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Alright, accept your excuse... This time.
The most attractive trait in a man for woman is the attractiveness of this man to other woman
(or at least being percieved as such)
- being confident in your attitude both body and verbal language is therefore important.
- humor/quirkyness also helps as one usually cannot do that without confidence
money, status looks etc are irrelevant for woman but it may help the man having them feel more secure about himself so their effect is only indirect.
Without seeing this I almost replied with the exact same hierarchy, although I'll specify that the difference of importance from looks down to personality relatively small. This is more like the order of operations a woman might assess their attraction to a man in a practical sense
i.e.
Women goes to club
(Looks) Woman sees a handsome stranger on the other side of the club
Step 1: "Who's the hottie?"
(Status) Woman's friend knows who he is
Step 2: "Oh, he's a philanthropist?"
(Wealth) Woman flirts with him and he takes her on a date the very same night
Step 3: "Are you sure you don't want to split the bill? It's $2,000..."
(Personality) Woman tells her friend about him after the first date
Step 4: "All he did was talk about his Aspberger's diagnosis and make Minecraft jokes, even towards the waitress. He just couldn't stop talking about himself either. He's still such a cute and handsome guy and he paid for my dinner so I think I'll get dressed to go see him tonight."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BR_LviCwSiY
Thats MY job.
You can tank me later.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQfzwFloVqA
you seen many models dating hobos...?
Implying that the first 2 valued items can't be both so highly valued that both of them are requirements.
...once people have exceeded a certain threshold of attractiveness, though, instead of eliminating options from consideration via their appearance, you can use something else, such as "personality", which makes it the dominant reason for the decision, & the looks secondary - yet both being requirements.
I think that's how both most men & women work, since you can't really tell who someone is just by looking at them but you can just look at someone & tell if you find them physically attractive or not.
Looks are USUALLY going to be the first thing someone is basing their decision off of, but that doesn't mean it's going to be the highest priority thing, even if a certain threshold is often a requirement.
And don't bother changing your personality because that could mean anything.
Terrible people tend to like the personality of other terrible people,
OR of people that they can control.
Maybe someone isn't terrible but is instead rather thoughtless & just wants to surround themselves with other thoughtless people - I see that one happen a lot.
People tend to be extremely classist here, only taking interest in people who are of their same income-class or higher, but rarely pairing with people of different wealth-classes because of... a lot of factors. I can't type them all out & elaborate at the moment but I don't necessarily need to because I recall this video that describes it adequately for everyone except the lower-class & criminally accused :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AL2W3nm-GJ4
Lower-class are actually treated worse than what she describes & criminally accused didn't even necessarily "make a mistake" as enough of them, to be A LOT of people, get framed by corrupt cops who hide, disregard, or destroy exculpatory evidence.
(A problem that the wealthy never have to deal with.)
The stigma created from this is so strong that even she doesn't really address it.
It's all just a calculation, and personality is considered last in that calculation.