Have you ever been cheated in a relationship?

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Share your experience.

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Good for you!

Unsure if sarcasm or not but thanks anyway. Speaking of experiences, I remember my worst ex experiences if anyone want to know the story.

I wasn't being sarcastic, and I wouldn't mind hearing the story!

[Lieutenant Tea™]

I've never been in a relationship.

[papa nurgle's pizza]

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Jokes on you, I never had a relationship.

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Unsure if sarcasm or not but thanks anyway. Speaking of experiences, I remember my worst ex experiences if anyone want to know the story.

I wasn't being sarcastic, and I wouldn't mind hearing the story!

Thought you were being sarcastic! My apologies.

It was when I was pretty young, which was about over a decade ago. At first when I started dating this dude, I thought he was perfectly fine. Few weeks later, he slowly became emotionally and verbally abusive. I thought I’ve done something wrong but couldn’t understand why, sex was frequent and I’ve been nothing but polite to him. He used make points on my weight even though I was healthy and comparing other women to me. Eventually, I started to starve myself to the point that I was very skinny. It didn’t matter how smart I was, good looking, or thin, I was always fat, ugly, and and stupid to him. And at that point, it wasn’t long until I found out he was cheating on me with other women as he never tried to hide it from me. It’s like he was rubbing the fact he had control over me and I could do nothing.


It lowered my self esteem greatly to zero. I was also isolated from my friends and was dependant on him so I couldn’t do anything except rely on him even though I was constantly getting hurt by him. He never once hit or kicked me which was why I was still staying with him.

Once I found out that he committed crimes (won’t mention the specifics) I had to report his ass to the police in which he was eventually arrested and thrown to jail.

Took a long time to recover from it. Pretty much hell.

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Publicado originalmente por 𝒩𝑜𝒾𝓇𝑒:

Publicado originalmente por A Jolly Variety of Soaps:

I wasn't being sarcastic, and I wouldn't mind hearing the story!

Thought you were being sarcastic! My apologies.

It was when I was pretty young, which was about over a decade ago. At first when I started dating this dude, I thought he was perfectly fine. Few weeks later, he slowly became emotionally and verbally abusive. I thought I’ve done something wrong but couldn’t understand why, sex was frequent and I’ve been nothing but polite to him. He used make points on my weight even though I was healthy and comparing other women to me. Eventually, I started to starve myself to the point that I was very skinny. It didn’t matter how smart I was, good looking, or thin, I was always fat, ugly, and and stupid to him. And at that point, it wasn’t long until I found out he was cheating on me with other women as he never tried to hide it from me. It’s like he was rubbing the fact he had control over me and I could do nothing.


It lowered my self esteem greatly to zero. I was also isolated from my friends and was dependant on him so I couldn’t do anything except rely on him even though I was constantly getting hurt by him. He never once hit or kicked me which was why I was still staying with him.

Once I found out that he committed crimes (won’t mention the specifics) I had to report his ass to the police in which he was eventually arrested and thrown to jail.

Took a long time to recover from it. Pretty much hell.

Hope you're doing better this fine Christmas, M'lady!

[{루루}RuRu]

My cat once left my arms for a pillow so yes.

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My cat once left my arms for a pillow so yes.

I'm so sorry that happened to you, where do I send the donations?

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Thought you were being sarcastic! My apologies.

It was when I was pretty young, which was about over a decade ago. At first when I started dating this dude, I thought he was perfectly fine. Few weeks later, he slowly became emotionally and verbally abusive. I thought I’ve done something wrong but couldn’t understand why, sex was frequent and I’ve been nothing but polite to him. He used make points on my weight even though I was healthy and comparing other women to me. Eventually, I started to starve myself to the point that I was very skinny. It didn’t matter how smart I was, good looking, or thin, I was always fat, ugly, and and stupid to him. And at that point, it wasn’t long until I found out he was cheating on me with other women as he never tried to hide it from me. It’s like he was rubbing the fact he had control over me and I could do nothing.


It lowered my self esteem greatly to zero. I was also isolated from my friends and was dependant on him so I couldn’t do anything except rely on him even though I was constantly getting hurt by him. He never once hit or kicked me which was why I was still staying with him.

Once I found out that he committed crimes (won’t mention the specifics) I had to report his ass to the police in which he was eventually arrested and thrown to jail.

Took a long time to recover from it. Pretty much hell.

Hope you're doing better this fine Christmas, M'lady!

Thanks! The reason why I was staying with him because he kept saying he would change and I was waiting for him to change which never happened. And he was a very charismatic guy so everybody liked him when I had nothing.

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Hope you're doing better this fine Christmas, M'lady!

Thanks! The reason why I was staying with him because he kept saying he would change and I was waiting for him to change which never happened. And he was a very charismatic guy so everybody liked him when I had nothing.

That's how a lot of people end up being in that situation, sadly. Who are you with now?

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Thanks! The reason why I was staying with him because he kept saying he would change and I was waiting for him to change which never happened. And he was a very charismatic guy so everybody liked him when I had nothing.

That's how a lot of people end up being in that situation, sadly. Who are you with now?

Yep, I’ve heard a lot of stories about it so it wasn’t uncommon but men abusing women is far more common than everyone realises. I’ve worked with people who were trying to recover from abusive relationships. And I am happily married now.

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Publicado originalmente por 𝒩𝑜𝒾𝓇𝑒:

Publicado originalmente por A Jolly Variety of Soaps:

That's how a lot of people end up being in that situation, sadly. Who are you with now?

Yep, I’ve heard a lot of stories about it so it wasn’t uncommon but men abusing women is far more common than everyone realises. I’ve worked with people who were trying to recover from abusive relationships. And I am happily married now.

Good, have a merry Christmas!

[{루루}RuRu]

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Publicado originalmente por 루치Luuchi:

My cat once left my arms for a pillow so yes.

I'm so sorry that happened to you, where do I send the donations?

Through steam via donations

[Thop]

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Publicado originalmente por DarkChristmastalMethod:

Jokes on you, I never had a relationship.

[Blargo]

I once called my dog over to me and she went into the other room instead.
Does that count?

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I once called my dog over to me and she went into the other room instead.
Does that count?

I guess so...