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Im gonna be staying single probably forever.
I had a seriously bad break up to the point that I right now think im gonna just say screw relationships... I've always been the one hurt its never the other way around. So im just gonna stay away from relationships and love cause honestly? What love there is out there? Its not actual love its all about money or sex..
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As the great Mahatma Gandhi once said :-

"Disregard women, acquire currency"
Naposledy upravil Choccy; 21. dub. 2021 v 22.07
(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★ původně napsal:
you're a very negative individual and most things you post are incredibly hypocritical as you do most of the things you claim are bad. Do I really need to link your past thread you made
I'm actually surprised that you're not banned. All those insults, criticisms and threat when I've only wrote a simple opinion on OP's topic. Way much higher and above others that were banned.
Anyway, the smart readers will understand that those who write negative on others everyday is a toxic themselves, so I need not explain the concept further.

Unlike you, I dislike a dragging problem. It's as annoying as pest and I certainly hope I won't be forced to label a human as one. I am actually feeling sorry that you're still trapped in my old topic and thinking negative of it unhealthily everyday whenever opportunity arrived. It also reveals your immaturity. I can't imagine if a 30 year old dad or mom would say "hey look this person wrote this blah blah". Dad, grow up please.

Reason for me writing "should I move on without him" topic is because we're together but we
hardly talk. I'm not sure if it's a cold war or the end, so I need inputs. It is unlike OP's self pity "I can't get anything so I'm staying single". You jumped to a conclusion that I'm manipulative, it makes sense because you have limited information as I've censored way too many things. Out of goodwill, I decide to give you the full story so you can learn to drop the hate. If you can't improve, or is in fact actually toxic and only using the topic as a silly excuse, there is nothing more I can do to help you.

When I get to know that online boyfriend, he is currently with a girlfriend and I was not told until months later. By then I've already sent him pics, videos, voice chats and I've became that 3rd girl, but we're a good online competitive team. Therefore I've told him not to meet up or mistakes will happen. One night he was drunk and asked me for sex which I reject. After not getting my body for some time, he decide to play less with me. My mind knows that it's time for me to move on but my heart tells me that he is probably just wanting some time for himself, so I make the topic "should I let him go, or to persuade him to be with me more" because we can still be a good competitive team together online. I marked the best answer on the topic and moved on.

By moving on, it means removing all things related and out of the circle. I've since play cs less often and eventually able to stop playing for weeks and months. In the past years of my forum experience, I've given so many answers and help to the cs community. I have so many comments marked as topic answer. Now I'm just in off topic finding jokes and debates where I can give in a lot of thoughts. And because of your selective fault finding I have to spend time writing this pointless stuff.

Sometimes I wonder why you never message me to do fact checks, jump into conclusions, and always behave like I'm some competitor of yours. You've declare that you hate me before, that I accept, our culture is different but why the endless pin point and extreme busybody attitude? Honestly sometimes I feel that you're not even a girl at all, it's like you were a guy being bullied and you hate girls so much. But your pics have proven otherwise. Sis, please stop this already. I don't want to talk like this. There is no joy for me either. I want to give you compliments and upvotes. I want to be positive.

In my shoes, guys can be liars, they can see themselves as a victim. When a relationship failed they would blame the other. Most of them are boohoos who always create self-pity scenes. Some of my friends joined a dance club, get to dance with the trainer and the boyfriend went all hostile. They broke off and the guy keeps saying the girl is bad, but we conclude that guys can be insecure and make mistakes. After I moved on I learn that the ex have been adding and talking to many other girls in cs. But that's no longer my problem.

Lastly, if relationship topics (which I'm actually interested in) will always be concluded by the same few negative people and my opinions bashed, then steam off topic is not as great as it should be. My opinion remains the same - OP should just show more confidence and empathy to others. If he wants to stay negative, then it's better for him to stay single.
Naposledy upravil Irene ❤; 22. dub. 2021 v 1.46
Can you two just ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ block each other already and stop steering the damn threads off the road?
᠌ ⁧⁧Makoto Yuki původně napsal:
Can you two just ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ block each other already and stop steering the damn threads off the road?
Sorry.. >_< *pull my ears*
This is one of the worst threads I've wasted time on
Damn this thread is a trainwreck. You look like you are more so just sad from your break-up which happens but that feeling will pass eventually, like it did for me twice now. If you don't want a relationship that's fine, if somehow deep down you still want one that's also fine, just go on with life.
Wiikly původně napsal:
Its not actual love its all about money or sex..

It's mostly about working things out together, and if doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out.

But yes, money and sex tend to be topics that need to be worked out rather soon in a relationship. From then on it's who's snoring and whose turn it is to clean the kitty litter that will need to be worked on.
oh i'm dying alone even if i try not to i've come to terms with that
Radene původně napsal:
Wiikly původně napsal:
Its not actual love its all about money or sex..

It's mostly about working things out together, and if doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out.

But yes, money and sex tend to be topics that need to be worked out rather soon in a relationship. From then on it's who's snoring and whose turn it is to clean the kitty litter that will need to be worked on.
True, money is a necessary topic because you can't live without money or sustain a relationship. and as for sex well if you are never gonna have sex why not just stay friends?
SibliZ původně napsal:
Radene původně napsal:

It's mostly about working things out together, and if doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out.

But yes, money and sex tend to be topics that need to be worked out rather soon in a relationship. From then on it's who's snoring and whose turn it is to clean the kitty litter that will need to be worked on.
True, money is a necessary topic because you can't live without money or sustain a relationship. and as for sex well if you are never gonna have sex why not just stay friends?

People have their reasons. A relationship partner is more than just someone you sleep with. It's about companionship, and people consider different things important.
Being in a relationship is overrated, better to have friends. Also, according to the title of your thread, you already have a statement of principles in this regard ... Anyway, I would recommend that if you close that door at least leave a window open, you never know ...
Radene původně napsal:
SibliZ původně napsal:
True, money is a necessary topic because you can't live without money or sustain a relationship. and as for sex well if you are never gonna have sex why not just stay friends?

People have their reasons. A relationship partner is more than just someone you sleep with. It's about companionship, and people consider different things important.
I'm not saying it isn't or that sex is the only important thing, I'm just saying that I don't think sexless relationships are good.
Naposledy upravil Grim Reaper; 22. dub. 2021 v 0.11
SibliZ původně napsal:
Radene původně napsal:

People have their reasons. A relationship partner is more than just someone you sleep with. It's about companionship, and people consider different things important.
I'm not saying it isn't or that sex is the only important thing, I'm just saying that I don't think sexless relationships are good.

There are people for whom they are good, and there are those for whom they aren't. People have all kinds of arrangements, you can't have "one size fits all" here.
Sometimes it's better to stay single.

My GF of 6 years just left me, we have a kid together. It's hard at this point. I think from now on I'm going to stay a single dad and get big $$ to make sure my kid lives a comfortable life.

I'll be there in the singles section with you when life ends :)
Irene ❤ původně napsal:
(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★ původně napsal:
you're a very negative individual and most things you post are incredibly hypocritical as you do most of the things you claim are bad. Do I really need to link your past thread you made
then steam off topic is not as great as it should be
the takeaway from every off topic thread
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