Disappearing spouse

[wildflower]

Spouse has disappeared {Ysolda} ANy Idea where she went? or how to find her again?

[Alliecienti]

Is it right after the wedding or she just randomly disappeared from Whiterun after being married a while?

I have had a spouse get "stuck" on the way home from the wedding before. They do not just teleport to the chosen home, they walk there. If they are attacked by random monster/animals they can possibly be pushed into a spot where they are stuck between the proverbial rock and hard place. In my case I found her after extensive searching. She was wedged between 2 rocks and being tormented by 3 wolves who couldnt kill her and she appearntly couldn't kill them with her simple dagger.

[wildflower]

It's long after marriage, she just disappeared from home once, and I cannot find her

[Crosstown Traffic]

I just looked this up but supposedly you can teleport to an NPC by typing in the console player.moveto (RefID)
In the case of Ysolda her RefID is 0001A69A, so type in the console player.moveto 0001A69A

[Dr.Fumetastic]

Was she maybe kidnapped as part of Hearthfire?

[indrasjaundice]

It will take a few days for her to come back, or if she's kidnapped you will receive a letter of where she was taken too, or if neither one works there is a console command that was already in another persons reply to your question

[wildflower]

OKay thanks guys. I'll try this out, aand I don't have Hearthfire

[Uncle64]

She walks so it can take sometime for her to get home.

[PrincessNumbat]

I'm so sorry she left you, man. It's going to be tough but you can get through it.