How would you feel if someone was obsessed/stalking you?

[Dwolfin]

Would you do anything? How would you feel about it?

[GunsForBucks]

https://youtu.be/pPrVf2mT6-E

https://youtu.be/3okqdLTI_MU

[Vault Hunter 101]

I would be like:
"Damn, you really want to see my ugly face that much?"

[Mr C.Folt Scruff]

Maybe i'm weird but i would have no strong feeling about it.

[I'm_Tired]

I don’t mind if it was a female

[ʙᴜɴ.ᴇ]

what can you do?

if that happens, just go with the flow, unless the obsessed person becomes a danger to you.

[TWPanda77]

I have some experience of this but it did not get very serious because my family was able to resolve the matter with my ex boyfriends family directly. I have not had any contact from him now for more than one year. I am glad that it was necessary to contact the police and not just because I have little confidence that they would investigate and that I would be taken seriously.

It was not pleasant to be plagued by messages saying he is sorry and him "accidentally" being in the place I would be and showing up at work and worried he will be waiting when I finish late in the evening time. The issue is that they remain constantly in your mind wondering what they will do next and that can be scary.

[lee_bobbins]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Bing Chilling:

really evenone is human non of us are invincible
so i'd go face to face with them first
and talk to them about it (in a "super nice way i swear")
if that didn't work a restraining order
and some other things steam probably isn't the place to say it

This ends poorly for most. It is opposite of what is recommended, which is to give obsessive stalkers no "reward". What gets rewarded gets repeated, and the stalker wants the target's attention. So if you reward a nutcase with attention, you will get more nutcase.

Oh I just re-read his Bing's last line... ya, do that first.

[Apollo702]

Unfortunately, restraining orders rarely work.

The authorities are lazy about granting them, they tend to be toothless, they have to be served...

In the real world they are about as effective as the "Do not call" list.

[trousers]

i'm pretty sure i married this person

[DoomsDay]

i am unable to take human words as compliment ,i can take cash tho.

[Xero_Daxter]

I'm experiencing that now.

[Muhyoui]

In my circumstances (and other things the heavily influence this) I'd be terrified. Calling the cops, restraining order, whole nine yards

[Muhyoui]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Xero_Daxter:

I'm experiencing that now.

Uh, hope you're alright

[Dwolfin]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Xero_Daxter:

I'm experiencing that now.

I think many people do one point or another

[xAlphaStarOmegax]

As long as they ain't plotting to kidnap, sexually assault, or murder me we good.