Is it hard to get a girlfriend nowadays?

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🔥MasterLord🔥 2019 年 9 月 21 日下午 8:21

I’ve been single most of my life, and I’m still young.

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swillfly 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 2:55

引用自 sotaponii~：
Purchasing "girlfriend experiences" from people you have zero emotional connections to, prostitution and fleshlights which mostly emphasize purely physical pleasure..

Precisely. Young males have an abundance of testosterone and hormones. They need release. They can still have rewarding relations with others. Probably wouldn't go over so well if they're jackin with one hand and simultaneously shaking hands with the other.

引用自 sotaponii~：
If this is what you suggest interaction between genders is about on this planet, there is no point "living a little." Because fantasy (even without touching yourself) will always vastly outweigh it in virtually every regard...

I never would imply that interaction between males, females, and ?_____s are not rewarding. They offer such unexpected wonders and horrors, twists and turns that to not experience such madness would be depriving oneself of the awe and mystery of a social life.

引用自 sotaponii~：
Unless, of course, you have no imagination and empathy. Which is likely the case, considering how you suggest for people to buy "girlfriend experiences."

I have a very vast and rich imagination. And when I have relations they are rewarding/damning in various degrees. Also I have much empathy as I was young once too. What is wrong with self-indulgence in fantasy whilst one awaits the next relation? Did your god(s) say it was "bad"?

引用自 sotaponii~：
Whew... Let me guess: People should watch porn and jerk off to it in a mechanical manner, too.

Why must master debation be cold, clinical, or mechanical? There are so many ways to spice up an event. Some folks even share their fantasies online with others. Really beautiful and extraordinary how people develop social bonds.

引用自 sotaponii~：
Whew...

You seem to be out of breath and wheezing a bit. I too get a bit winded when I'm active or engaged in special activities. Some cardio is good for a person.

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jahpeg 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 3:50

you're not going to get one by staying inside

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Arvaos 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:04

I would say that it is difficult to maintain a relationship and requires a lot of emotional commitment and responsibility.

Yes, there are dating websites but there are also many people on them that are not serious or looking for sex but finding a genuine companion could be more difficult.

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swillfly 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:09

OP see/respond to their thread? They get an answer that works for them?

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Trundle 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:12

I'm socially awkward and introvert. So I have no complaints.

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Arvaos 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:14

引用自 sotaponii~：
引用自 swillfly：
Easier
Mostly because we are overpopulated and people keep breeding. And you can reach out and touch others instantly with modern technology.

Don't rule out girlfriend experiences from professionals. You're young so live a little. Your sauce is not a special aperitif vintage only to be served after a wedding as a reward for your honor and service.

I have noticed an interesting phenomenon though. People that aren't as concerned about making friends/girlfriends/boyfriends/etc. don't seem to mind. Some of those people have friends/girlfriends/wives/husbands/whatever relations.

So what is stopping you from having a girlfriend? Only yourself. The more you socialize the more likely it is you can find something like what you're looking for.

There's always fleshlight or ol rosie for tender moments in a pinch.
Purchasing "girlfriend experiences" from people you have zero emotional connections to, prostitution and fleshlights which mostly emphasize purely physical pleasure (imagine taking a girl as partner which has been so brainwashed that she actually uses a /vibrator/ because she doesn't understand herself). Whew... If this is what you suggest interaction between genders is about on this planet, there is no point "living a little." Because fantasy (even without touching yourself) will always vastly outweigh it in virtually every regard. Unless, of course, you have no imagination and empathy. Which is likely the case, considering how you suggest for people to buy "girlfriend experiences." Whew... Let me guess: People should watch porn and jerk off to it in a mechanical manner, too. Whew... (I guess this is kind of related to the "get" part mentioned earlier in the thread. You "get" a girlfriend experience.)

On Topic: I don't know and never tried. But reading Reddit and comments like the one I just quoted make me kind of "meh" to try. It's better to lean back, relax and try to enjoy the last warm summer days. Not stressing it...

Renounce and repent on your perversions and passions, it is distorting your view of women and pornography can affect a relationship when you meet companion as you will be desensitized from pornography.

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Xero_Daxter 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:19

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Relaced 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:37

引用自 Xero_Daxter：
Hi

Hello!

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Xero_Daxter 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:48

引用自 GzV3AuKux：
引用自 Xero_Daxter：
Hi
Hello!

How is you, cutie?

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MADWACZ 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 4:57

May can I ask how old are you OP?
Anyway there is lot of girl fishes out there but every fish have their own technique to be caught. But I understand why girls have requiments beacuse everyone want a good relationship.

Have you tried going out with gays instead?

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Relaced 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 5:08

引用自 Xero_Daxter：
引用自 GzV3AuKux：
Hello!
How is you, cutie?

Fine, How about u , QT3.14?

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Killerwhale 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 5:22

引用自 White：
引用自 Samwise：
You cant be ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ serious if you actually think its harder now, than say... 20 years ago. You got your facebook and lots of other social media stuff and you got dating apps as well.

Its harder now than ever

Why?

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swillfly 2019 年 9 月 22 日上午 5:30

引用自 CalistriX：
Renounce and repent on your perversions and passions, it is distorting your view of women and pornography can affect a relationship when you meet companion as you will be desensitized from pornography.

I'm guessing that this may be directed toward me. Regardless, I'm unaware of any destructive perversions I may have beyond being too kind. My passions are simple and don't involve anything regarding intimacy with others or self gratification. Pornography is merely a banal fantasy. Nothing more or less.

Although CalistriX's warning may provide some wisdom for those who cannot separate fantasy from reality.

My view of females is already "distorted" as I am wired as a hetero male although I strive to treat all people the same.

Everything (not just pornography) can affect a relationship with a potential companion.

The OP seems concerned with the perceived difficulty of getting a girlfriend. They are young and single so they have much more to experience in life. There are many ways to socialize which can lead to some kind of relationship.

There is a variegated smorgasbord out there. So it's really not difficult to get a girlfriend or girlfriend experience. The buffet is open. Just pay for your ticket and enjoy.

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