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Fortunately, I can type at warp speed, so it isn't that much of an effort. I just don't like wasting words. It does almost make one want to copy and paste some basic stock answers.
The funny thing was when I was a trainer, the more I charged, the more the words were treated like manna falling from the sky.
People often times need to be (proverbially) smacked for it to become real.
Well said. Wisdom ain't innate.
However, if one sets a six month goal, one can get there. Start with attitude and determination if you want a high probability of success.
Tis a pickle - to be sure. Both wishing to swap places. Heh.
There is someone I want you to look up and get to listening.
Go onto YT and find Tom Leykis.
There are endless talks there aimed at men.
Tom Leykis.
You're better off... I'm sorry to have to say that I am not. I wish I was though... Trust me the "pleasure" part is about the same as a toy or your hands.
Ultimately the ones who are NOT virgins and who are single or forever failing in relationships are much worse off than you in regards to their "love lives".
I personally think back when I was young, a child even or a young teen, when I so desperately yearned to have someone to love -not sexually, but intimately- and the thoughts I had were so different than today.
I would image someone nice, gentle, and kind who would talk to me sweetly and devote themselves to me fully as we crusade though life together...
IF I could I would turn back time to those days over 20 years ago now.... back when I had family... And while I was always so shy, even I was able to fantasize about hopes and dreams of my one true love that I just KNEW would be there for me.
But life isn't like how we dream as when we are kids. People are nasty and unkind and cruel.... This world has devastated my hopes, my dreams, my confidence, my aspirations, and my childhood bravado...
....
But to get back to answering you:
I'm not a virgin, though when people ask I often say "it doesn't matter" and they either think I'm hiding something or they think I am a virgin. When they think I am a virgin it makes me happy and I feel pride.... IT's a very commendable thing and I cherish it so much!
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These day I am pretty jaded but I somehow feel people are just TERRIBLE in terms of potential dates... I wonder if it has always been this way or if it really is worse... People just seem so awful treating each other like trash and ending their own children's lives after careless less, or ruining their own child's lives through a horrible relationship filled with drugs or abuse or neglect with the 50+ percent divorce rate.... People online in games and forums are just there to tease, mock, and belittle and they only care about having attention, status, or some rare items or high levels. IF they are offline you can just look at them to see them on their phones talking to whomever they deem an appropriate fit while avoiding everyone in the actual real life room...
....
I hope that answered your question somehow.
27 and counting no date no kiss no gf the full 9 yards.
tbh it's not that big a deal for people nowadays. No matter what some thots say or feminists. Any idiot can get laid. Takes a lot more to restrain especially women it's piss poor easy to get laid as a girl vs guys. You can also get laid but if they stay afterwards is another thing entirely. Let alone if you live a fulfilling life with said other person(s) (i don't judge).
There is nothing wrong with your love life. I actually read that women prefer older men for whatever reason statistically on average. If anything you're aging like wine my dude while other girls who you were invisible too are slowly aging like milk. Some left out in the hot sun open bottle the works lol!
Same with relationships seen soo sooooo soo many people divorce and just have god awful marriages. I wonder why tf they even got together or how they stayed together for so long. I'm not talking fighting arguments about everyday stuff. I'm talking full on if they were in a room and they didn't or did know each other they'd avoid each other.
I feel you.
My instincts are literally the most irrational thing on this planet. But I can't help myself.
I can conclude by the responses in this thread that it is not a shame being a virgin, and it is not a shame not being a virgin, i guess. Sure tho, i can understand the losses one can experience chasing things like this. Also, i see it kinda as my achilles heel being a virgin, and i'm generally really bad with women in general, unfortunately, given i only had 1 relation in my life, and it didn't last too long, but it was pretty nice and i loved her.
True.