I wish I wasn't transgender but I am

[Lily]

This is not a joke;

I wish I could simply be content with being born as a man and not envy women for what they are.

I wish I could simply do HRT and "become" a girl but that is no easy feat, even though I am german, as I don't want to sadden my parents.

Being and acting female just feels so much better to me, I recently bought make-up and clothes and really enjoy it and want to get into it more but I could never come out the closet.

I also want to marry some day, have a wife and that of course is of the table if you are trans, since most women want a strong man who can protect them, care for them and be their masculine companion, not some femboy twink, no offense.

Anybody has any experiences in that regard?

[krag hag]

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

Of course he has the right but that doesn't mean he is actually correct. These symptoms are so generical that everybody has them.

That's just not true, what makes you think everyone has gender dysphoria

[=(^ ^)=]

Автор сообщения: Erin

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

Of course he has the right but that doesn't mean he is actually correct. These symptoms are so generical that everybody has them.

That's just not true, what makes you think everyone has gender dysphoria

I mean, the difference between what you read on the internet and what science says it's amazing. Feeling in the wrong body for instance in no way connected to dysphoria.

[krag hag]

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

I mean, the difference between what you read on the internet and what science says it's amazing. Feeling in the wrong body for instance in no way connected to dysphoria.

Of course there's individual symptoms that are very common but you could say that about anything. Gender dysphoria as a whole is uncommon, the individual symptoms are not.

[=(^ ^)=]

Автор сообщения: Erin

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

I mean, the difference between what you read on the internet and what science says it's amazing. Feeling in the wrong body for instance in no way connected to dysphoria.

Of course there's individual symptoms that are very common but you could say that about anything. Gender dysphoria as a whole is uncommon, the individual symptoms are not.

Mate, you need a doctor to see it, because it takes months for a phycotherapist with 20 years of experience to diagnose it. Also because there is no DNA test, so they need to check up also your family members. Nowadays, especially kids, they just read a page on wikipedia, often a meme or a tiktok, and automatically they start to act on the internet like if they really have it. This also goes with bipolar/borderline/autism etc. It looks like having a mental illness for these kids is a way to feel cool until they really end up in a clinic for a check-up. Not to mention the many activists who spread disinformation.

[JEZEBEL]

this post is like one of elon musks rocket launches, i keep expecting it to crash and burn but it just keeps getting higher and higher XD

[=(^ ^)=]

Yes, because if you even dare to differ from the nonsense these activists talk about, you get labelled as a misogynistic and a transphobic who still lives in the dark age.

[krag hag]

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

Mate, you need a doctor to see it, because it takes months for a phycotherapist with 20 years of experience to diagnose it. Also because there is no DNA test, so they need to check up also your family members. Nowadays, especially kids, they just read a page on wikipedia, often a meme or a tiktok, and automatically they start to act on the internet like if they really have it. This also goes with bipolar/borderline/autism etc. It looks like having a mental illness for these kids is a way to feel cool until they really end up in a clinic for a check-up. Not to mention the many activists who spread disinformation.

Gender dysphoria and bipolar/autism are not comparable whatsoever. You obviously don't know what you're talking about so why should I take your word for any of this when I'm the one that actually suffers from gender dysphoria. You have no idea what it's like to have gender dysphoria and going through the process of getting a diagnosis.

[=(^ ^)=]

Автор сообщения: Erin

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

Mate, you need a doctor to see it, because it takes months for a phycotherapist with 20 years of experience to diagnose it. Also because there is no DNA test, so they need to check up also your family members. Nowadays, especially kids, they just read a page on wikipedia, often a meme or a tiktok, and automatically they start to act on the internet like if they really have it. This also goes with bipolar/borderline/autism etc. It looks like having a mental illness for these kids is a way to feel cool until they really end up in a clinic for a check-up. Not to mention the many activists who spread disinformation.

Gender dysphoria and bipolar/autism are not comparable whatsoever. You obviously don't know what you're talking about so why should I take your word for any of this when I'm the one that actually suffers from gender dysphoria. You have no idea what it's like to have gender dysphoria and going through the process of getting a diagnosis.

I'm talking about the fact that too many people, especially at a young age, self-diagnose anything according to some disinformation they read on the internet.

[JEZEBEL]

Автор сообщения: Erin

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

Mate, you need a doctor to see it, because it takes months for a phycotherapist with 20 years of experience to diagnose it. Also because there is no DNA test, so they need to check up also your family members. Nowadays, especially kids, they just read a page on wikipedia, often a meme or a tiktok, and automatically they start to act on the internet like if they really have it. This also goes with bipolar/borderline/autism etc. It looks like having a mental illness for these kids is a way to feel cool until they really end up in a clinic for a check-up. Not to mention the many activists who spread disinformation.

Gender dysphoria and bipolar/autism are not comparable whatsoever. You obviously don't know what you're talking about so why should I take your word for any of this when I'm the one that actually suffers from gender dysphoria. You have no idea what it's like to have gender dysphoria and going through the process of getting a diagnosis.

it has to be difficult to go through and i wasn't going to say anything, but i do agree with you more tbh, im not picking sides just my personal opinion, i hope you are ok though and are doing well

Автор сообщения: =(^ ^)=

Yes, because if you even dare to differ from the nonsense these activists talk about, you get labelled as a misogynistic and a transphobic who still lives in the dark age.

i see what your saying as well when two people have differing opinions, its easier to just label them as misogynistic or trans phobic, but you two are arguing about it instead of having a healthy disagreement, at some point it does and will devolve into those accusations

[=(^ ^)=]

Nobody is arguing tbh. I'm just saying people should go tho a medical care before coming out with self diagnosis.

[JEZEBEL]

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Nobody is arguing tbh.

good to hear we should all just get along with each other, no matter what we believe to be the case, its better and easier that way, acceptance is key to any good healthy relationships

[Chunk Norris ☯]

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Автор сообщения: Erin

Gender dysphoria and bipolar/autism are not comparable whatsoever. You obviously don't know what you're talking about so why should I take your word for any of this when I'm the one that actually suffers from gender dysphoria. You have no idea what it's like to have gender dysphoria and going through the process of getting a diagnosis.

I'm talking about the fact that too many people, especially at a young age, self-diagnose anything according to some disinformation they read on the internet.

I 100% agree with where you're coming from. But it's not very hard for doctors to rush through a diagnosis of trans, there's lots of lawsuits right now from de-transitioners sueing their doctor for this very thing.

[Xero_Daxter]

People who want to transition should sign a waiver before transitioning so they can’t sue the doctor later if they change their mind.

[Lily]

Автор сообщения: Gumball v9

Ever heard of the fact that people can reinvent themselves? You should work toward it. This transgender crap isn't something that's not fixable. You understand it yourself, you don't want to mess with natural order of things, it has millions of consequences.

If you were born a man, then you're going to die a man, it's that simple.

makes sense I guess

[Goose]

Автор сообщения: Ellie

Автор сообщения: Gumball v9

Ever heard of the fact that people can reinvent themselves? You should work toward it. This transgender crap isn't something that's not fixable. You understand it yourself, you don't want to mess with natural order of things, it has millions of consequences.

If you were born a man, then you're going to die a man, it's that simple.

makes sense I guess

it does not, don't listen to gumball, he doesn't know what he's talking about.