How to get away from a friend who you find is annoying?

[Jennfelde]

I'm primarily using Discord and I found this friend who friended me first. I don't exactly like them and I don't want to conversate with them anymore.

How would I get away from this person without seeming rude or feeling bad?

[[Aesthetic]]

Jennfelde eredeti hozzászólása:

I'm primarily using Discord and I found this friend who friended me first. I don't exactly like them and I don't want to conversate with them anymore.

How would I get away from this person without seeming rude or feeling bad? [/quote]

I don't understand if you're talking about one person or more....Mh but you can't get away without hurting.
You can unfriend him,hurts.
You can leave the server,hurts anyway.
But if this or these guy are like the stupid people writing that r/woosh thing on Youtube,i feel you.Leave her/him/them asap.

[SMIFFY]

You aren't friends, just block them.

[Xautos]

Jennfelde eredeti hozzászólása:

I'm primarily using Discord and I found this friend who friended me first. I don't exactly like them and I don't want to conversate with them anymore.

How would I get away from this person without seeming rude or feeling bad? [/quote]

how can he be a friend when he clearly isn't as you have put it?

It is clearly harassment behaviour and it won't stop because you unfriend them or try to block them and they come back with yet another account. the best way to deal with people like that is reporting them by the proper means to discord itself and letting them know you are being harassed by that user.

Discord will have to deal with it and if there is enough reasonable proof, it will be dealt with appropriately. it is right there in the terms, use them for what they are there for.

[Xautos]

fauxtronic eredeti hozzászólása:

I used to do this guilt thing. Then I adopted a three step plan.

1) Explain the problem in a direct but reasonable way.
2) Get on with life.
3) If their behaviour doesn't change, tell them to F*** off.

1. and the harasser doesn't take any notice.
2. they continue to disrupt your activities.
3. that does nothing but gives them the attention they desperately crave off you.

It can be that easy to get around.

[Jej]

Be upfront. If they don't like it, it's their problem.

[nMate]

just dont give a ♥♥♥♥

[AnoMorgan]

Jennfelde eredeti hozzászólása:

I'm primarily using Discord and I found this friend who friended me first. I don't exactly like them and I don't want to conversate with them anymore.

How would I get away from this person without seeming rude or feeling bad? [/quote]
Do what I did get on chat say your having sexy dreams about them and it's 50/50 chance you get blocked or get a stalker.. Me well I got a stalker gotta love the internet

[First&Only]

Explain in brief the situation about the clinginess. Then unfriend. No harm in helping them develop better social skills and learn from their behaviour for next time. Pass around a little human compassion

[Typical_J.B]

Just block them, even if you want to be nice you shouldn't get any more messages from them

[Jennfelde]

Update to the situation: They unadded me and I decided to block them. They haven't been on for a while so the situation has been taken care of.

Thank you for the advice.

[Moldy Bread]

Jennfelde eredeti hozzászólása:

I'm primarily using Discord and I found this friend who friended me first. I don't exactly like them and I don't want to conversate with them anymore.

How would I get away from this person without seeming rude or feeling bad? [/quote]
tell him stright away " ya mon u annoy me" and walk away gracefully

[sotaponi]

fauxtronic eredeti hozzászólása:

Xautos eredeti hozzászólása:

1. and the harasser doesn't take any notice.
2. they continue to disrupt your activities.
3. that does nothing but gives them the attention they desperately crave off you.

It can be that easy to get around.

My three step plan has never failed me.

You seem to be talking about something else however. Crazed, attention-seeking stalkers, not clingy friends. Maybe too much internet is jading your view of people.

If you associate with these kind of people, you shouldn't be surprised about some day finding a knife lodged firmly inside your chest. Because they are insane. But there are women who stay with this type. And maybe there are even guys who "stick their ♥♥♥♥ in crazy." And then they end up dead. And they act surprised. Well, they don't, because they are kind of dead. But everyone else does.

And analogously... logically speaking... I think OP already has to fear for his life. Especially in case his friend has shown signs of being passive aggressive or schizoid in the past. With the act of unfriending + blocking then further fueling his schizophrenic delusions, which makes him think that OP is out to get him. Even months later. Every change to OP's profile would represent an attempt at mocking him. If OP's address would be on the internet, he'd be screwed. He already ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up. Just think about what kind of delusions his friend will conjure. Maybe even years later. You never know when it comes to crazy. OP should have never accepted the invite... Now it's already too late.

[Jennfelde]

sotaponi eredeti hozzászólása:

fauxtronic eredeti hozzászólása:

My three step plan has never failed me.

You seem to be talking about something else however. Crazed, attention-seeking stalkers, not clingy friends. Maybe too much internet is jading your view of people.

If you associate with these kind of people, you shouldn't be surprised about some day finding a knife lodged firmly inside your chest. Because they are insane. But there are women who stay with this type. And maybe there are even guys who "stick their ♥♥♥♥ in crazy." And then they end up dead. And they act surprised. Well, they don't, because they are kind of dead. But everyone else does.

And analogously... logically speaking... I think OP already has to fear for his life. Especially in case his friend has shown signs of being passive aggressive or schizoid in the past. With the act of unfriending + blocking then further fueling his schizophrenic delusions, which makes him think that OP is out to get him. Even months later. Every change to OP's profile would represent an attempt at mocking him. If OP's address would be on the internet, he'd be screwed. He already ♥♥♥♥♥♥ up. Just think about what kind of delusions his friend will conjure. Maybe even years later. You never know when it comes to crazy. OP should have never accepted the invite... Now it's already too late.

Thanks for the addition to my paranoia!