Being Nice or Acting Nice

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CodeGreen (禁止済) 2018年7月15日 4時37分

All of us have ethical views and we know which is righteous, but what do these words make it right? Is it being nice to a person is right or acting nice to a person is wrong?

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🜂∴🜏 Cassie 2018年7月15日 9時23分

Annabel Lee の投稿を引用：
mr.who? WcD の投稿を引用：
There is no difference, if you are acting nice to me for your own good (thats something psycopaths do sometimes) you are still Nice to me

Psychopaths are more self-absorbed and opportunistic; they'll only be nice if they can gain something from it/you.

I'm not a fan of the "fake it til you make it" mindset so I respect authentic living higher than faking things; courtesy included. I was raised to be respectful so I am big on manners and courtesy overall, even though I'm obviously far from perfect. When people are disengenous, even if kind, that drives me bananas. I'd rather people be real. If you don't like people, be honest. We've all been there. I think when people are honest, it allows people to become closer because sometimes what someone is dealing with internally can come out and healing can begin. But that's a huge tangent, I think.

Well, a lot of the people who work in service industry probably hate most of the customers. I don’t blame them; we all have bills to pay.

I’d rather they fake being nice to me than to be outright rude.

In Asian culture, it’s normal to have “two faces”, the face you use with your loved ones, and the face you use with strangers. I don’t see a problem with pretending to be nice to people if that makes life easier for everyone involved.

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🜂∴🜏 Cassie 2018年7月15日 9時32分

Annabel Lee の投稿を引用：
That's true. But people in this country who work service industry tend to be unhappy with their pay and hours. I think people can deal with customers on a regular basis if the aforementioned are decent enough.

I definitely see your point though. I don't exactly want a soda tossed at me because someone is unhappy they came into work.

Aye. Genuine niceness is definitely more appreciated and respected, but if that is not possible in a situation, I’d take fake niceness. Anything’s better than rudeness.

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mr.who? WcD 2018年7月15日 9時45分

Florida Man の投稿を引用：
mr.who? WcD の投稿を引用：
Its kinda if you write an apology letter to a friend or girlfriend and then your friend says that you didnt really mean what you wrote, it doesnt really matter if you mean what you wrote
Actually, it kind of does. Otherwise you just wrote the letter to fool them into thinking you're actually apologizing.

It's a hallow apology.

Still Doesnt really matter, they still went through all The work to write the apology showing they care, if they dont care they wouldnt waste their time writing the letter

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CodeGreen (禁止済) 2018年7月15日 16時41分

Dragon of Onyx Dreams の投稿を引用：
Hmm...there are some nice people. But faking niceness is very wrong, you should always be nice. Especially to a boy or girl you love. There's this idiot in the family who asks his wife to get him appetizers the servers are bringing around at a wedding. He's 2 feet away, and is just chatting about nonsense. The hell right?

I guess to the point that people doesn't apply for them to be acting ethically since they have no morals in the first scene so that makes acting nice look wrong here but really it depends on circumstances when they have to act though if they really care about people even though they don't possess a good personality.

Maybe in your point of view is bad, maybe the husband just only asked a favor of a one thing in a moment doesn't generally make it rude. But if he asked her in an ill-mannered way then there's the bingo.

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