Girl dont want to give number even we are dating many times is it normal?

[Unity]

we date for like 5 times and we still keep in touch even today, but something bothered me when i ask for her number she dont want to give it

[GunsForBucks]

How much do these dates cost?

Do you get to hold her papers during the date?

[ʙᴜɴ.ᴇ]

if I was dating somebody they would already have my phone from being in a friendship with me.

since dating is a level above friendship its a bit fishy she wont share her number. Not having any trust and trying to form a relationship is a recipe for disaster.

[TWPanda77]

From the paragraph you have written I would say that she is not sure about you yet. It could be that she has a relationship with someone but is confused about it and you.

[Schamyl006]

she doesnt geniunely like you

[Unity]

Първоначално публикувано от Angel:

Sorry to say but I'm going with a very solid friends-zone. If a girl is even the slightest bit interested, they will give their phone numbers (even many introverted ones). The reason why they won't want to give the number is because they don't want to be contacted regularly by that person. The one thing that throws this situation off for me is that you've already gone on multiple dates however even when friends-only, people would usually be able to get a number just to hang out or simple chat messages.

I was the first guy she ever dated tho, she doesnt even have any ex

[Unity]

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How much do these dates cost?

Do you get to hold her papers during the date?

She treated me mostly in Starbucks, but i tried to treat her more but she insisted that she pays. She is also germaphobe so yeah hahaha

[ZZZZZ]

why do u need her phone number to begin with

[Unity]

Първоначално публикувано от TWPanda77:

From the paragraph you have written I would say that she is not sure about you yet. It could be that she has a relationship with someone but is confused about it and you.

I tried accusing her of talking to someone else and she gets angry

[Unity]

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why do u need her phone number to begin with

Its like a personal part of her just to share something to me, you know like wanting to know her

[Mr. Smiles]

You might be her side piece...

[Affronter]

Probably business policy to keep things at a professional level.

[TwisterCat]

If I asked one of my homies for their number, they'd probably drive over to my house to gratefully give it to me written down on a piece of gold-laced paper. I'd just forget about her, if she's keeping you at such a distance.

[Kamiyama]

So you contact her through IM and she's not giving you her number?

YOU are the guy she is cheating with!

[Unity]

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So you contact her through IM and she's not giving you her number?

YOU are the guy she is cheating with!

She doesnt even leave the house her neighbors and mother says so, she practiced being a nun once i dont think she might do that

[kilésengati]

Her not trusting you with her phone number, I find a tad weird. But since you have other ways of communications: What gives?

What I find more off-putting is her not letting you invite her to a date (invite as in paying for it), but on the other hand inviting you constantly. Is she in fear of loosing control?
Sorry, but seems like a massive friend zone to me or she's just attempting to buy your friendship. Both of which is just playing with you and your feelings - at the very least a very one-sided relationship.
If she's a mature friend, either a real platonic friend or a serious romantic partner, you should be able to bring forward your grievances towards her behaviour reasonably and she will respond without drama.
If her behaviour is a serious issue to you, you will need to talk about it or it will destabilise your relationship in a feedback loop of uncomfortableness. Don't you think that if you are uncomfortable with a certain circumstance or behaviour of hers, she will notice and feel uncomfortable as well?
You can't solve an issue without talking about it in a reasonable manner, which should be possible in a healthy relationship.

If talking about these issues in a reasonable and fair manner is destroying your relationship, it wasn't meant to be to begin with.

But that's just my cheap two cents on this topic.