Age difference between partners

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Max 2020. ápr. 9., 14:52

Does age matter when it comes to relationships?
If so, what is still an acceptable age gap in your opinion?

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The_Unknown_05 eredeti hozzászólása:
Snake eredeti hozzászólása:
Me and my wife are 6 years apart. I started dating her when she was 18 and i was 24.
I go call police

18 here is legal age and adult in the eyes of the law.

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Dominic 2020. ápr. 9., 16:02

Radene eredeti hozzászólása:
Darkness eredeti hozzászólása:
Nothing. I simply don't aim to find anyone. I just want friends. No romantic relationships.

And what's the difference when it comes to "finding someone"? You need to "find" friends, too, you know. And that's actually harder than finding someone to bang.

Might depend on the person I would say in this situation in person I can make friends easily but relationships nope.

It is like I told people back when I lived in Japan most of the guys thought I was amazing. But the girls on the other hand did not really like me to much.

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Radene 2020. ápr. 9., 16:04

Dominic eredeti hozzászólása:
Radene eredeti hozzászólása:

And what's the difference when it comes to "finding someone"? You need to "find" friends, too, you know. And that's actually harder than finding someone to bang.
Might depend on the person I would say in this situation in person I can make friends easily but relationships nope.

It is like I told people back when I lived in Japan most of the guys thought I was amazing. But the girls on the other hand did not really like me to much.

Wait wait wait. "Friendship" is very intimate, very solid, very based-on-trust. A "friend" will probably know more about you than even your romantic partner. If you're talking "passing acquaintance I may meet in a pub now and then", we're talking about different things.

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Chuuya Nakahara 2020. ápr. 9., 16:04

I think acceptable age gap is 4 years.

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The_Unknown_05 eredeti hozzászólása:
Snake eredeti hozzászólása:

18 here is legal age and adult in the eyes of the law.
I fear that this wont stop me

Call the cops and let them laugh at you. You don't know my name my address or where i live. So all the cops will do is laugh their *** off at you. And give you a fine for misuse of the emergency number.

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Riyeko 2020. ápr. 9., 16:06

Hey! I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 24. I would say it works just fine. It has some benefits aswell :P But there are definetly reasons to legal restrictions put on sexual relationships, as mutual consent is not always enough when one of the partner isn't mature enough.

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The_Unknown_05 eredeti hozzászólása:
Snake eredeti hozzászólása:
Call the cops and let them laugh at you. You don't know my name my address or where i live. So all the cops will do is laugh their *** off at you. And give you a fine for misuse of the emergency number.
The thing I used on you is called a joke. :)

NSS.
Also FTFY

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kbm demon.♡ 2020. ápr. 9., 16:15

in minors about 2-3 years
in adults probably like 7, age gap bigger than that feels weird to me.

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s w e k 2020. ápr. 9., 16:17

Depends on the age group, since this is relative. If there were two adults in a relationship; for example, one being 25 and the other 40, I don't see that as a problem.

Something like 13 and 25 is weird, though.

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JG | Luxe 2020. ápr. 9., 16:18

As long as she's 18, you're good to go!

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Radene 2020. ápr. 9., 16:20

JG | Luxe eredeti hozzászólása:
As long as she's 18, you're good to go!

What is your opinion when he is 15, and she is 19, and why is it different?

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JG | Luxe 2020. ápr. 9., 16:23

Radene eredeti hozzászólása:
JG | Luxe eredeti hozzászólása:
As long as she's 18, you're good to go!

What is your opinion when he is 15, and she is 19, and why is it different?

Society makes it different. But now a days it is no different... Female teachers (Young ones) are going to jail for being with a student that's 15-17, So it's no different.

But I also know my sister in law was with a TA when she was 16 and he "broke her heart" little did she know that men just use women.

I guess that's the real difference, females often catch feelings, men do not.

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/. 2020. ápr. 9., 16:27

Age doesn't necessarily matter, but the general rule of what's acceptable = (n/2)+7 , where 'n' is your age in years. Whatever the result, is the youngest acceptable age for you to be with.

In other words, half your age, plus 7 years. Or, if the partner is older, half THEIR age, plus 7.

However, I don't think it matters that much, as long as it is legal... I just remember seeing this somewhere and I suppose it's a decent referral, though not necessarily set in stone.

For me personally, a 5 year difference is the limit, younger or older, though I'd prefer an even lesser age gap.

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Radene 2020. ápr. 9., 16:28

JG | Luxe eredeti hozzászólása:
I guess that's the real difference, females often catch feelings, men do not.

You haven't truly met a man yet, have you.

Yes, we also "catch feelings". Yes, we also get our hearts broken. Yes, we also lose purpose when we get dumped. Yes, we also cry.

And yes, we also have to pick ourselves up and get on with our lives.

And you know what? It's men who deny us any support in such hard times. Women stick together when "one of theirs" is hurt. Men? No, we just keep rubbing salt into the other guy's wounds. Because allegedly that will "toughen him up".

Well no, it doesn't. It makes him become an alcoholic, and abusive.

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