So bullying in japan school is so brutal ?

[Charteuse Gale]

Anyone study in japan ?

i read many manga, most of it about bullying. It was so crazy, i can't believe it a kid at school can be that evil , but i realized it is just manga and a fiction.

Then i was curious and see the real life bully on japan, i can't believe it, it is more brutal than manga

read the story a kid in middle school or highschool i forget, got beaten, they always stole his money, they always punch his stomach(never aimed his face and other visible place), but they then decided to burn his hair , record it and spread it for fun. The kid lie to his parents how his hair got burned but the teacher noticed he got bullied, the bully then got send to junivile school while the kid got a ptsd trauma for his life.

Another one where the bully force the kid to shoplift, beat him and force him to eat dead bees, my god...

There is another one where three bully beaten a kid till he knocked out and they still beat him, they then realized he didn't move , called ambulance, the kid got brain damage, was in coma. The bully , i think got expelled by school.

A karate champion kid in highschool was bullied in social media, people telling him to die and such. It escalated to the point he 5-10 people at his school ambushed him and beat him, he go home with bloody nose and swollen face, her mother was crying when he know he got bullied. The school did'nt punish the bully, and the karate champion decided to quit school and transfer. Do note he can beat the bully ass, but he decided not to do it because there are story like this where martial artist just use self defense to beat the bully but in the end because he was a martial artist, the school blame him for using violence and expel him, wtf that is crazy.

The worst one is where whole classroom , all students , including teacher bully a kid in elementary school, put an incense and flower at his desk, and make a fake funeral event at classroom, singing a song for the kid like good bye song, and tell him to go die for good. The kid commited suicede, for this story i don't know if it was true, read it on reddit or something, it happened in 1990, quite a long time ago.



I know you can say it is victim fault for not fighting back, but he is just a kid, i think he was scared. Telling teacher is bad idea because most teacher actually know it but decided to ignore it because they think the bullying will got worse if they intervene. Telling the parents was the most way to solve it, but most kid was too embrassed and afraid to tell their parents.

Comparing the bully at my school with those bully is like comparing a kitten with a lion.

[linis]

Escrito originalmente por Doctor Go-Go:

It does get worse if you don't fight back. Growing up I ALWAYS got detentions and suspensions for the fights other people started because I could seriously injure them while they couldn't leave a mark. They were NEVER punished for instigating or inciting. I became tired of getting detentions and suspensions for fighting back therefore I put up with it.

Yes, poor parenting, they don't teach their kids anything and it's becoming worse. Everyone is too busy and expecting everything else to raise their children for them.

Can relate to that, used to get into a lot of trouble for fighting back against this ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥. It isn't just in Japan either. I was at a diner a few months back and it felt like there was a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ spotlight on me for most of the night. I was dealing with some bad depression and decided I'd stay up all night at the diner (which is usually empty), watch traffic, and see the sun rise.

Had one guy that worked there telling his companions after watching me for a while that he wished he could just push this depressed guy off a bridge and be done with it, which made the group laugh. Some people were making jokes about getting me drunk and laid + someone egging a girl on to go talk to me while making it sound like I was a monster. Some other guys were throwing jabs at me trying to provoke a fight (some of them sounded drunk), they left and came back a while later, one of them said "He's still here? *laughter* yeah that's him." This went on with other groups till about 3 or 4 am when I said "♥♥♥♥ being here."

Before I left the diner, I told the manager what one of their employees had said. He smiled at me and responded with, "Don't worry about it, we're all one happy family here."

[I got 1984'd]

South Korea is brutal as well. Students jump off the school and fall to death due to bullying. The bullies literally tell the kid to kill themselves, blackmail them and tell them that they are nothing, and doesn't feel remorseful about it either. That's the worst part.

I heard about this while I was stationed there.

[chiefputsilao✖️ping]

there is a legend that once upon a time, long time ago, there lived a bullied young man.
he was bullied often that he quit japanese school and sought a ninjutsu school in the mountains.
on the first day of school, he saw that the ninja master's son was the bully from the school.
he quit ninjutsu school and just decided to draw lewd pictures. he was the first manga artist.
he got rich but was still bullied by other men in the area.
to his credit, he was so popular that he bedded almost all women in the area, including the wives of the bullies and their mothers.
he became the first secret hentai king.

true story.
-posting for a friend.

[iron_swardred]

yep

[Doctor Go-Go]

My older sister would tell me I should kill myself, same one that would shove my head into a tub full of water as I struggled to break free. Then she would laugh hysterically as if it was the funniest thing ever as I was gasping for air while choking and spitting up water. This amused her, it brought her joy. It stopped the day I could kick her around like a rag doll. So I'm convinced she's a sociopath.

I assume it's normal for kids to tell the others to commit suicide. A percentage of them will be evil.

[Charteuse Gale]

Escrito originalmente por Doctor Go-Go:

My older sister would tell me I should kill myself, same one that would shove my head into a tub full of water as I struggled to break free. Then she would laugh hysterically as if it was the funniest thing ever as I was gasping for air while choking and spitting up water. This amused her, it brought her joy. It stopped the day I could kick her around like a rag doll. So I'm convinced she's a sociopath.

I assume it's normal for kids to tell the others to commit suicide. A percentage of them will be evil.

Seriously ? your older sister ? i mean that is crazy, your parents know about it ?

if she can do that to her family, then her kid or husband was in danger

[⌘Ørtona43␘]

Escrito originalmente por Doctor Go-Go:

I assume it's normal for kids to tell the others to commit suicide. A percentage of them will be evil.

No, I don't think that is normal behaviour at all and believe your assumption to be wrong. The minute percentage out there that would do this have some mental problems that should be dealt with!

[𝓡𝓮𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓒𝓪𝓽]

Escrito originalmente por Senator Armstrong:

South Korea is brutal as well. Students jump off the school and fall to death due to bullying. The bullies literally tell the kid to kill themselves, blackmail them and tell them that they are nothing, and doesn't feel remorseful about it either. That's the worst part.

I heard about this while I was stationed there.

This is absolutely disgusting, vile human beings. I've oftentimes wondered what in the world people get out of doing this? It basically just proves that people are nothing more than slightly evolved apes wearing pants. ☠

[Doctor Go-Go]

Escrito originalmente por ⌘Ørtona43␘:

Escrito originalmente por Doctor Go-Go:

I assume it's normal for kids to tell the others to commit suicide. A percentage of them will be evil.

No, I don't think that is normal behaviour at all and believe your assumption to be wrong. The minute percentage out there that would do this have some mental problems that should be dealt with!

Yes, a percentage of them will do it therefore it's normal, it's NOT HEALTHY, but it's normal for some kids to be ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

[Ailes]

Whaaaat, I thought Japan was perfect. All the animes and mangas I watch and read, everyone is in love with some clumsy nerd who constantly gets all the sexy girls. Are you telling me none of that is real???

[Doctor Go-Go]

Escrito originalmente por Ailes:

Whaaaat, I thought Japan was perfect. All the animes and mangas I watch and read, everyone is in love with some clumsy nerd who constantly gets all the sexy girls. Are you telling me none of that is real???

That's part of the programming.

"Hey kids, it's okay to be the geek, cause ALL of these HOT chicks will be ALL over you just cause. While all of the slim sculpted studs will be chasing after all of the OTHER girls. Studs and babes fall head over heels for the geeks."

That's part of the fantasy, that's what draws them into it. Geek comes cruising by in his jalopy flipping through coupons and the babes go " O_O WAAAAAAHHHHHH!" And once the Stud comes cruising by in his whatever top of the shelf car and a fist full of dollars the anime babe crosses her arms and throws her head back noise up high "HMMMPH!"

[Samwise]

Those might be real, but exaggerated, or just made up stories.

That karate guy ambushed by 5 to 10 people and getting beaten up, and you think he could had beaten them all up, but chose not to, lmao? You read too much manga or havent been in real fight.

I'm sure bullying do happen in Japan, because they're under so much pressure, while being in fragile age. I dont think its any more common or severe, than in anywhere else.

I know schools dont want bad publicity, and dont want stories to become public, which leads to bullies never getting deserved punishment. Its always seen as fault of the teachers, when someone gets bullied, even if they knew about it or not. It should be the other way around, the shame should be brought to the parents and the bully.

[Samwise]

Escrito originalmente por chiefputsilao✖️ping:

there is a legend that once upon a time, long time ago, there lived a bullied young man.
he was bullied often that he quit japanese school and sought a ninjutsu school in the mountains.
on the first day of school, he saw that the ninja master's son was the bully from the school.
he quit ninjutsu school and just decided to draw lewd pictures. he was the first manga artist.
he got rich but was still bullied by other men in the area.
to his credit, he was so popular that he bedded almost all women in the area, including the wives of the bullies and their mothers.
he became the first secret hentai king.

true story.
-posting for a friend.

Reminds of another guy who was also bullied. He quit the school, swore to get revenge one day. He trained 7 hours everyday, either his body or martial arts. One day per week he meditated. He did this for 15 years straight. One day he stumbled upon his, now much older, school bully and got his ass handed to him. He's now alcoholic and in wheelchair.

[Azza ☠]

There's any online movement online with cyberbullies being bullied off the Internet.

If not just by random people sticking up for others, then hacker groups go out of their way to make that cyberbully a play toy for dishing out massive amounts of karma.

[Doctor Go-Go]

No no no, A karate man could take on 10 guys, cause we all know they wait their turn, they wouldn't want to hold him down while the others take turn kicking him because that would be rude.