Im gonna be staying single probably forever.

[WiiklyReviews]

I had a seriously bad break up to the point that I right now think im gonna just say screw relationships... I've always been the one hurt its never the other way around. So im just gonna stay away from relationships and love cause honestly? What love there is out there? Its not actual love its all about money or sex..

[Grim Reaper]

Originally posted by Radene:

Originally posted by SibliZ:

I'm not saying it isn't or that sex is the only important thing, I'm just saying that I don't think sexless relationships are good.

There are people for whom they are good, and there are those for whom they aren't. People have all kinds of arrangements, you can't have "one size fits all" here.

true, for me personally they aren't.

[Radene]

Originally posted by Crazed Rabbit:

Originally posted by Irene ❤:

then steam off topic is not as great as it should be

the takeaway from every off topic thread

Do not expect more than the average human experience, indeed.

[Grim Reaper]

Originally posted by Zucht:

Sometimes it's better to stay single.

True, the best thing about being single is that you can go after new girls, or boys.

[Uncle Sam]

Originally posted by Radene:

Originally posted by SibliZ:

I'm not saying it isn't or that sex is the only important thing, I'm just saying that I don't think sexless relationships are good.

There are people for whom they are good, and there are those for whom they aren't. People have all kinds of arrangements, you can't have "one size fits all" here.

Well look at Japan & Korea (sexless marriages, on top of all the other BS they have to deal in their countries) and some sectors of India. It does have pros & cons, that eventually can ♥♥♥♥ up or cripple a country in different ways. However a society with an obsession with sex & money leads to a ton of ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up situations too (see the decadency of Greece, Ottoman decadency, Roman decadency, etc).

Basically the important part is to way a find to balance things out, once the individual got a stable position with himself/herself. Once that primordial step is done, the fellow citizen can choose if he should keep improving himself/herself and/or find a partner with similar ethics, moral & logical values alongside long term objectives in this game of life (be it where the house should be, if they're going to start a small / big family or not have children at all; etc).

[Grim Reaper]

Originally posted by Mr. H.U.N.K.:

Originally posted by Radene:

There are people for whom they are good, and there are those for whom they aren't. People have all kinds of arrangements, you can't have "one size fits all" here.

Well look at Japan & Korea and some sectors of India. It does have pros & cons, that eventually can ♥♥♥♥ up or cripple a country in different ways. However a society with an obsession with sex & money leads to a ton of ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up situations too (see the decadency of Greece, Ottoman decadency, Roman decadency, etc).

Basically the important part is to way a find to balance things out, once the individual got a stable position with himself/herself. Once that primordial step is done, the fellow citizen can choose if he should keep improving himself/herself and/or find a partner with similar ethics, moral & logical values alongside long term objectives in this game of life (be it where the house should be, if they're going to start a small / big family or not have children at all; etc).

this sounds so robotic lol, however remember that most people don't care about country or culture at all when it comes to relationships and they simply want to be happy with their life and have someone they can share it with.

[Uncle Sam]

Originally posted by SibliZ:

Originally posted by Mr. H.U.N.K.:

Well look at Japan & Korea and some sectors of India. It does have pros & cons, that eventually can ♥♥♥♥ up or cripple a country in different ways. However a society with an obsession with sex & money leads to a ton of ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up situations too (see the decadency of Greece, Ottoman decadency, Roman decadency, etc).

Basically the important part is to way a find to balance things out, once the individual got a stable position with himself/herself. Once that primordial step is done, the fellow citizen can choose if he should keep improving himself/herself and/or find a partner with similar ethics, moral & logical values alongside long term objectives in this game of life (be it where the house should be, if they're going to start a small / big family or not have children at all; etc).

this sounds so robotic lol, however remember that most people don't care about country or culture at all when it comes to relationships and they simply want to be happy with their life and have someone they can share it with.

Aye fair enough, sometimes i express my opinion in the most "gray" moral wise way possible, sorry. I digress, in any case, yes you're right country or culture doesn't matter when it's related to relationships topics.
However any extreme of the "sex & money" doesn't matter or it's the only thing that matters, does have it's unseen consequences in the long run if it's replicated across a country for multiple generations / decades, looking it from a geopolitical, historical & statistics standpoint among other factors, of course.

Edit: Fixed grammar mistakes.

[gugnihr]

Fine then, it is much better than staying with someone wrong, I don't think it is always as you say but it happens often, so at least you are making sure to avoid that, and it's something that makes so many lives really miserable, so good for you.
If you have to be lucky and find the right one it will probably happen anyway, if not then it's better to stop trying imo because the risk to get involved with the wrong people that way is too high.

[it's love]

Originally posted by (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Originally posted by Irene ❤:

I'm actually surprised that you're not banned. All those insults, criticisms and threat when I've only wrote a simple opinion on OP's topic. Way much higher and above others that were banned.
Anyway, the smart readers will understand that those who write negative on others everyday is a toxic themselves, so I need not explain the concept further.

Unlike you, I dislike a dragging problem. It's as annoying as pest and I certainly hope I won't be forced to label a human as one. I am actually feeling sorry that you're still trapped in my old topic and thinking negative of it unhealthily everyday whenever opportunity arrived. It also reveals your immaturity. I can't imagine if a 30 year old dad or mom would say "hey look this person wrote this blah blah". Dad, grow up please.

-snip-

is it really so hard to just add each other and sort this ♥♥♥♥ out like adults or just block each other, you're both being childish by not just adding each other and talking it out or just blocking each other, this whole dragging it out over multiple threads forum drama stuff is quite childish

I mean I'm sure some people derive some schadenfreude enjoyment from watching you both go at each other all the time but personally I think it ruins a lot of threads

[Uncle Sam]

Well someone wants popcorn?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKq444S11oM
This might or not just devolve into a flame war.

[Grim Reaper]

Originally posted by Mr. H.U.N.K.:

Well someone wants popcorn?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKq444S11oM
This might or not just devolve into a flame war.

ey man, thanks

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

Originally posted by Wiikly:

I had a seriously bad break up to the point that I right now think im gonna just say screw relationships... I've always been the one hurt its never the other way around. So im just gonna stay away from relationships and love cause honestly? What love there is out there? Its not actual love its all about money or sex..

damn

you had a relationship?
some of us haven't

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Originally posted by Irene ❤:

Originally posted by (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

you're a very negative individual and most things you post are incredibly hypocritical as you do most of the things you claim are bad. Do I really need to link your past thread you made

I'm actually surprised that you're not banned. All those insults, criticisms and threat when I've only wrote a simple opinion on OP's topic. Way much higher and above others that were banned.
Anyway, the smart readers will understand that those who write negative on others everyday is a toxic themselves, so I need not explain the concept further.

Unlike you, I dislike a dragging problem. It's as annoying as pest and I certainly hope I won't be forced to label a human as one. I am actually feeling sorry that you're still trapped in my old topic and thinking negative of it unhealthily everyday whenever opportunity arrived. It also reveals your immaturity. I can't imagine if a 30 year old dad or mom would say "hey look this person wrote this blah blah". Dad, grow up please.

Reason for me writing "should I move on without him" topic is because we're together but we
hardly talk. I'm not sure if it's a cold war or the end, so I need inputs. It is unlike OP's self pity "I can't get anything so I'm staying single". You jumped to a conclusion that I'm manipulative, it makes sense because you have limited information as I've censored way too many things. Out of goodwill, I decide to give you the full story so you can learn to drop the hate. If you can't improve, or is in fact actually toxic and only using the topic as a silly excuse, there is nothing more I can do to help you.

When I get to know that online boyfriend, he is currently with a girlfriend and I was not told until months later. By then I've already sent him pics, videos, voice chats and I've became that 3rd girl, but we're a good online competitive team. Therefore I've told him not to meet up or mistakes will happen. One night he was drunk and asked me for sex which I reject. After not getting my body for some time, he decide to play less with me. My mind knows that it's time for me to move on but my heart tells me that he is probably just wanting some time for himself, so I make the topic "should I let him go, or to persuade him to be with me more" because we can still be a good competitive team together online. I marked the best answer on the topic and moved on.

By moving on, it means removing all things related and out of the circle. I've since play cs less often and eventually able to stop playing for weeks and months. In the past years of my forum experience, I've given so many answers and help to the cs community. I have so many comments marked as topic answer. Now I'm just in off topic finding jokes and debates where I can give in a lot of thoughts. And because of your selective fault finding I have to spend time writing this pointless stuff.

Sometimes I wonder why you never message me to do fact checks, jump into conclusions, and always behave like I'm some competitor of yours. You've declare that you hate me before, that I accept, our culture is different but why the endless pin point and extreme busybody attitude? Honestly sometimes I feel that you're not even a girl at all, it's like you were a guy being bullied and you hate girls so much. But your pics have proven otherwise. Sis, please stop this already. I don't want to talk like this. There is no joy for me either. I want to give you compliments and upvotes. I want to be positive.

In my shoes, guys can be liars, they can see themselves as a victim. When a relationship failed they would blame the other. Most of them are boohoos who always create self-pity scenes. Some of my friends joined a dance club, get to dance with the trainer and the boyfriend went all hostile. They broke off and the guy keeps saying the girl is bad, but we conclude that guys can be insecure and make mistakes. After I moved on I learn that the ex have been adding and talking to many other girls in cs. But that's no longer my problem.

Lastly, if relationship topics (which I'm actually interested in) will always be concluded by the same few negative people and my opinions bashed, then steam off topic is not as great as it should be. My opinion remains the same - OP should just show more confidence and empathy to others. If he wants to stay negative, then it's better for him to stay single.

I have the full story because the individual you were talking about in that thread added me to explain. What you wrote here as a defense contradicts both your own story and his story.

A lot of what you said in that post is hypocritical. For example the 'hey look this person wrote this' - you literally had steam support remove a group you made because you were doing EXACTLY this, yet you are saying I need to grow up for doing it. You didn't fact check something another user straight up lied to you about and you worded it in a way so you could have people target certain individuals you didnt like so they can mob up against them. I'm sure you have some big excuse for that as well but no, you absolutely love dragging a problem.

I have tried on multiple different threads and post to bury this hatchet with you. Its easy.
Stop lying and stop being hypocritical and you and I will never have an exchange ever.

In this thread you pretty much attacked the OP for things you directly do yourself and I saw an issue with that and had a reference point.

[Drystoner]

Sounds like a defeatist attitude OP.

[Radene]

Originally posted by Mr. H.U.N.K.:

Originally posted by SibliZ:

this sounds so robotic lol, however remember that most people don't care about country or culture at all when it comes to relationships and they simply want to be happy with their life and have someone they can share it with.

Aye fair enough, sometimes i express my opinion in the most "gray" moral wise way possible, sorry. I digress, in any case, yes you're right country or culture doesn't matter when it's related to relationships topics.
However any extreme of the "sex & money" doesn't matter or it's the only thing that matters, does have it's unseen consequences in the long run if it's replicated across a country for multiple generations / decades, looking it from a geopolitical, historical & statistics standpoint among other factors, of course.

Edit: Fixed grammar mistakes.

While it's true that society is build from the ground up, I think you're still overthinking it all.

[swillfly]

Amazing how much wisdom occurs only after one's been bashed about...