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Nomad 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 1:11
Is it bad to be a simp?
I've had a lot of partners in my life and i'm not even ashamed to admit that I am a huge simp. Is that bad?
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Nomad 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 2:53 
I don't really value it tbh
S73v3NH4wk1n9 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 2:54 
引用自 TRASH
I don't really value it tbh

:o
Nomad 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 2:55 
is that bad? i don't really get the point
S73v3NH4wk1n9 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 2:57 
引用自 TRASH
is that bad? i don't really get the point

It's not bad, but brave! It's cool how open you are about it, you seem super chill :D

Atleast you are not shy, just go for it!
Dutchgamer1982 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 3:04 
what even IS a simp.
-it an unrefined meme so it can mean anything to anyone.
-chad or alpha is unrifined either...
*
and it is often the childish barbaric caveman calling more mature evolved persons simp..

if being loyal to a single woman. and commitment is simp.. and being a player, a hearthbreaker who get laid a lot but will never have true intemicy is chad..
than clearly being simp is not alone accceptable it is the only right way to be.

if you have the braveness as a man to be true to your own likes and desires.. say you like to dress in fine polo.. go do ballet, or drink wine not beer, or apreciate good manners or rather visit an opera than a football match and that is simp
but if you drank beer watched football dressed like a lumberjack etc totally betraying you is chad..

than I think people have their defenitions twisted.. alowing yourself to be not who you really are is a simp move.. it does not matter if it is a girl or your mates who cause you to do so. and to be true to yourself no matter what people think.. thats the real chadmove..

if being meek, gentle polight to ladies older people and everyone is simp and being a rude egocentric loud obnoxious person who has eye only for himself is chad..

again than it is better to be simp..
sure having a little of elbowwork in you is needed in life. you do want to be able to stand up for yourself when needed.. but not always doing so.. and be the wiser man.. does not a simp make... but makes a boy into a man.

finally the classic views.

a sub..
a person who has one opinion but does act like he agrees with his gf/wife with everything.. in his household the lady wears the pants..
being sub in life is as bad as being an agressive personality grow a pair and become assertive.
if this is ment by simp absolutely stio being one.. those simps allow the excistance of karens.

a looser :
-find it hard to get a girlfriend and has no bar at all. will walk behind any lady.
*this is bad... while I just not want to be alone is a totally valid argument for a relationship.. having the wrong relationshio is worse than having none.
*it is even worse when you fall pray to golddiggers.. it is one thing to gift gifts out yourself.. spend a lot of energy hunting.. especially if you like soneone.. and we stay man... but you should recognise golddigger behaviour and be able to just say no to that..
so if being a simp is this : change asap!

a wimp :
- the person who us afraid of anything spiders height... change..etc
*knowing what you like and not is fine you are a man.. you dont have to prove your manlyness by being a stereotype.. you not like a thing you dont do it.
however if your life is controlled by your fears.. instead if yourself.. if you cannot be or do what you desire.. you must change and fight your fears. brave is not the man who acts without fear but the one thar acts despite his fears.
Fumo Bnnuy n Frends 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 3:14 
引用自 TRASH
I've had a lot of partners in my life and i'm not even ashamed to admit that I am a huge simp. Is that bad?
Depends

if you're in a relationship that's already not much of a simp. IMO a simp is someone who does ♥♥♥♥ for someone else without getting any. Yet they still do it.

Unless like one of your partners (idk if you're a guy or girl based on name and pfp) does like ♥♥♥♥ idk open relationship or onlyfans / streaming cam girl/guy (yeah they do it too) then yeah that's more a cuck than a simp.


There is nothing inheritely wrong with caring for your partners. Though the fact you had quite a few also sorta means idk. It depends if they break up with you or you with them. And if you go crawling back or trying to get them back afterwards.
Nomad 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 3:16 
Sorry if I don't reply to every post, I am reading them though.
AD 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 3:19 
I don't think it's bad to have a partner, no.

Honestly thought "simp" was mostly a meme, except sometimes when it's used to tell someone that they are way too obsessed over someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or something like that, not sure.
Nomad 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 3:36 
引用自 Christmas Vampire
Though the fact you had quite a few also sorta means idk. It depends if they break up with you or you with them. And if you go crawling back or trying to get them back afterwards.
Yeah my friend told me that too. Like it is concerning that i have had partners and FWBs. I'm not really sure though things come and go like I don't think it's a big deal to have relations with people as long as it is safe and you are mature about it i guess?
no one knows what the word means
Fumo Bnnuy n Frends 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 3:44 
引用自 AD
I don't think it's bad to have a partner, no.

Honestly thought "simp" was mostly a meme, except sometimes when it's used to tell someone that they are way too obsessed over someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or something like that, not sure.
i think it means you're obsessed with someone and not getting any. Like not in a relationship.

basically an evolution of white knight but actually doing or giving stuff to said person.

Women can be simps too. Imo those groupies or random fans that would pay for guns and roses stuff like groceries and whatever the hell else they asked. Those imo would be considered simps.
Volfogg 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 3:49 
I don't know. Never bothered with relationship of any kind. Besides... non-solid relationships are kinda discouraged here for cultural reasons.
Dutchgamer1982 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 4:00 
引用自 Christmas Vampire
引用自 AD
I don't think it's bad to have a partner, no.

Honestly thought "simp" was mostly a meme, except sometimes when it's used to tell someone that they are way too obsessed over someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or something like that, not sure.
i think it means you're obsessed with someone and not getting any. Like not in a relationship.

basically an evolution of white knight but actually doing or giving stuff to said person.

Women can be simps too. Imo those groupies or random fans that would pay for guns and roses stuff like groceries and whatever the hell else they asked. Those imo would be considered simps.


nah..
if you really love someone.. like the love of your life.. yet they dont want you..
it can be impossible to forget that one..
sure you move on.. must face realism and marry somebody else but that will always be a poor substitute for who you really desire .
but if that object of your love even despite not desiring to have anything to do with you in the future was in danger.. or needed life saving operation or such would you not move mountains to make it happen sure you would.
would you expect any love for that ofcourse not.. you know the object of your love is not into you and perhals even objectively a ***** rationally that is..
but love is its own reward so you act on it none the less.
would thar mean you would give her money and donations and free stuff whule she is wasting it.. not apreciating it.. and trampling your heart heCK no!
you loving her forever does not make you stupid you full well know what being played is and you wont fall for ot.
it does not mean that you dont love anymore and that if given a real good reason the white knight would put on his white armor one last time.. despite the blacksmiths/farmers life he leads now..

if you ever have loved someone you had to let go but never wanted too you feel this one;)

is that being a simp? including the bad habit of talking to new partners about her.. than I am one despite nobody ever walking over me or gaining freebees at my expense.. )

but we all can have the one that got away.. fact of life..
最後修改者:Dutchgamer1982; 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 4:03
Nomad 2021 年 12 月 4 日 上午 4:04 
TBH if I was married I would never give an organ to some old crush. If I'm married then I'm only focused on the person I am married to and to do something like that would be a huge insult to them.
I always thought simp was a short form of simpleton.
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