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18 year old dating a 16 year old?
do y'all think that's weird? whats your max age difference in your mind.
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They could, if it was of own choice and families supported it or did not care. If the 50 year old was a female teacher and the 16 year old a boy student in her class, then it would be illigal. Again it depends on the "auhority" situation and if there is any type of taking advantage of, if they are not present then age does not matter, as long as it is within the law.

But most people would frown upon that ofc, because people have set values.

There has to be an assumption that when an adult begins a relationship with a child that there's been a large element of grooming beforehand.

There's no way on earth a 14 year old should be in a sexual relationship with someone that much older than them. To frame that as "love" would be ignorant of the prior manipulation of the child by a controlling adult.

I'm honestly shocked that apparently civilised European countries still class a 14 year old child as being capable of entering into a relationship of this type with a person that age.

My niece is 14 and if she was in this sort of relationship with a man twice her age, he'd be getting a surprise visit from her dad and myself to have a small chat. With that small chat being an euphemism for threats of extreme violence to follow should he fail to leave her alone.
Edit. No need to make further debate, since it will just stir a huge debate without much meaning.

Let me just close it by saying, that in the OP's case I think it is perfectly fine and natural
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If the woman is younger than the man it just works but this is always the case anyway
if its in a place where 16 is the legal age go ahead otherwise its dodgy,Unless its one of those pre-arraged marriages......oof.

Unless you were both minors in a relationship before one turned 18 which if anything could trigger the romeo-juliette clause, which i think is seldom used,But if its one of those still not the best idea to do Lewd Stuff tell you're both 18 if in say the US or a equavlant age country.
If it's a healthy relationship still go date just...its dodgy and differs state to state or provence to provence...etc depending on local/regional Laws
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Von-Reaper; 2020. febr. 25., 14:04
I dont want to spit nasty weird stuff but i HEARD its legal in australia and or new zealand when an adult of any age have sexual intercourse with 12 year olds and above? O_o* (sry if im wrong but i heard that rly somewhere but i forgot where)
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I dont want to spit nasty weird stuff but i HEARD its legal in australia and or new zealand when an adult of any age have sexual intercourse with 12 year olds and above? O_o* (sry if im wrong but i heard that rly somewhere but i forgot where)
Yep, that's wrong. I'm from Australia.

On topic, I think dating is fine. Sex is another story based on country's laws. I don't think it's weird for a date. When I was 16, most of my friends were women and older.
I worked with a guy whose 15 yo daughter was knocked up by a 19 yo. He wanted to press charges, and was informed there was no crime because there was less than four years between their ages.
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I dont want to spit nasty weird stuff but i HEARD its legal in australia and or new zealand when an adult of any age have sexual intercourse with 12 year olds and above? O_o* (sry if im wrong but i heard that rly somewhere but i forgot where)

The legal age is 16 in New Zealand.

Most places is 18. In some other places it's 14, the youngest is 12 and a countries oldest legal age is 21.

Can you imagine waiting till your 21? I think 18 is stupid enough. Maturity != Age anyways. You can have some seriously dumb adults who shouldn't even be attempting to reproduce. They should make it like a drivers or firearms license you have to get. Haha, even then it would be a total failure.
Legutóbb szerkesztette: Azza ☠; 2020. febr. 25., 15:26
The rule is simple: half your age+7 = the age limit

so 18 with a 16 is fine (where it's legal)
Age of consent is usually 16 so it doesn't matter. How it looks depends on the looks and attitude of both persons. Some 30 yos look young, some 16 yos look washed up.

Starts getting universally weird around 35.
50 yo man dates 20yo woman in the street corner at night.
Legutóbb szerkesztette: chiefputsilao✖️ping; 2020. febr. 25., 16:31
Just wait until you're out of high school to do any of that crap.
I don't really care, I think 3 Years apart max should be
good enough between the two, & if your between 16 & 18,
you should both agree to it, & it should not be decided between only
1 individual... A Joint decision... But here is the thing...

When you are under age, people tend to take advantage of
the idea, both ways...

Either the younger purposely get the other in trouble for personal gain,
or they purposely abuse this by taking advantage of the younger...

It is why it is in most cases, best to avoid dating under age people...
because you don't know what kind of person you are dating, a more
mature serious relationship, or one where they are a bit nutty, or
it could just be that your the nutty one, & they are not...

You just don't know... & It's best to just avoid it...
Trump was 24 when his current wife was born lol... Meanwhile Macron's wife was 24 when he was born...
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its weird... 2years is "pretty lucky".. most have more years difference.. Its rly hard to find someone in the same age


To me it's within 3 Years apart... But here is a funny thing...


How do you solve this problem?

A guy who is dating a girl who is under age, is considered someone who is doing
illegal acts, & should be put in jail, right?

But how can he know she is under age, if she refuses to give him her age? Don't
Women hate when men ask their age?

Is this not a really deranged problem? Maybe the guy wouldn't date the girl,
if he knew she was under age from the start?

lOl, ^_-

That could be our defense in court for now on... Well ya see officer,
the lady refused to tell me her age, & how was I to know she was under age?

Hahahaaaaa...
Legutóbb szerkesztette: GuRu Asaki; 2020. febr. 25., 19:24
Nah, that's not that weird. 21 and 16 year old, now that's weird. Those are 2 totally different life stages imo. A 21 year old should either be in college or exploring career opportunities. A 16 year old would be only concerned with high school still and maybe getting their driver's license. Stuff that a 21 year old wouldn't be worrying about hopefully.
Few years doesnt matter. When your age difference is so high, that you will be becoming your SO's nurse in your 40 to 50's then its ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ bad idea.
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