Relationship is a joke

[GrungeBro]

i have spent almost 3 hours trying to befriend a woman just so i can get married so i can have a baby to have an heir but still cannot get her to be my friend or anything and just takes forever to build a relationship with just 1 person. This needs to change please and thank you.

[kampfgulasch]

Talk to her once a day for 2-4 days and it should work just fine. Never had an issue myself.

First ask her about things before you talk to her. If you try to talk with her about the king and she hates his guts you will lose relationship instead of gaining it. Same with the weather or work or family. If she's cold and you talk about the weather you will lose relationship.
If you talk about family and she doesn't have one you will lose relationship.

Alternate flirting with talking otherwise she will quickly lose interest.

That's pretty much all there is to it.

[GrungeBro]

Originally posted by kampfgulasch:

Talk to her once a day for 2-4 days and it should work just fine. Never had an issue myself.

First ask her about things before you talk to her. If you try to talk with her about the king and she hates his guts you will lose relationship instead of gaining it. Same with the weather or work or family. If she's cold and you talk about the weather you will lose relationship.
If you talk about family and she doesn't have one you will lose relationship.

Alternate flirting with talking otherwise she will quickly lose interest.

That's pretty much all there is to it.

I guess i was mistaken that this would be like the guild 3 where i just talk to someone for a few in game hours and flirt a few times and then i could marry.

[Atorcoppe]

They’re different games in many regards - love it or hate it. But conventions are more or less about the questions as Kamp said. Ask questions then talk about their answers. Don’t overwhelm them as they will get worried and impatient.

When they’re sick of talking just give them items. It can take about 10 or 15 minutes to get someone to fall in love with you.

Track them to make it easier to find them after work etc.

[GrungeBro]

Originally posted by Atorcoppe:

They’re different games in many regards - love it or hate it. But conventions are more or less about the questions as Kamp said. Ask questions then talk about their answers. Don’t overwhelm them as they will get worried and impatient.

When they’re sick of talking just give them items. It can take about 10 or 15 minutes to get someone to fall in love with you.

Track them to make it easier to find them after work etc.

I have NO clue how to track people in this game haha. i just have to run around to find them lmfao. Yeah i know i should know how to do tghis but cant find out how haha

[Atorcoppe]

Easy as. So all you need to do is click the person and then click the little “eye” button near their profile picture. This will pin them at the top left of your screen. For easy finding.
The key is to not overwhelm them too much. Think about how annoyed you would get if someone just stood there asking you questions all day haha. There is a degree of that in this game.

[GrungeBro]

Originally posted by Atorcoppe:

Easy as. So all you need to do is click the person and then click the little “eye” button near their profile picture. This will pin them at the top left of your screen. For easy finding.
The key is to not overwhelm them too much. Think about how annoyed you would get if someone just stood there asking you questions all day haha. There is a degree of that in this game.

Okay thanks very much for that. will now help me keep track. How many can you keep track of with this method?

[Atorcoppe]

There isn’t really a fixed limit. The other thing is the relationship panel - it’ll show you everyone you’ve ever met and you can filter based on friends, lovers, etc

[Jean Dupleix]

Also worth noting is that it is more difficult to get somebody to agree to marry you who is higher in rank or substantially richer than you.
If you play as a Saxon you get a +1 relationship bonus for any interaction with npcs

[Lucius Corvus]

When i court is's every other day first what food they like. If food close by give to them if there not working give them a job if you can. then talk to them about there job. Then wait 4-5 days push up to 80 mark close to it. wait for purple dot drop the hitched then hang on for dear life hope she's nice. Mine see that 3.8 million start getting 56 silver fines like crazy lol.