flowergirls animations not working

[lorrax]

installed papyrus, race menu, XPMSE, flower girls, FNIS behavior, FNIS creatures, FNIS spells, KSHair for flower girls, female face animation

ran fnis (from vortex dashboard) with top two checkboxes, got no errors.
it mentions flower girls, XPMSE, FNIS Base, creature, and spells
it does say "NO GENDER directory male" and "NO GENDER directory female" under "generating behavior files"....is that the problem?

no other errors

The faces of the girls have not changed, animations do not run (screen just goes black - i do not see character superimposed on girl), also i dont think KS hair is working either.

[Grumpy]

first off, a proper load order pls. if you dont know how to get it, then open LOOT and click on the 3 dots upper right corner and copy load order. if you dont own LOOT, then download it at https://loot.github.io/

secondly, you need to tick the 2 checkboxes at the top in FNIS. "skeleton arm fix" and "gender specific animations"

[Knight of Iron]

I have the same problem. Here is my list.

0 0 Skyrim.esm
1 1 Update.esm
2 2 Dawnguard.esm
3 3 HearthFires.esm
4 4 Dragonborn.esm
5 5 FlowerGirls SE.esm
6 6 bos.esp
7 7 CBBE.esp
8 8 Follow me for Sex.esp
9 9 FNIS.esp
10 a RaceMenu.esp
11 b RaceMenuPlugin.esp
12 c XPMSE.esp
13 d SOSRaceMenu.esp