performed the surgery since birth? lol you don't even know what trans means.

i would sure hope i know what it is, considering i am the thing you're trying to say i don't know anything about.

the surgery (transitioning) is a choice, being trans is not.

Trans means someone that transitioned, it's on the name. JC

[Goose]

Publicado originalmente por Gumball v9:

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

people are trans from the start, you can't be "enrolled" into it.

No they aren't, our environment shapes us, if you have this trangender indocrination bulslhit in your environment then you'll grow up with these ideas in your mind.

wasn't in my environment at all, yet here i am.

[Goose]

Publicado originalmente por Chesmu:

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

i would sure hope i know what it is, considering i am the thing you're trying to say i don't know anything about.

the surgery (transitioning) is a choice, being trans is not.

Trans means someone that transitioned, it's on the name. JC

no it does not.

[krag hag]

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

the surgery (transitioning) is a choice, being trans is not.

Even that is debatable, when you get to the point where dysphoria is a major interference with your life you don't really have a choice in transitioning

[Nogsec]

Publicado originalmente por Gumball v9:

Publicado originalmente por Saril-num:

uhhh gumball is a femboy with a height insecurity (who openly states he wants to get surgery to increase his height) who lives in a country whose biggest contribution to the world is suicide rates and he has created over 50 alt accounts just to post on these forums and be mean to people ...

he is far from "fixed" lol ..

The femboy stuff was a joke, relax. And height increase surgery is a normal desire for a man. I'm as fixed as it comes, I don't have any esteem issues.

its deafeningly obvious that you do hehe and i think everything you said about trans people (the baseless stuff) have your insecurities as the base really ... if you think being trans is "giving up as a man" then thats probs or rather likely judging from ur femboy thing just a fear of yours lol

[krag hag]

Publicado originalmente por Gumball v9:

I didn't grow up in a transgender environment, so no, I never knew what it felt to have gender dysphoria, which is so ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ stupid I just can't put it to words, and the only reason you had it were that you grew up in this kind of culture, you were literally indoctrinated. That's why this ♥♥♥♥ must not spread to the mainstream space, it's dangerous.

I grew up in the Dutch bible belt where queerness is heavily frowned upon

[Goose]

Publicado originalmente por Erin:

Publicado originalmente por Goose:

the surgery (transitioning) is a choice, being trans is not.

Even that is debatable, when you get to the point where dysphoria is a major interference with your life you don't really have a choice in transitioning

yeah true, but i wasn't about to get that specific when all i needed to give was a definition.