My father Hate Me because i drop out from college

[Disclosure]

he said that i can't do sh*t and he act like my life is over when i don't have any degree .
he rarely talk to me after that . our relationship is breaking down .
he doesn't care about how stressful and how depressed i am in college .

[luciferous]

Escrito originalmente por (N☆G) Jackal ★JJ★:

Escrito originalmente por CuddlesWithSatan:

College really isn't that important. I have a higher position in where I work than coworkers who did go to college. It's all about how you use your skills. If you go into college as a moron, you'll still be a moron when you graduate.

Yeah, but how long have they been in the company? How long have you been in the company?
Did you 'know' people?

College matters for career advancement and higher chances to get a job in most cases.

College doesn't matter for people who go and do their own thing.
Every time you see a video or article discussing how college is not important, those people usually did their own thing, cut people with great ideas out and taking the idea from themselves, and a plethora of other things.

Realistically though. You can easily make 50-70K without a college degree and that will be more than a good life in a lot of places.

Don't stress out about college, if it isn't for you, it isn't for you.
Just make sure that you don't ditch out on bigger things due to stress.

As for your relation ship with your father OP, ♥♥♥♥ 'em.
Family shouldn't be what you care about most in this world unless its your spouse and 'your' family. Be thankful for all the things your family did for you even if they are horrid like mine, but don't go out of your way to make them happy.

Be your own person. Hell, I have extremely happy friends who make only around 30K a year. Its what you make of it and its what you put into it.

I've only been there a little over 2 years, and the only person I knew before taking it is one of the voice technicians.

[Einheri]

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he said that i can't do sh*t and he act like my life is over when i don't have any degree .
he rarely talk to me after that . our relationship is breaking down .
he doesn't care about how stressful and how depressed i am in college .

It seems you have a nice dad... Tell him to go ♥♥♥♥ himself, you ain't his tool to get the college degree he wasn't able to achieve.
College is overrated. It's a general issue that people think everyone should go to college and that having a college degree leads to a high paying job and/or social status. Do a job you like, not one your family wants you to do.

"Science isn't the most important thing, love is." - Richard Feynman

[Jinn-Gon Qui]

Escrito originalmente por Sir Dookface McFerretballs:

College isn't worth it any more if you have to take out loans or picked a stupid major.

Go to a trade school and learn a proper trade instead, as most tradesmen are making multiple times more than many people with Master's Degrees.

I have a friend with a plumbing company he started out of a single "Roto-Rooter" van that is making him over $500k a year now.

I have another friend that started out as a roofing laborer 15 years ago, he now owns the company he worked for and made just under $800k last year.

I got another friend that has only been doing large HVAC Airconditioning installation and repair for about 6 years now and hes making $60k and had started at $30k

I also have multiple friends with bachelor's and master's degrees that are barely able to get secretary or waiter/waitress work above minimum wage.

I kinda concur. I think if a company "steals" you to a place where they can use your skills and traits in which you've developed you can make quite a lot of money.

[DRUNK_CANADIAN]

I am a big believer in higher education only if it is an almost direct career path.....

...that being said I get it isn't for everyone and I'd almost agree with anyone's decision to drop out versus study in the arts :P

[8ullfrog]

he doesn't care about how stressful and how depressed i am in college .

Nope. He wants you to graduate and doesn't give a flying turd about how you feel about anything.

If you drop out, it's going to spin him into a world of pissed off you can't even begin to understand.

If you already dropped out? Yeah, that's not going to impress him.

Is this fair? No. Is life fair? No.

[Klogg]

Get a job!

[8ullfrog]

Job wouldn't fix this, it's an expectation, item on a checklist, item failed.

[HeOfManyGames]

I dropped out of college for the same reasons. Doesnt stop you from getting a great job or being successful. Even though it sucks, try not to let other people's judgement of your decision get you down. As long as you have a good attitude and some minor work experience/lower level qualifications you can just as easily make it in the same way graduates do. All the best dude

[Vectif]

Escrito originalmente por Josip:

I’m sorry you’re going through this.

This. But you still should try to look for another career or reevaluate your decision, either that or pick up a really good hobby or job, don't just stagnate and sink in. I'm sorry you're going through such a crappy situation, hope you find your way.

[JobeGardener]

Your father doesn’t hate you.

[Alliesaurus]

https://www.nc4m.ac.uk/apprenticeship-courses/

[Ganger]

OP, do you have any skills for the work place. Unless you invent something, make your own business or becoming a actor/rockstar then you will mostly have a normal life full of struggles and be ordered about by people higher than you.

If I paid for your college out of my own pocket then I would be pretty angry at this stage and would most likely throw you out onto the street.

PS don't listen to people who say college is a waste of time, it isn't. You get your grades and move on to university or if your pretty intelligent then it will help you move onto better postions in the job industry. Sadly, young people don't see their own futures until its too late.

[Ⓥenom Ⓢnake 🐍]

So your parents pay for your college, and because you weren't having any fun you dropped out?

Jesus Christ. I personally would be incredibly pissed off at you. I'm not allowed to say all that rude words and incredibly hurtful things that I would like to. So I'll just say this.

You are the reason your dad is pissed off at you and you are the reason your relationship is breaking down.

[8ullfrog]

Maybe you aren't listening. The only one who cares about your stress and depression is NOT YOUR DAD.

[Bamford]

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the truth is , when i go to college , he never ask me about how's college or how's your day and something like that , never give me any advice in my entire life . he only want to see his son successful but doesn't care about the process , wanted his son to be a man he wanted to be but doesn't care about how hard it is . i mean , he knows life better than me and he think it's easy.

Hate to break it to you, but no one cares about the process.

If it were easy it would have no value.

Your concerns are irrelevant at your age because everyone is stupid and the brain doesn't stop maturing until 25.

Its also why that climate goblin is so misguided, lacks perspective, lacks wisdom.