How can I Find love while being a gamer??

[MoJean]

i play games most of the time of my live and I don't regret it. But how do I find love within that structure?? I know there are many around the world who live the same way or want to live with someone who wants to play games (or together). I'm not that kinda person who wants to go to diner and pay or going to the movie. I'm thinking of someone who loves gaming like I am and just want to be together and have our own gaming setups next to eachother while we enjoy life.

Is this so strange to think? I don't feel like any of the standard dating procedures you''lle usually see.

[Kris]

Opprinnelig skrevet av TimRaveler:

Most probably you won't. Most girls are not into gaming. They will fake it for a few weeks only. Then they'll start to get on your nerves. Jusy find someone who leave you alone while you game. Their idea of fun is mostly going out , shopping and traveling.

Can confirm. I am a girl and I have only played games for 2 weeks, tops. Now I just browse the forums looking for attention.

[BRM62C]

Opprinnelig skrevet av ϟBurntMadϟ:

Its possible to find someone like that. But as for me, I don't think that kind of relationship would float for much longer. If you are both dedicated gamers for like a mmo/rpg, are you gonna spend most of your time with each other by playing side by side and not look at each other once? Or...

That's only if you game like literally all day.

[628]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Teszlarica:

i play games most of the time of my live and I don't regret it. But how do I find love within that structure?? I know there are many around the world who live the same way or want to live with someone who wants to play games (or together). I'm not that kinda person who wants to go to diner and pay or going to the movie. I'm thinking of someone who loves gaming like I am and just want to be together and have our own gaming setups next to eachother while we enjoy life.

Is this so strange to think? I don't feel like any of the standard dating procedures you''lle usually see.

Be a gamer
Find love

Choose one.

[BRM62C]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Ryan628jpn:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Teszlarica:

i play games most of the time of my live and I don't regret it. But how do I find love within that structure?? I know there are many around the world who live the same way or want to live with someone who wants to play games (or together). I'm not that kinda person who wants to go to diner and pay or going to the movie. I'm thinking of someone who loves gaming like I am and just want to be together and have our own gaming setups next to eachother while we enjoy life.

Is this so strange to think? I don't feel like any of the standard dating procedures you''lle usually see.

Be a gamer
Find love

Choose one.

Basically LOL

[Cassidy]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Ryan628jpn:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Teszlarica:

i play games most of the time of my live and I don't regret it. But how do I find love within that structure?? I know there are many around the world who live the same way or want to live with someone who wants to play games (or together). I'm not that kinda person who wants to go to diner and pay or going to the movie. I'm thinking of someone who loves gaming like I am and just want to be together and have our own gaming setups next to eachother while we enjoy life.

Is this so strange to think? I don't feel like any of the standard dating procedures you''lle usually see.

Be a gamer
Find love

Choose one.

My husband and I found both, somehow.

[Del_Duio]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Teszlarica:

I'm not that kinda person who wants to go to diner and pay or going to the movie.

That's tough man, most girls are going to want to go to dinner or a movie. It's a lot of fun too!

[BRM62C]

Opprinnelig skrevet av MaliceWraith:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Ryan628jpn:

Be a gamer
Find love

Choose one.

My husband and I found both, somehow.

Is it hard to balance gaming and the relationship? I always wondered that.

[Cassidy]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Fondu:

Opprinnelig skrevet av MaliceWraith:

My husband and I found both, somehow.

Is it hard to balance gaming and the relationship? I always wondered that.

When you start working, gaming already takes a backseat, so we only get to game a few hours each day. We both prefer not to go out unless we need to, or unless the weather is really good, so we mostly play co-op games or play single-player games side-by-side (our PCs are next to each other's).

[Del_Duio]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Fondu:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Del_Duio:

That's tough man, most girls are going to want to go to dinner or a movie. It's a lot of fun too!

Movies a pretty chill, but

The good news, OP, is that you have a choice. Back in my day see, we had to go outside and get a girl the old-fashioned way.. Walking in the snow, uphill.. both ways!

There was no textity doo dahs, no interwebs, no MyFace or Instabook! If you were lucky you could get her phone number and then spin the ol' rotary dial for 2 minutes and call her up. If you were luckier her dad wouldn't answer the phone and say "WHO IS THIS? WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEEEE??!"

So yes, technology is helpful and etc.

[Del_Duio]

Opprinnelig skrevet av MaliceWraith:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Fondu:

Is it hard to balance gaming and the relationship? I always wondered that.

When you start working, gaming already takes a backseat, so we only get to game a few hours each day.

Wait 'til children, friend. If I'm lucky I'll get maybe an hour here and there when I can. Job + Kids = No time for games.

[BRM62C]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Del_Duio:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Fondu:

Movies a pretty chill, but

The good news, OP, is that you have a choice. Back in my day see, we had to go outside and get a girl the old-fashioned way.. Walking in the snow, uphill.. both ways!

There was no textity doo dahs, no interwebs, no MyFace or Instabook! If you were lucky you could get her phone number and then spin the ol' rotary dial for 2 minutes and call her up. If you were luckier her dad wouldn't answer the phone and say "WHO IS THIS? WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEEEE??!"

So yes, technology is helpful and etc.

I was gonna say "but I'm always inside" haha. Technology is the way to go now, after the ♥♥♥♥ I see online I don't feel like I'm allowed to interact with girls in real life.

[BRM62C]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Del_Duio:

Opprinnelig skrevet av MaliceWraith:

When you start working, gaming already takes a backseat, so we only get to game a few hours each day.

Wait 'til children, friend. If I'm lucky I'll get maybe an hour here and there when I can. Job + Kids = No time for games.

Yeah I don't think I'd want that, I'm not interested in raising kids when I could be killing zombies. That's lost time!

[Del_Duio]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Fondu:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Del_Duio:

The good news, OP, is that you have a choice. Back in my day see, we had to go outside and get a girl the old-fashioned way.. Walking in the snow, uphill.. both ways!

There was no textity doo dahs, no interwebs, no MyFace or Instabook! If you were lucky you could get her phone number and then spin the ol' rotary dial for 2 minutes and call her up. If you were luckier her dad wouldn't answer the phone and say "WHO IS THIS? WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEEEE??!"

So yes, technology is helpful and etc.

I was gonna say "but I'm always inside" haha. Technology is the way to go now, after the ♥♥♥♥ I see online I don't feel like I'm allowed to interact with girls in real life.

Obviously do what you want to do, but getting out and meeting face to face will do a lot more for you than communicating this way with girls (in the long run). It's a lost art, good luck to you!

[BRM62C]

Opprinnelig skrevet av MaliceWraith:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Fondu:

Is it hard to balance gaming and the relationship? I always wondered that.

When you start working, gaming already takes a backseat, so we only get to game a few hours each day. We both prefer not to go out unless we need to, or unless the weather is really good, so we mostly play co-op games or play single-player games side-by-side (our PCs are next to each other's).

That actually sounds better than what I imagine my relationship would be like. I imagine I'd try to play video games for like 20 minutes a day, then after, I get dragged away for the rest of the day to go outside or talk for hours which drains me, then I get dumped. I could get used to that schedule though, glad it's working out for you.

[BRM62C]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Del_Duio:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Fondu:

I was gonna say "but I'm always inside" haha. Technology is the way to go now, after the ♥♥♥♥ I see online I don't feel like I'm allowed to interact with girls in real life.

Obviously do what you want to do, but getting out and meeting face to face will do a lot more for you than communicating this way with girls (in the long run). It's a lost art, good luck to you!

I can't imagine doing either to be honest, not ready for that right now. I'm too content with staying inside and just keeping to myself. Maybe in the future something will happen.