How can I Find love while being a gamer??

[MoJean]

i play games most of the time of my live and I don't regret it. But how do I find love within that structure?? I know there are many around the world who live the same way or want to live with someone who wants to play games (or together). I'm not that kinda person who wants to go to diner and pay or going to the movie. I'm thinking of someone who loves gaming like I am and just want to be together and have our own gaming setups next to eachother while we enjoy life.

Is this so strange to think? I don't feel like any of the standard dating procedures you''lle usually see.

[SpaceyMatt]

How would you pay the bills if all you both did was play games all time?

Sounds like the sort of thing someone 12 would say honestly op.

[BRM62C]

Първоначално публикувано от Mustang Matt:

How would you pay the bills if all you both did was play games all time?

Sounds like the sort of thing someone 12 would say honestly op.

Who said he would game all the time? I don't understand why people make this assumption.

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Първоначално публикувано от Connoisseur of Tanqueray:

My wife still games. When i met her in 2002 she was a gamer. Still is to this day. Plus she is the perfect wife. Not only does she game but she cooks and cleans also. Everytime i go to clean something she will tell me to sit down and she will do it. So either she just wants to do it or maybe she don't think i'll do it the she wants it. I may never know.

You’re a lucky man. 😊

Yes, I know. She is a keeper.

[User]

Първоначално публикувано от Ms. Jack Bauer:

Първоначално публикувано от TimRaveler:

Most probably you won't. Most girls are not into gaming. They will fake it for a few weeks only. Then they'll start to get on your nerves. Jusy find someone who leave you alone while you game. Their idea of fun is mostly going out , shopping and traveling.

Can confirm. I am a girl and I have only played games for 2 weeks, tops. Now I just browse the forums looking for attention.

Actually you may find someone like that online ( yeah obviosly girls he talking about do exist ) but the odds are rare because the girl may not even want someone who'd like to game with her. and most people we find online are usually from different countries I was talking about real life.

In real life chances of finding a girlfriend are like 90% she may not ultimately be your kind though while online the chances are 10% and you may find exactly what you want. But in Online you are competing with 20 other guys who are hitting on the same girl why would you even bother ? What i was saying is people should find someone who respect their space and just be happy.

[BRM62C]

Първоначално публикувано от TimRaveler:

Първоначално публикувано от Ms. Jack Bauer:

Can confirm. I am a girl and I have only played games for 2 weeks, tops. Now I just browse the forums looking for attention.

Actually you may find someone like that online ( yeah obviosly girls he talking about do exist ) but the odds are rare because the girl may not even want someone who'd like to game with her. and most people we find online are usually from different countries I was talking about real life.

In real life chances of finding a girlfriend are like 90% she may not ultimately be your kind though while online the chances are 10% and you may find exactly what you want. But in Online you are competing with 20 other guys who are hitting on the same girl why would you even bother ? What i was saying is people should find someone who respect their space and just be happy.

That's actually pretty true, never thought of that.

[BossGalaga]

Първоначално публикувано от Teszlarica:

How can I Find love while being a gamer??

Smash all the jars you find. You'll find in one of them.

[Dominic]

I do not think those two things go together.

[SpaceyMatt]

Първоначално публикувано от Fondu:

Първоначално публикувано от Mustang Matt:

How would you pay the bills if all you both did was play games all time?

Sounds like the sort of thing someone 12 would say honestly op.

Who said he would game all the time? I don't understand why people make this assumption.

Because he flat out said in his first post he plays games most of the time and wishes to continue doing so with another person who would stay with him and love him.

L2r.

[Jennfelde]

Първоначално публикувано от Dominic:

I do not think those two things go together.

A person I know games and has a GF.

[SpaceyMatt]

Първоначално публикувано от Momora:

Първоначално публикувано от Dominic:

I do not think those two things go together.

A person I know games and has a GF.

Well I met my s/o through gaming and we have been married 3.5 years, but we do not game that much anymore and do not even come online a lot anymore.

Work and offline hobbies take most of our time anymore.

[Dominic]

Първоначално публикувано от Momora:

Първоначално публикувано от Dominic:

I do not think those two things go together.

A person I know games and has a GF.

I see maybe it was just my problem then.

Първоначално публикувано от Mustang Matt:

Първоначално публикувано от Momora:

A person I know games and has a GF.

Well I met my s/o through gaming and we have been married 3.5 years, but we do not game that much anymore and do not even come online a lot anymore.

Work and offline hobbies take most of our time anymore.

I figure once the dating happens or getting married happens the gaming kind of slows down or stops more.

Gets very busy trying to take care of stuff. And having to spend time with people can get in the way of games to I would assume.

[SpaceyMatt]

Yeah, it took a while.. we kinda gradually stopped gaming and being online much over time, but being out and doing things is a lot funner and more memorable anyways.

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Първоначално публикувано от TimRaveler:

Първоначално публикувано от Ms. Jack Bauer:

Can confirm. I am a girl and I have only played games for 2 weeks, tops. Now I just browse the forums looking for attention.

Actually you may find someone like that online ( yeah obviosly girls he talking about do exist ) but the odds are rare because the girl may not even want someone who'd like to game with her. and most people we find online are usually from different countries I was talking about real life.

In real life chances of finding a girlfriend are like 90% she may not ultimately be your kind though while online the chances are 10% and you may find exactly what you want. But in Online you are competing with 20 other guys who are hitting on the same girl why would you even bother ? What i was saying is people should find someone who respect their space and just be happy.

Thank you for your message, Tim.

More often than not, online dating is a numbers game and women will often have hundreds or thousands of messages from men. You will often find cam girls and hookers on Twitch, Twitter and Tinder, not the best places for a young man that is looking for a decent woman.

The best types of sites where people genuinely date are Match.com or other paid websites but there are also dating agencies that could help the thread creator.

[BanOphobia My Struggle]

You don't find love. Love finds you. Worked for me.

[iza]

I found my girlfriend in the university. It was pure coincidence that she's into videogames aswell.

Best you can do is downloading a dating app, but expect many failures until you meet a proper one.