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Pretty much agree with all of this. Terms like "sex-positive" are chronically misused and meaningless these days. Most of the time they're misappropriated by people who are not sex-positive, rather sex-fixated.
But I do think much of it is also informed by our culturally bipolar treatment of sex. For young people it is usually represented as "forbidden" - which of course only makes young folk want it more (just like drugs, alcohol, etc). Then you have the flipside of media culture, where audiences have practically come to require sex's presence within their entertainment, or they can't enjoy it (I'm lookin' at you, nude/porn mods). But the mind-♥♥♥♥ doesn't stop there, because then elsewhere it'll be scrubbed or kept out of media completely, even when there is a good reason to include it contextually, as if sex itself never existed. It's like we culturally cannot decide if we're okay with it or not. Don't even get me started on ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ like "abstinence education" programs. Oh and add increasingly easy access to pornography via technology, and it's even worse and even muddier, again.
When someone is exposed to all of that back-to-back-to-back starting from an early age, it's no wonder people are so confused that they fall back on their basest hedonic animal instincts. Many are basically driven mad by this, which I think is part of why they end up constantly hurling themselves at anyone and everyone who agrees to touch them. Or, in the very worst cases, at people who didn't agree.
I think if we were capable of acknowledging and talking about sex without going way overboard one way or the other, people would have a more healthy view of it and know how and when to keep it within a reasonable context.
It has different levels of importance to different people, and that's fine, but it really should never be a core deciding factor in whether two people pursue a relationship or not. There are so many much more important factors that go into making a relationship strong, but it's true that these days it does seem like nobody knows (or won't acknowledge) that.
Also, remember that passing the test of time, rarely requires to pass it with "good grades". Just like a "marathon" or something, VS quick burst of a single run. Genuinely long-lasting relationships, require extraordinary individuals. Those are pretty rare to come by out there, in life.
Bingo, agreed!
Also what you're talking about reminds me of the rat utopia experiment to a lesser degree. Given the erratic behaviour, the prone to addiction behaviour, the loneliness crisis, the mental health crisis, the relantionship crisis, among many other factors going on in several countries across the globe.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NgGLFozNM2o
get a clue.
Take, consumme, throw it away, pick another one, repeat.
Long term run, solid boundings, deep feelings and such mean nothing.
Sex is part of a relationship, but sex isn't a relationship.
Organization, systematization, instrumentalization. Weave the threads into the hearts and minds, the world pulls and plucks away. Like musical instruments, or puppets. You don't create water, you find a spring, make a well, build an aqueduct. Anything that still exists did something that worked and dissolved everything that didn't work. Either that or it was a product of opportunity, and formed a behavioral sink the organism is incapable of escaping from.
It's really sad to think that
She actually is a woman.