Why is fans upset about dr disrespect cheating

[spanky]

It's not like it was the game

[zboz]

Messaggio originale di ⓥenom Ⓢnake 🐍:

Messaggio originale di zboz:

A big PUBG streamer cheated on his wife, released a video saying hes putting streaming away for now to focus on his family (someone posted above), and everyone is very angry because of it.

Danka!

Well, people can be outraged. That is really horrible.

They shouldn't be mad though. You can get mad at your friends for that kind of behavior, or family. You can't get mad at someone you know through watching gaming videos. Well, you can I guess, but it displays a certain level of social disconnect.

Why exactly did he confess? I mean, it's not like the paparazzi were staking him out.

Just said that he was unfaithful to his family, not much more than that, at least in the video. It kinda surprises me how so many people just hear "cheat" and focus completely on that, ignoring anything actually surrounding it.

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Messaggio originale di Maria:

Messaggio originale di (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Its one of those 'you dont know the situation'. Cheating is wrong, but certain situations make it 100% understandable of WHY they occured. Yes they could have 'talked it out' but if we are going to be real or if we are going to live in a what-if world is literally going to boil it down easier for us.

If something is wrong in his marriage and he saw point where he is being praised and loved by someone else, i get it. Is it still wrong. Yeah. Who knows his wife could be verbally abusive who knows we sure dont. Still doesnt give him the right but i get it.

If you've been in a serious relationship and it starts going down and someone else starts making you feel valuable again you'd understand. Like I said we dont know the picture so simply stop the judging and just accept he was kind enough to make a public apology and even tell us that isnt who he is and he made a big f'ing mistake.

No cheating is still wrong. The right thing to do is tell your partner, talk to them, tell them how you feel. Nothing behind their backs and cheat. Wtf is wrong with you? Communication is key, you'd know that if you've been in a serious relationship.

Okay youre just an idiot now I got it.
I SAID it was wrong, what part of that didnt you get?
The other guy said something too and how it doesnt cancel it out then you immidately say the same crap he already told you....

And like I said in a pretend world where we all do the right it is easy to talk it out, in the real world it isnt like I said.

As for commuication is key..... yea because everyone in the world is perfect and is upfront whole heartedly with their spouse about everything.... im sorry i dont live in a pretend perfect world i live in a real world where ppl are very much in love and still fear certain things about themselves scaring off their loved ones.

[Ⓥenom Ⓢnake 🐍]

Messaggio originale di zboz:

Just said that he was unfaithful to his family, not much more than that, at least in the video. It kinda surprises me how so many people just hear "cheat" and focus completely on that, ignoring anything actually surrounding it.

Well, it's an easy concept to wrap your head around. A lot of people can attach emotion to it. If he had come out and explained that he had been seeing someone else because he and his SO had grown distant and they were pretty much still together just for the kids, all most people would have taken from it is "Cheater".

The internet is a very reactionary culture. Excuse me while I go look all this drama up.

[Sylphie Fioré]

Lol if you are paranoid about your partner then you got relationship issues. In the real world I talk to my boyfriend and tell him everything, then I put my trust and faith in him, I do my best, and if anything goes wrong I cannot fault myself. Theres no fairy tale land, communication is key, I tell him everything, he's my partner why wouldn't I? It is easy to talk it out, you put your trust in your partner or are you just not doing things right? No ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ wonder relationships are so bad and don't last with how you think. You said it was wrong but defend it to some degree, I'm sure a partner would feel delighted that you cheated on them, or that you don't be truthful to them. This is pathetic, I hope you never get a partner, if you have one then I fear for them because your way of thinking is just bad. Opinions are opinions but seriously thats just simply bad.

[Plaid]

I hate when people make this ♥♥♥♥ public business.

[Ⓥenom Ⓢnake 🐍]

Messaggio originale di (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

As for commuication is key..... yea because everyone in the world is perfect and is upfront whole heartedly with their spouse about everything.... im sorry i dont live in a pretend perfect world i live in a real world where ppl are very much in love and still fear certain things about themselves scaring off their loved ones.

I told my wife everything. We were 100% transparent with each other.

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Messaggio originale di Maria:

Lol if you are paranoid about your partner then you got relationship issues. In the real world I talk to my boyfriend and tell him everything, then I put my trust and faith in him, I do my best, and if anything goes wrong I cannot fault myself. Theres no fairy tale land, communication is key, I tell him everything, he's my partner why wouldn't I? It is easy to talk it out, you put your trust in your partner or are you just not doing things right? No ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ wonder relationships are so bad and don't last with how you think. You said it was wrong but defend it to some degree, I'm sure a partner would feel delighted that you cheated on them, or that you don't be truthful to them. This is pathetic, I hope you never get a partner, if you have one then I fear for them because your way of thinking is just bad. Opinions are opinions but seriously thats just simply bad.

Like I said. There are lots of situations where cheating is understandable and you can reasonably see WHY it happened. Does it make it right? Like I said no.... its still wrong.

And yea like I said it isn't always easy talking to your spouse or sigificant other... if you think so you ARE living in a fairy tale land. I dont know how many people you been with in your life, but you sound really naive.

I get SOME couples can be 100% open about everything but a lot of couples cant. I have some things I dont talk about with any of my boyfriends cause its not something most would understand or get why I am that way and it could alter how they see me. Does it ever affect my relationship? No.

And like I said you dont know the situation. You dont know if his wife verbally abuses him.... from someone who grew up with some serious parent issues verbal abuse hits to the core some times and makes you feel worthless, having a partner do that could lead to cheating and or killing yourself. Like I said we dont know the situation, if it turns out this was the case and his options he felt were either suicide or cheating since he felt trapped with a kid and marriage can you honestly sit there and telling me 'no cheating is still bad' or you going to change your tone and be like well at least he didnt commit suicide.

Like I said, you dont know the situation. All you know is he was man enough to tell his sponsors and fans what is happening.

[Sylphie Fioré]

Because if you were to tell anyone something serious you'd tell it to people who watch your streams. Yeah.......
Cheating is not accebtable at all. You can be with someone and enjoy their company without having sex you know, going out of your way to have sex with them is on you. There is no rush to do that. Lots of people hurt me, people who think and act just like some of you. None of this is justified, he cheated on her, they also have kids. Thats just low and scummy. Any bad treatment doesn't mean you can go off and screw with people without consequence. Messing with people's feelings, your own partner's and kids feelings, thats scummy enough. I'm schitzophrenic, paranoid, suicidal and depressed but I'm still here and I still do the right thing. Or maybe I've just observed and learned how ♥♥♥♥♥♥ and stupid people be so I alter my own behaviour to be better.

Last thing last is that " I get SOME couples can be 100% open about everything but a lot of couples cant. I have some things I dont talk about with any of my boyfriends cause its not something most would understand or get why I am that way and it could alter how they see me. Does it ever affect my relationship? No."

That is bad, they should accept you, for all your pros and cons. If they won't accept you then you are not made for each other. Not being honest and truthful about everything really limits things as well. Eventually the things you hide will come to bite at you or your partner, can't hide forever.

Not too emotional or unstable I just found the right person to accept and love me for who I am. Obviously your partner is not that great and you have to hide things from them. Really you should have trust in your partner otherwise wtf are you even doing with them? Obviously my reality is just better than yours, you are not a realist, you simply failed to be with the right person for you, because if you was you wouldn't need to hide anything to keep your relationship.

Your realist reality is that most relationships don't work out, a lot of relationships these days end. I wonder why.....because people have no clue, including yourself. Stop thinking with your ♥♥♥♥ and use your head, and if you used your head for everything you've said then grow a brain or some decency. If you are a woman then I ashamed of my gender for being so bad.
You lot seem like the typical scumbag kind of men who would cheat without remorse.

Now this talk is over because this is getting pathetic, unsubbing now.

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Messaggio originale di Maria:

Because if you were to tell anyone something serious you'd tell it to people who watch your streams. Yeah.......
Cheating is not accebtable at all. You can be with someone and enjoy their company without having sex you know, going out of your way to have sex with them is on you. There is no rush to do that. Lots of people hurt me, people who think and act just like some of you. None of this is justified, he cheated on her, they also have kids. Thats just low and scummy. Any bad treatment doesn't mean you can go off and screw with people without consequence. Messing with people's feelings, your own partner's and kids feelings, thats scummy enough. I'm schitzophrenic, paranoid, suicidal and depressed but I'm still here and I still do the right thing. Or maybe I've just observed and learned how ♥♥♥♥♥♥ and stupid people be so I alter my own behaviour to be better.

Last thing last is that " I get SOME couples can be 100% open about everything but a lot of couples cant. I have some things I dont talk about with any of my boyfriends cause its not something most would understand or get why I am that way and it could alter how they see me. Does it ever affect my relationship? No."

That is bad, they should accept you, for all your pros and cons. If they won't accept you then you are not made for each other. Not being honest and truthful about everything really limits things as well. Eventually the things you hide will come to bite at you or your partner, can't hide forever.

Now this talk is over because this is getting pathetic, unsubbing now.

You are too emotional and unstable for me to have a rational discussion.

We already established cheating is bad, the divide is you believe everyone should have the perfect ideal relationship that is very rare.
Im a realist your an idealist i got it. Lets just move on cause you cant be reasons with on your narrow minded opinion

[(N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★]

Messaggio originale di Maria:

Now this talk is over because this is getting pathetic, unsubbing now.

I agree and glad you are unsubbing. Apparently if someone is getting verbally abused you think talking is going to help and think that someone should be pushed to suicide if they feel trapped instead of cheating to feel better and worthwhile again.

Great glad we're done cause me saying you dont know the situation apparently means nothing to you.

[Daxank]

Messaggio originale di 999999999:

Another PUBG player that

In other recent news, the sky appears to be blue

[iza]

Messaggio originale di Maria:

Now this talk is over because this is getting pathetic, unsubbing now.

Meh, too bad, you started off good with the "communication is key", then you went full pathetic.
Not a "armchair-psychologist" here, though building a PhD in the psychological part, but you might have a few issues with your partner aswell with that "tryharding to build a 100% secure and perfect relationship", which does not exist. No couple is 100% equal.

[Naedmi]

He got too in character with his handle and Dr. Disrespected his wife.