if you love someone but he/she is very rude girl/boy

[DJhsn809]

what will you do ? will still saying you love him/her or ignoring ?

[𝓡𝓮𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓒𝓪𝓽]

Well, I would never love someone like that, to begin with. I tend to strongly dislike rude, disrespectful, pompous, egotistical, narcissistic individuals. More so if they go around playing petty little social games all the time.

I wouldn't want a person like that as a regular friend let alone an actual romantic partner. It's a no-go for me, Jacko. But for the sake of this thread and (hopefully) hypothetical situation, I'll explain a bit.

Let's say that this was the actual scenario. I would calm but firmly bring the discussion up with them and tell them that I don't like their rude, disrespectful attitude. I would give them an ultimatum and tell them to stop or I would break up with them.

[Et tu, B?]

Ursprungligen skrivet av 💕 𝓑𝓾𝓷 💕:

I wouldnt love somebody that is rude

At least we can both agree on something now.

[Birds]

Ursprungligen skrivet av 𝓡𝓮𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓒𝓪𝓽:

I would give them an ultimatum and tell them to stop or I would break up with them.

IIRC experts agree that once you are at the ultimatum stage the relationship is already over and that you're trying to bargain your way back into it.

[Z]

I am okay but still depend on why she got mad or being rude. If it's for good and fair reason, i will just let it pass and try to correct the mistake or wrong doing. If just for bad reason maybe i will try to advice her in polite way. You know girl? Haha. If for really really bad reason and act.. i still try to advice and if she still stay the same and really test my patience..sayonara. i believe this is the right way and already being fair to myself and her too. Don't test a patience man.

[Z]

But still i should not ignore her. We are not living alone this world. I should know my border between people. Be good to each other even to the one who hurt you. I did my part. The rest is tawakal. World is just a test.

[Castyles]

Ursprungligen skrivet av Eld3R:

Ursprungligen skrivet av Castyles:

Most who are "rude" are just blunt and straight-forward.

It's not how they deliver the message but how you receive it. Check your feelings.

Ursprungligen skrivet av ṼṏẌṏḭḊ:

I'd run away.

i bet Castyles has had a few people run away

Right on, indeed I have. Not my fault, though, and I can vouch for that without second thoughts. Guaranteed.

Most men - and some women - are blunt and straight-forward by nature but have to act "fake nice" because society says so. Because society thinks a direct approach or no-nonsense behaviour means you have a stick up your booty.

Do you know that thing some people love to say and do about those who curse a lot, for example? Threating them like sub-humans? Uncivilized, uncultured primates while, if you put the gears in your head to work, you'll notice that, most of the time, that's far from the truth?

Both things are connected and it all boils down to one answer, alone: lack of patience. And, despite what many are led to believe - mostly by the gurus of pop culture - that's not a character flaw nor a psychological issue.

Arrogance and pride, on the other hand, are huge banes of society. Along with lust, vanity and greed. But such traits are ignored if you "know how to communicate". Give me a break.

[Masque]

George Carlin.

You're sitting at the dinner table for the first time with your parents and your new girlfriend, and she says, "Excuse me.... I gotta take a dump!"

[Angel]

I see a few people that fall for rude people but I secretly frown upon them and think they are desperate and are being used as a doormat.

[pants]

I'd blog about it. Maybe join a Facebook support group.

[Xero_Daxter]

You made multiple silly threads and I'll have to add you to my bingo book of baka na yo.

[Dominic]

depends on what you mean by rude. I like someone who likes to fight. I like a fighters spirit.