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Computeron Apr 7, 2014 @ 8:37am
Where can I see who has deleted me as a friend?
I have a big friends list, but I know which games they play, and I'm every time sad, when I see that one number is missing, but I cant find a change, because i cant know all names.

It's a missing feature in Steam, that I will get no message or email, when one of my friends deleted me as friend, or where it is?

sorry for bad English maybe ;P
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Heeby-Jeeby Apr 7, 2014 @ 8:51am 
There is no notification when someone deletes you from their friends list. It's likely a privacy issue. If they deleted you as a friend that means they no longer want to be your friend. It also means they don't want you to contact them again.

If someone deleted you as a friend and you could see who deleted you, you may potentially contact them and that may be perceived as harassment.

Think of the bright side. If someone deletes you from their friends list and you don't know who it was, that person wasn't a friend to begin with, right? So what is there to be upset about?
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Computeron Apr 7, 2014 @ 9:36am 
Originally posted by Heeby-Jeeby:
Think of the bright side. If someone deletes you from their friends list and you don't know who it was, that person wasn't a friend to begin with, right? So what is there to be upset about?

but there were good friends or they cant wait to meet me and then i come too late...
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TirithRR Apr 7, 2014 @ 9:38am 
How do you know if they were good friends if you don't know who they were?
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Computeron Apr 7, 2014 @ 9:40am 
Originally posted by TirithRR:
How do you know if they were good friends if you don't know who they were?

because i have so many friends and i cant learn all the names...sometimes we have no time to explain or play something, so we wait a time but then it will be forget....
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TirithRR Apr 7, 2014 @ 9:43am 
Well, they didn't want to be your friend anymore. Time to just move on rather than try to stalk them :)
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Computeron Apr 7, 2014 @ 9:47am 
Originally posted by TirithRR:
Well, they didn't want to be your friend anymore. Time to just move on rather than try to stalk them :)

no, you dont understand my situation. First, I know them good, but i said, there are many, and sometimes, they know me not so good. And sometimes my friends are reall crazy or depressed about anything and then they delete all....
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TirithRR Apr 7, 2014 @ 9:49am 
They didn't want to be your friend anymore... so leave them be.

If they wanted you to be their friend still, then they wouldn't have deleted you. Sorry.
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Computeron Apr 7, 2014 @ 10:21am 
Originally posted by TirithRR:
They didn't want to be your friend anymore... so leave them be.

If they wanted you to be their friend still, then they wouldn't have deleted you. Sorry.


but i proofed it often! first they delete me, then i add them back, then I or he explain that why, and mostly, we play together than for a long time....
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Panda Oct 7, 2014 @ 3:25am 
So did u get ur friend back?
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Computeron Oct 7, 2014 @ 10:04am 
Originally posted by DanoWheatley™:
So did u get ur friend back?

mostly...
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DirtyPlayer Feb 13, 2015 @ 9:12pm 
well i have to say that it could not be that they did not really want to be your friend but if the fact is that if u have not been on in months like i have and u come on and there are people missing and you dont know exactly how their name was spelt then this is where the community comes in. but i am trying to find someone that i used to play with regularly. my computer was down for 4-7 months and there are some people i have noticed that have deleted me from friends cause they either needed space for more or they did not think i was coming back on cause it happened and never got on to talk to them to tell them whats going on for them to kno not to delete me cause im going to be back just dont know when.

its not really stalking if you are just trying to get in touch with them to see if they are still online and playing a game that you 2 would have in common and start back playing together.
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Tev Feb 13, 2015 @ 9:24pm 
Originally posted by DirtyPlayer:
well i have to say that it could not be that they did not really want to be your friend but if the fact is that if u have not been on in months like i have and u come on and there are people missing and you dont know exactly how their name was spelt then this is where the community comes in. but i am trying to find someone that i used to play with regularly. my computer was down for 4-7 months and there are some people i have noticed that have deleted me from friends cause they either needed space for more or they did not think i was coming back on cause it happened and never got on to talk to them to tell them whats going on for them to kno not to delete me cause im going to be back just dont know when.

its not really stalking if you are just trying to get in touch with them to see if they are still online and playing a game that you 2 would have in common and start back playing together.
Did you ever trade anything with him?
http://steamcommunity.com/my/inventoryhistory/

Did you ever gift anything to him?
http://steamcommunity.com/my/inventory/ -> More -> View gift history

Did you ever comment anything on his profile?
http://steamcommunity.com/my/commenthistory?q=&rgFilterType%5B10%5D=1

You could check, while I doubt this serves much if it's long ago
http://steamcommunity.com/my/myactivity/

I tried to check the webcache with your user profile, but it doesn't seem to have stored logs at least on WayBack Machine nor Google.
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Computeron Feb 14, 2015 @ 4:36am 
Originally posted by Teutep:
Originally posted by DirtyPlayer:
well i have to say that it could not be that they did not really want to be your friend but if the fact is that if u have not been on in months like i have and u come on and there are people missing and you dont know exactly how their name was spelt then this is where the community comes in. but i am trying to find someone that i used to play with regularly. my computer was down for 4-7 months and there are some people i have noticed that have deleted me from friends cause they either needed space for more or they did not think i was coming back on cause it happened and never got on to talk to them to tell them whats going on for them to kno not to delete me cause im going to be back just dont know when.

its not really stalking if you are just trying to get in touch with them to see if they are still online and playing a game that you 2 would have in common and start back playing together.
Did you ever trade anything with him?
http://steamcommunity.com/my/inventoryhistory/

Did you ever gift anything to him?
http://steamcommunity.com/my/inventory/ -> More -> View gift history

Did you ever comment anything on his profile?
http://steamcommunity.com/my/commenthistory?q=&rgFilterType%5B10%5D=1

You could check, while I doubt this serves much if it's long ago
http://steamcommunity.com/my/myactivity/

I tried to check the webcache with your user profile, but it doesn't seem to have stored logs at least on WayBack Machine nor Google.

the third link is very useful, thanks.

i also recommend to make a list of your steam friends. I check it every month so i can compare who is missing. Dont forget to count.
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Селяви! Feb 14, 2015 @ 4:39am 
Спасибо
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Computeron Feb 14, 2015 @ 4:41am 
Originally posted by Aztec:
Спасибо

speak english, its not a russian chat
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