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Kusy

Jan 17, 2015 @ 3:37pm

My wife doesn't want to back to my house.

My wife (Ysolda) is in Whiterun and she doesn't want to back to my house in Falkreth. It's bug or she will come soon? Patches didn't fixed this. Sorry for english.

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Clever Monkey has The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:32pm

Try to move her to another house. her original house or any other house except where she is living now and Falkreath'

Sometimes they just don't do as they are told. her problem which may not be fully fixed by the patches is her ability to move into 2 different stores if the owners should die.

like all spouses though she may disappear or refuse to move or all kinds of buggy things.

pedantic_roc has The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:38pm

Originally posted by Smile n Fire:
like all spouses though she may disappear or refuse to move or all kinds of buggy things.

It's just a game - not real life you know :D

Kusy

Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:38pm

How i can move her? I dont have that dialogue option. Is there any comand to teleport her or something? She is very bugged xd

Last edited by Kusy; Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:40pm

Clever Monkey has The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:44pm

Originally posted by pedantic_roc:
Originally posted by Smile n Fire:
like all spouses though she may disappear or refuse to move or all kinds of buggy things.

It's just a game - not real life you know :D

rofl

Originally posted by Kusey:
How i can move her? I dont have that dialogue option. Is there any comand to teleport her or something? She is very bugged xd

while in the console click on her. this gives you her refid. type

prid refid

go to the proper place and type

moveto player

it doen't mean she will stay and may immediately start walking back

jaderive

Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:51pm

Originally posted by Kusey:
My wife (Ysolda) is in Whiterun and she doesn't want to back to my house in Falkreth. It's bug or she will come soon? Patches didn't fixed this. Sorry for english.

If in falkreath you mean lakeside manor its might actually be the home, Im not actually sure this is right or not but with thomes you build your self the game ( and Ive heard ) doesnt think of the home as a vanilla home, therefore you might need to use a spouse mod call spouses can live everywhere,

http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/11370/?

once there the mod has a power spell called "mark new home" casting that it should help your spose to see falkreat / lakeside manor as her home

Last edited by jaderive; Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:54pm

Squid

Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:57pm

I think you are all going about this all wrong. If she doesn't want to go to the house, you can't force her. You need to talk to her, and maybe hire a Skyrim marriage counselor if just talking to her isn't getting you anywhere.

You definitely don't want to have a Skyrim divorce because then you will need to divide all assets and debts created during the marriage and you will probably need some Skyrim lawyers, so I strongly suggest starting with the Skyrim marriage counselor before you just give up.

A custody battle over your Skyrim children would be really tragic.

Last edited by Squid; Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:58pm

jaderive

Jan 17, 2015 @ 4:59pm

Originally posted by Kamikaze Snark:
I think you are all going about this all wrong. If she doesn't want to go to the house, you can't force her. You need to talk to her, and maybe hire a marriage counselor.

=.=
unless its in a mod, and this is just a game, you relise , yes , kamikaze ??.... you dont have that option,

Clever Monkey has The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:10pm

Originally posted by Kamikaze Snark:
I think you are all going about this all wrong. If she doesn't want to go to the house, you can't force her. You need to talk to her, and maybe hire a Skyrim marriage counselor if just talking to her isn't getting you anywhere.

You definitely don't want to have a Skyrim divorce because then you will need to divide all assets and debts created during the marriage and you will probably need some Skyrim lawyers, so I strongly suggest starting with the Skyrim marriage counselor before you just give up.

A custody battle over your Skyrim children would be really tragic.

cast a fury spell on your spouse and the trouble is over. take her to town first

Last edited by Clever Monkey; Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:10pm

Squid

Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:13pm

Originally posted by jaderive:
Originally posted by Kamikaze Snark:
I think you are all going about this all wrong. If she doesn't want to go to the house, you can't force her. You need to talk to her, and maybe hire a marriage counselor.
=.=
unless its in a mod, and this is just a game, you relise , yes , kamikaze ??.... you dont have that option,

Skyrim marriage counseling is always an option! Don't feel like your Skyrim marriage is hopeless and that Skyrim divorce is your only option. If you feel like you need to leave your Skyrim spouse and you haven't tried Skyrim marriage counseling, you should really reconsider your Skyrim priorities.

Maybe your Skyrim wife wants to live in Whiterun. Maybe she has Skyrim friends or family in Whiterun that she doesn't want to leave behind. Have you considered how she might feel about being relocated to Falkreath? If she doesn't want to talk about relocating, you should try talking to her about these issues.

Squid

Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:16pm

Originally posted by Kusey:
How i can move her? I dont have that dialogue option. Is there any comand to teleport her or something? She is very bugged xd

This page on the wiki has some console commands that you could use to relocate her to your cell, but I don't know what other spouse-related features might not be enabled by doing this: http://elderscrolls.wikia.com/wiki/Console_Commands_%28Skyrim%29/Characters

Last edited by Squid; Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:16pm

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Clever Monkey has The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:16pm

no divorces, ever.

till death do you part

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Squid

Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:16pm

Originally posted by Smile n Fire:
no divorces, ever.

till death do you part

Skyrim children need two Skyrim parents!

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Clever Monkey has The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:18pm

Originally posted by Kamikaze Snark:
Originally posted by Smile n Fire:
no divorces, ever.

till death do you part

Skyrim children need two Skyrim parents!

sense you cant kill them as well maybe you have a point

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Squid

Jan 17, 2015 @ 5:18pm

Originally posted by Smile n Fire:
Originally posted by Kamikaze Snark:

Skyrim children need two Skyrim parents!
sense you cant kill them as well maybe you have a point

Nonsense!

http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/13202/?

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