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MF COOM Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:21pm
Im 14 and i want to have a Girlfriend but i am introvert so i scare them away even despite the fact that i am pretty good looking.
Hello Guys, i know that i shouldn't seek for help here on Steam, but i don't want some ♥♥♥♥ advices like "yOu HaVe To TrY tO iNvItE tHeM oN dAtEs". I mean that everyone at my age is just sweeping throughout the Snapchat to find girls then break up after 3-4 days and i want a good girl that will have interest in same things as i do. I don't have problems with attracting girls but i think that when i happen to meet one she just either gets scared of whom i am really or feels that she is wasting time on me. I don't even want her to be my girlfriend, she can just be my friend for playing games, just to cure my lonelyness. Also sorry for my English, i am from Poland.

Edit: ♥♥♥♥ it, how to block hormones?
Edit: NvM NiBBaS hEnTaI dId It'S jOb.
Last edited by MF COOM; Jul 11, 2018 @ 2:00pm
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DefraggedSSD Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:25pm 
as a 19 year old. You really don't need one even if the people of the same age have them. Your on hormones and your personality will change over the coming years. same for the girlfriend. The girl that you fall in love with/or the you she falls in love with will dissapear and change. Have patience and start dating properly when your 18 and you have a chance at a "soulmate"
MF COOM Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:28pm 
Wow, the first comment that i got was actually non-hate comment, you doin me a fascinate, thanks
Vuitton Vampire Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:29pm 
Well obviously your looks arent working if you scare them away. Finding a girlfriend isnt always about how good you claim you look. You have to have a good personality too, you are going to have to change your ways or settle for someone who is ok with you being an introvert.

Curious, how does being an introvert scare people away? I would say im more introverted and ive had moderate amounts of female... practices if you know what I mean. Introvert = equal scary, you might have some other kind of traits that you might not realize are taking over that scare girls away. You are still young asf, you have plenty of time to find yourself and change. No need to rush and get a girlfriend at 14. Plus not many relationships last at 14, a heartbreak or "heartbreak" that young could actually be a negative thing..
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=CrimsoN= Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:30pm 
Originally posted by Defragged:
You really don't need one even if the people of the same age have them. Your on hormones and your personality will change over the coming years.

^This. Rarely does any meaningful relationship evolve from primary school, but maybe its different in Poland, but I doubt it.
MF COOM Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:33pm 
Poland = THOTs and normies, especially in my 60,000 town
O5 Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:34pm 
I'm an introvert, and I probably scare away everyone. I look like an insane person, so that's not getting me any favors. Not that I'm all too interested in dating anyone but a very particular person.
Last edited by O5; Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:34pm
=CrimsoN= Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:34pm 
Originally posted by WiciuWitek:
Poland = THOTs and normies, especially in my 60,000 town

Even more reason not to bother with a relationship lol
But that probably won't stop you from trying to get laid. Just don't expect anything meaningful. I don't know any other adults who are still in contact with the people they knew in primary school. I'm certainly not.
Mr.Moffia Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:37pm 
Don’t try to hard, don’t make it all about them, just be a nice person, SMILE, and you should be good
KriegerKR Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:37pm 
get yourself some of that confidence, walk up to a girl, and don't be a creep about it.
knebabo Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:41pm 
I am 15 and have never had one and I have to say that I am fine. Granted, I don't have a phone so I really have no way to get one. However, I still get along with people(both genders) pretty well. SO my advice is: Don't get a girlfriend; and delete this thread before everyone on Steam thinks you are an idiot. Good day.
DefraggedSSD Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:43pm 
Originally posted by knebabo:
I am 15 and have never had one and I have to say that I am fine. Granted, I don't have a phone so I really have no way to get one. However, I still get along with people(both genders) pretty well. SO my advice is: Don't get a girlfriend; and delete this thread before everyone on Steam thinks you are an idiot. Good day.
bit late for that. can't delete a thread with 7+ replies. Only a mod can delete it now.
MF COOM Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:46pm 
I don't care to be honest, i did plenty of ♥♥♥♥♥♥ things in my short life and being spontaneous for doing things like this always payed up for me.
KriegerKR Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:47pm 
Originally posted by WiciuWitek:
I don't care to be honest, i did plenty of ♥♥♥♥♥♥ things in my short life and being spontaneous for doing things like this always payed up for me.

gud, getting a girlfriend at 14 is a good experience to have. it's not like you have anything else to do with your time if she takes up a lot with it
O5 Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:49pm 
Originally posted by WiciuWitek:
I don't care to be honest, i did plenty of ♥♥♥♥♥♥ things in my short life and being spontaneous for doing things like this always payed up for me.
You mean people ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ on you? I've decided that I like you, so I won't allow that.
Last edited by O5; Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:55pm
MF COOM Jul 10, 2018 @ 2:53pm 
Sorry, what shifting means? I can't google it and i don't know this word?
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