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Spartan_Warrior 2020 年 2 月 25 日 上午 8:58
18 year old dating a 16 year old?
do y'all think that's weird? whats your max age difference in your mind.
引用自 AdahnGorion:
引用自 Starbug
引用自 Darkie

They could, if it was of own choice and families supported it or did not care. If the 50 year old was a female teacher and the 16 year old a boy student in her class, then it would be illigal. Again it depends on the "auhority" situation and if there is any type of taking advantage of, if they are not present then age does not matter, as long as it is within the law.

But most people would frown upon that ofc, because people have set values.

There has to be an assumption that when an adult begins a relationship with a child that there's been a large element of grooming beforehand.

There's no way on earth a 14 year old should be in a sexual relationship with someone that much older than them. To frame that as "love" would be ignorant of the prior manipulation of the child by a controlling adult.

I'm honestly shocked that apparently civilised European countries still class a 14 year old child as being capable of entering into a relationship of this type with a person that age.

My niece is 14 and if she was in this sort of relationship with a man twice her age, he'd be getting a surprise visit from her dad and myself to have a small chat. With that small chat being an euphemism for threats of extreme violence to follow should he fail to leave her alone.
Edit. No need to make further debate, since it will just stir a huge debate without much meaning.

Let me just close it by saying, that in the OP's case I think it is perfectly fine and natural
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Castyles 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 12:29 
Nobody cares.
Lebhleb 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 12:44 
引用自 Xero_Daxter
My parents are 15 years apart and it makes me wonder sometimes.......
I thought 10 was alot but holy.
Still, topic, i don't think 1 or 2 years is that bad, or 18 to 16, now 15 to 13 or less is bit, stretching it, but a few years wont hurt, or 5, above that its strange, or some strange mixes, like 30 and like 40 maybe, im mostly fine with it but its sometimes strange... though i am into older myself.
AdahnGorion 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 12:50 
not weird at all, 2 years difference is fine.

age of consent in uk is 16 so they could even engage in intercourse and be perfectly legal.

26 and 16 however...

A 26 year old female having sex with a 16 year old male is not problematic and legal in most regions. I've seen that happen many times without trouble. Tbh most in my country have a debut on the funky stuff around 14 years old and in some regions earlier (albeit here they are often both under 16)
Табушка 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:00 
引用自 Darkie
I've seen that happen many times without trouble.
The wording here raises questions Darkie
AdahnGorion 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:08 
引用自 Tabushka
引用自 Darkie
I've seen that happen many times without trouble.
The wording here raises questions Darkie

I have seen 14 year olds be together in relationship and I have myself been in one when I was that age, infact I was also with another person on 17 when I was 14. it is not that unusual, that is my point here. (I get your question, you are asking if I have been much older or have watched stuff happen, that is a no, but I have seen others being in such a relation as in meet them, talked to them, etc)
Personally I have never been with someone much younger than me, rather I have been with people older. Maturity plays a big role here.

But this will get much to OT if you ask me. As I said, I think there is no problem with a 16 year old and a 26 year old if it is within the legal age of said country.
GetToTheTop 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:16 
I like jail too
Starbug 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:20 
引用自 Darkie
not weird at all, 2 years difference is fine.

age of consent in uk is 16 so they could even engage in intercourse and be perfectly legal.

26 and 16 however...

A 26 year old female having sex with a 16 year old male is not problematic and legal in most regions. I've seen that happen many times without trouble. Tbh most in my country have a debut on the funky stuff around 14 years old and in some regions earlier (albeit here they are often both under 16)

That's creepy as ♥♥♥♥. It's not illegal to be an adult who dresses up as a big baby and to wear a diaper for sexual kicks either. But both are creepy as ♥♥♥♥. IMO.
TheRandomGuy 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:23 
4-5 year age difference is fine IMO, as long as both parties are legally old enough to give consent.
AD 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:26 
I don't think it's a big deal, it's just 2 years difference.
talemore 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:28 
My country had the mature age changed from 15 to 16,17 and 18
Sailor moon is about a girl 14 year old, but she's legally an adult in the show.
When you're in your teens, a few years makes a big difference. But when you become an adult, things aren't much different. I'd say the maximum age would be like 5 years.
Zylfrax791 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:41 
引用自 Azza ☠
not weird at all, 2 years difference is fine.

age of consent in uk is 16 so they could even engage in intercourse and be perfectly legal.

26 and 16 however...

Legal age of consent in US is 18 years old, before they are allowed to have sex. They aren't mature enough for that behavior.

Before that it's 16 and 6 months to legally join the army, pick up a gun and kill others in cold blood.

Priorities!

Actually in the USA with parents permission a minor can marry an adult whereupon they can consumate the relationship. Not only that numerous states don't even specify a minimum age either.
Spartan_Warrior 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:41 
Just to set this straight for some of the people here. age of consent is going to differ by state, and that also only applies to sexual intercourse. also its federally legal in the US for a Adult to date a minor over the age of 12. dating is referring to going out to dinner, movies, walks, concerts etc.
Zylfrax791 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:48 
引用自 Spartan_Warrior
Just to set this straight for some of the people here. age of consent is going to differ by state, and that also only applies to sexual intercourse. also its federally legal in the US for a Adult to date a minor over the age of 12. dating is referring to going out to dinner, movies, walks, concerts etc.

It's not a minors choice however. Minors are essentially their parents property as strange as that sounds but from a legal standpoint its completely true considering the fact that you can put your child "up for adoption" and profit from it.
Γαῖα 2020 年 2 月 25 日 下午 1:48 
The issue is the law.

The legal age of consent is 17 while inducement is 18.

In a time where what you feel is very much the natural order, at a juncture where some are suggesting a child is informed enough to navigate gender assignment, should be given the vote, protests and petitions for gun law changes and what not, it does raise the question whether or not this law is still proportionate to the intellect of todays children and young adult teenagers.

Im not american but i would hope that its never the case that the law was so ridged that it could not identify the difference between a proper coupling and the aim of one to take advantage of the other. Surely both parties are extensively investigated to ascertain the type of union when the age groups are so very close in respect to the law.
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