How to reset marriage quest?

[Farfrae]

So yeah, I was late AND took off the Amulet of Mara before the ceremony, and now it doesn't start. What's the marriage quest ID?

[Slayer da Hell]

The quest ID is: RelationshipMarriage

You can try resetting the quest and then use setstage to initiate the quest again.

Note: not sure if it will work, but maybe it's worth a try.

[Clever Monkey]

go talk to your was once to be spouse if you want to marry that person again while wearing the amulet or anyone else that is marriable while wearing the amulet. you may have to talk to the preistess first but i dont think so

[infinitedarkenergy(Mentor)]

My experience: Wearing the amulet of Mara, you can ask multiple spouses-to-be and it has
allowed me to re-ask a previously asked person to wed. I missed my wedding before, and used
this way to ask again. ( ask someone else first, then the one you originally wanted to.)
The last person you ask, before talking to the priest, is the one you will be married to if you
show up on time. This is on my PC "vanilla" version of the game. Good luck.