I need help with tips on an annoying person...

[Pike]

So there is this guy that is my age, and he is like super clingy, I dont really want to play with him that often, but that is always what happens. I dont want to just unfriend him because that would be kind of mean, he didnt do anything, but I dont really want to play with him that often. Can you guys help me?

[Beyond]

Just say you're busy.

[pike]

unfriend ,

RIP THE BAND-AIDE OFF
end it , better to do quick , less pain ,
coma coma coma

[CodeGreen]

Convince him to stop and make the guy understand that you need some space between the two of you. I had one back then and I understand what kind of situation you're in.

[ṼṏẌṏḭḊ]

Just tell him. You dont have to be mean about it, just say "hey man, I'm your friend and all, but I don't want to play with you all the time. I need some time to myself"

[sasuke uchiha]

Just do what i did back in the day, say you promised another friend you would play with them and that you can play with the clingy friend another time.

[Florida Man]

I know that feeling, OP
I ended up with friends I didn't enjoy, but I didn't want to remove them because I'd known some for years.

So I started this account instead.

[Nickanoodle]

I had a friend like that once. I was about to unfriend him but he unfriended me just because I refused one out of ten times. Just try to refuse half the time.

[pike]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Dormé:

If someone thinks I'm annoying I would prefer them to unfriend me. I don't need to waste my time on people who don't like me.

bravo !
why pretend ,

[Florida Man]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Dormé:

If someone thinks I'm annoying I would prefer them to unfriend me. I don't need to waste my time on people who don't like me.

But then if you tell someone that and it ruins their day (which it most likely will if they are clingy), then you feel like an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

Problem is that people like that fall into a category where they are not really fun to be with, but at the same time, they're also not annoying enough to feel like you can reasonably remove them...especially if you used to know them pretty well.

[pike]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Dormé:

Opprinnelig skrevet av pike:

bravo !
why pretend ,

I'm not going to hold it against anyone. I come and go. I disappear sometimes. I hope nobody holds that against me.

trust me they dont , being honest and not pretending is the way to roll

[Florida Man]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Dormé:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Florida Man:

But then if you tell someone that and it ruins their day (which it most likely will if they are clingy), then you feel like an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

Problem is that people like that fall into a category where they are not really fun to be with, but at the same time, they're also not annoying enough to feel like you can reasonably remove them...especially if you used to know them pretty well.

If you feel like an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ maybe that's because you are or were an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥? I don't know. That's kinda how the conscience works.

Ironic since you're being an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ to me right now for no obvious reason.

Ever occur to you that maybe I'd just rather not deal with anyone's hurt feelings just because I removed them? And besides, I just completely disappeared from that account anyway without any real explanation, so I have a 100% clear conscious.

I didn't have to ruin their day by removing them or worry about them stalking my profile, and I no longer have to deal with them. Win/win situation for everyone.

[JDumbz]

Most of the time it's the 12-year-olds I end up friending by the sounds of this situation

Best bet to either tell him/her to stop or just Unfriend and say nothing.

[no u]

Just be honest and tell him the truth.

[Florida Man]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Trixelen:

Most of the time it's the 12-year-olds I end up friending.

Best bet to either tell him/her to stop or just Unfriend and say nothing.

Nah, if you are going to unfriend someone, the least you can do is tell them why.

[JDumbz]

Opprinnelig skrevet av Florida Man:

Opprinnelig skrevet av Trixelen:

Most of the time it's the 12-year-olds I end up friending.

Best bet to either tell him/her to stop or just Unfriend and say nothing.

Nah, if you are going to unfriend someone, the least you can do is tell them why.

Sounds like too much of an effort, especially from people you never talk to directly or never played with before, and are sometimes only there for your donations and skins.