How can I Find love while being a gamer??

[MoJean]

i play games most of the time of my live and I don't regret it. But how do I find love within that structure?? I know there are many around the world who live the same way or want to live with someone who wants to play games (or together). I'm not that kinda person who wants to go to diner and pay or going to the movie. I'm thinking of someone who loves gaming like I am and just want to be together and have our own gaming setups next to eachother while we enjoy life.

Is this so strange to think? I don't feel like any of the standard dating procedures you''lle usually see.

[Xero_Daxter]

Publicado originalmente por NX3D:

There are many gamer girls on Steam.

If you are a decent lad on the forums and communities, they will add you.

Not to be a pessimist (realist) but the likelihood of that happening is pretty low. Not saying it’s impossble but it’s very low to find a girl on the forums. As for games... a lot of girls tend to stay radio silent or not reveal that they are a girl because... well... you know how guys are in lobbies/games; white knights and women haters.

[Jennfelde]

go outside

[Arvaos]

Publicado originalmente por Xero_Daxter:

Publicado originalmente por NX3D:

There are many gamer girls on Steam.

If you are a decent lad on the forums and communities, they will add you.

Not to be a pessimist (realist) but the likelihood of that happening is pretty low. Not saying it’s impossble but it’s very low to find a girl on the forums. As for games... a lot of girls tend to stay radio silent or not reveal that they are a girl because... well... you know how guys are in lobbies/games; white knights and women haters.

There are many gamer girls on Steam but there are also dating websites and communities that may be better for the thread creator.

[slowdeath]

hit fat airshots and girls will love you

[Friday Ex-Wife Vibes]

Socialize

[Gina]

I would go for a dating site and see what I could find that way. You could meet one on a multiplayer game (I knew someone from long ago who met each other on Everquest and got married), but most of the time if the girl is really there to play the game, she wants to play the game and doesn't appreciate getting hit on.

I do know a couple of couples who are married where she isn't a gamer, and it works out good for them. Although it's nice to have that shared interest. My husband is more of an Xbox player so we do have two tvs in the living room side by side where we can play together. Works for us.

[psychotron666]

You probably need to find girls like that on dating apps, or in online games, because like you, they likely don't like going out either.

Or just gotta be in the right place at the right time.

Maybe get a job at eb games/game stop? Or maybe go to those gaming cafes and you can meet people there.

[Nightlight]

Surely there's a dating site for gamers you can use. I would be shocked if gamer dating sites don't exist yet.

[Randy Marsh]

Publicado originalmente por Connoisseur of Tanqueray:

Publicado originalmente por TimRaveler:

Trust me on this one. Even if you find one like that. She will only be like that for a while. Women are vicious creatures bro. You only wanna find someone who gives you space.

My wife still games. When i met her in 2002 she was a gamer. Still is to this day. Plus she is the perfect wife. Not only does she game but she cooks and cleans also. Everytime i go to clean something she will tell me to sit down and she will do it. So either she just wants to do it or maybe she don't think i'll do it the she wants it. I may never know.

You’re a lucky man. 😊

[psychotron666]

Publicado originalmente por Xero_Daxter:

Publicado originalmente por NX3D:

There are many gamer girls on Steam.

If you are a decent lad on the forums and communities, they will add you.

Not to be a pessimist (realist) but the likelihood of that happening is pretty low. Not saying it’s impossble but it’s very low to find a girl on the forums. As for games... a lot of girls tend to stay radio silent or not reveal that they are a girl because... well... you know how guys are in lobbies/games; white knights and women haters.

I one time met a chick on an online game (tibia) who happened to live in my same city so we became friends. Eventually we hooked up and banged a few times.

That's probably one of the few times in history people got on a video game format and hooked up. I never would have believed it could happen, until it did.

If I were the op though, I wouldn't be holding my breath for something like that to happen, especially on the steam forums. If that kind of thing happens, it's extremely rare.

You're probably more likely to have a kidney stolen in a situation like that.

[Jaunitta 🌸]

Meet people with the same interests.
https://steamcommunity.com/groups/looking4newfriends

[Angel]

I would have said coop or multiplayer games can result in relationships. I remember a couple got married after meeting online regularly (In Overwatch).

I'm from the old generation where I'd just ask a lady out for a date but in today's age, sure, why not. People swipe left and right on their phone to get dates so games have more communications.

[Florida Man]

Publicado originalmente por 💕 𝓑𝓾𝓷 💕:

I am the same, I would much rather love to lay on the couch and play a party game all night than go out to a fancy restaurant.

I hate going out places.
Mostly it's fear of the traffic going between places.

to find love though you just need to see if you find that special somebody, I have heard of a lot of stories of people finding their wife/husband on games.

Publicado originalmente por NX3D:

There are many gamer girls on Steam.
If you are a decent lad on the forums and communities, they will add you.

I mean, I found a "gf" playing Killing Floor years ago. It was mostly by a mixture of dumb luck and minimal standards (for both of us). To be fair, though, some people get struck by lightning or win the powerball, but how many of those people do you know?

OP,
Trying to play the long game in online communities CAN* lead to a relationship.
* it's just very unlikely when you factor in the people she has met in real life, the friends she's already made in games / in that community and if she even is a girl in the first place, much less if she's interested in having a relationship with you as opposed to any of the thousand other guys who are trying to be nice to her in the attempt to do the exact same thing you're trying to do.

The biggest, most important question you can ask yourself when attempting to start a relationship is "what can I bring to the table as a friend and as a potential lover?"

[Daxank]

You can't, give up


It'll find you

[s w e k]

Maybe. It happened for me but that ended. You have more of a chance meeting people outside of games.