I feel bad for Johnny Depp.

[SmudgyRotter]

Even though I shouldn’t because he is just another celebrity that is very rich, but this is only from another human being to another. He is just an example, just like million other good working red blooded, American men that went through abusive relationship, are being taken advantage of, because they love hot girls. I like hot girls too, and this lesson kinda makes me to think twice if I should want to live with a hot girl. Hot girl can be scary and ruin my life.

[Your_White_Knight]

Publicado originalmente por SmudgyRotter:

I feel bad for Johnny Depp.

Even though I shouldn’t because he is just another celebrity that is very rich, but this is only from another human being to another. He is just an example, just like million other good working red blooded, American men that went through abusive relationship, are being taken advantage of, because they love hot girls. I like hot girls too, and this lesson kinda makes me to think twice if I should want to live with a hot girl. Hot girl can be scary and ruin my life.

Well more to the point...

Being famous doesn't mean you'll be happy.
Being rich doesn't mean you'll be happy.
Being with someone who is "hot" doesn't mean you'll be happy.
Being a man doesn't mean you can't be the victim in the relationship.
Being famous, rich, and "hot" doesn't mean they are not also a crazy woman to be avoided.

There's many lessons to be learned by this... hopefully it turns out well for Mr. Johnny Depp.

[Your_White_Knight]

Publicado originalmente por Mr Jt:

Amber heart isn’t hot

Agree.. I don't see it either... especially now, lol.

[Devsman]

I dunno, you don't accidentally become a superstar, and you have to know what you're getting yourself into.

Doesn't excuse anything, of course.

[Yavin Shikanoko]

I'm more worried about piranhas

[𝕎𝔸𝕃𝕋𝔼ℝ]

I feel bad for anyone who taps into all their personal problems with profound interest.

[Samwise]

Publicado originalmente por Rumpelcrutchskin:

It`s just a media circus, haven`t paid any attention to it since it will be nothing but crap flinging.

Same. Also, none of us knows either of them personally, and both are capable of lying or manipulating people. Looks can be deceiving, Depp looks like a good guy and he has warm voice, now those are things narcissist, psychopath or smart but bad person can use to deceive.

Unless some undisputable evidence comes out i'm going to assume neither of them is any better than the other.

[Samwise]

Publicado originalmente por 𝕎𝔸𝕃𝕋𝔼ℝ:

I feel bad for anyone who taps into all their personal problems with profound interest.

These arent just ordinary people whose marriage issues became public entertainment for everyone out of nowhere, both are actors, and wants to be seen, wants to be noticed and admired. Doesnt all lf them hunger for publicity? I mean why else does one become an actor in the first place?

[iza]

Publicado originalmente por Samwise:

Publicado originalmente por Rumpelcrutchskin:

It`s just a media circus, haven`t paid any attention to it since it will be nothing but crap flinging.

Same. Also, none of us knows either of them personally, and both are capable of lying or manipulating people. Looks can be deceiving, Depp looks like a good guy and he has warm voice, now those are things narcissist, psychopath or smart but bad person can use to deceive.

Unless some undisputable evidence comes out i'm going to assume neither of them is any better than the other.

Yeah I don't know, I don't ♥♥♥♥ on my SO's side of the bed. Also her filming him at the lowest point just shows up that she's definitely the worse person. Not saying Depp is an angel here, far off, but the more this is going the more I get to see that she is pretty insane.

Publicado originalmente por Samwise:

Publicado originalmente por 𝕎𝔸𝕃𝕋𝔼ℝ:

I feel bad for anyone who taps into all their personal problems with profound interest.

These arent just ordinary people whose marriage issues became public entertainment for everyone out of nowhere, both are actors, and wants to be seen, wants to be noticed and admired. Doesnt all lf them hunger for publicity? I mean why else does one become an actor in the first place?

Unfortunately in the states you can see those things in public, there isn't even a big choice here. Depp doesn't need "attention" here, as he was in two AAA films involved before the problems started. He clearly doesn't want to return to PotC either, although he is the literal face of it. I'd agree with you about that point, but with Depp it doesn't really open up.

"Becoming an actor" can also involve into jumping off reality. You play a different role and you have to adapt to it. There are many reasons, more than I just said. I don't know the reason why Depp did it tho :P

[agu]

How can you be abused by a woman? They are so weaker that unless you're incapable and bedridden there is no way you could take abuse (especially physical) and not retaliate... She's just crazy and he's a pothead, no different from your everyday trashy couple, it ain't a big deal

[Barney, from Black Mesa.]

Publicado originalmente por Aguker:

How can you be abused by a woman? They are so weaker that unless you're incapable and bedridden there is no way you could take abuse (especially physical) and not retaliate.

You've never experienced the wrath of an angry (or protective) housewife haven't you? Sure we're biologically built to be more like 'war machines' however that doesn't mean that a lady is incapable of inflicting damage either physical or psychological. The circumstances often consider when the action of self-defence is appropriate however not all instances of domestic violence (male or female) warrants the retaliation of a physical brawl—if it ever came to that then one should of already seen the red flags and left like what I'd assume 'Jack Sparrow' sensibly did.

Publicado originalmente por 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝔹𝕠𝕤𝕤™:

you're putting a huge target on your back by posting this.

Did you just arrive late to the internet? Anything that anyone says online is basically going to be a loaded handgun. ;-)

[Xero_Daxter]

I heard bits and pieces of the story but not in detail.

[reebs]

Publicado originalmente por iza:

Publicado originalmente por Schindler's Lifts:

Same here. What Amber Heard is doing is incredibly childish and just downright stupid.


This is a lesson for all of us. No matter how tempting it is, don't EVER stick your ♥♥♥♥ in crazy.

After hearing the bed story with one half in human feces I was done. That ain't a toxic relationship, this is a post-nuclear relationship lmao.

wait till you find out she cut off his ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ finger

[iza]

Publicado originalmente por Mochii:

Publicado originalmente por iza:

After hearing the bed story with one half in human feces I was done. That ain't a toxic relationship, this is a post-nuclear relationship lmao.

wait till you find out she cut off his ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ finger

Oh yeah I did hear that. That was so messed up. Although I think it was "only" half of the finger but A B S O L U T E L Y messed up.

[Morkonan]

Publicado originalmente por SmudgyRotter:

Even though I shouldn’t because he is just another celebrity that is very rich, but this is only from another human being to another. He is just an example, ...

Depp's not alone.

There's a disturbing tendency for young "stars" on a meteoric rise in popularity or success to appear to stop maturing emotionally, personally, as one would consider a normal person maturing through life. This holds true across the spectrum of all "performance art," more or less. Though, oddly enough, I don't know if ballet, opera, classical musicians and the like have similar paths. I doubt it - Their notoriety doesn't involve as much direct exposure to the outside world.

What you're seeing in the Depp/Heard story is a story about broken people and one that is fueled by alcoholism. There are any number of people, even some here, who can relate worse tragedies and horrors surrounding alcoholism and abusive relationships. Depp and Heard's is nothing remarkable in terms of abusive, alcoholism-fueled, relationships.

What is different, though, is that neither of these people led "normal" lives. Both seem to have carried the luggage of their notoriety and failed development into this relationship.

I don't bother myself with "celebrities," but I find their ability to carry along and indulge in what would be entirely destructive behaviors in other people... fascinating. This is what such behavior looks like when the normal life that others would lead would have long curtailed it.

Don't mistake what you're seeing for behavior and interactions in a normal relationship. It's not. The abuse here, Depp's alcoholism, Heard's sadism, has only survive this long without tragedy because of who these people have become.

And, to be fair, it's only because of what they were denied that it has gone so very far. It's as if these faults in broken people were insulated from the reality that others face. How many of us "regular folks" could have carried our alcoholism or abuse through every facet of our lives for so long and still continue to indulge it? Who would have hired us? What would our friends or family have done when faced with our behavior? What rude awakenings would we have faced if we had indulged so very heavily in our own terrible faults?

There is no "rock bottom" for these people. There's only a point at which they can sink until they're standing over a cliff and staring into the abyss, held aloft as they are, untreated, unassisted, with none that they can truly trust to have their best interests as a human being at heart. There are many others desperate to maintain the status of these people for their own reasons and not out of any normal, human, concerns.

Sure, some people would love the celebrity of living such a life. I'd think it would be something to be avoided. It's sounds terrifying.

Anyway, you can see worse playing out in any courtroom in probably every country between people nobody particularly cares about, but who are still deserving of a bit of sympathy, nonetheless.

PS: There's usually a common trend in some portions of society to bring down the famous and to take delight in the failures of celebrities. The schadenfreude is strong when people see celebrities crashing into the spotlight society shines on them.

[Holding These Alligators Down]

I've seen some of the court videos and it does seem she was one who was mostly in the wrong.

I don't get why people stay in toxic relationships, especially someone like Johnny Depp who has zero money issues and let's be honest could probably get any woman he wants with very little effort.

I think if some crazy ♥♥♥♥♥ threw a bottle at me and it severed my finger, that would be the final straw, i wouldn't stick around no matter how hot she was.