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Well, since Pinky mentioned what she got bullied for, let me list all the things I got bullied for.
-Being Autistic
-Being the biggest nerd in school until I was in high school, when that was no longer the case for me. However, that one got replaced with always hiding in the corners and shadows and being alone when I can.
-Almost always the teacher's pet
-Never wore the popular stuff or played any sports
-Accidentially kissing a boy when I was in 1st grade. I can hardly believe those who bullied me still used it against me in high school.
-Having a crush on a certain blue hedgehog when I was in elementary then a band director when I was in middle school.
-When I used Twitter and Facebook under my real name, I got teased for almost every single thing I posted. As a matter of fact, that one got so bad, I ended up losing a friend while I was still on social media. Near the end of my 4 years of high school when I stopped using social media, everyone was like, "Jens, why don't you use 'insert platform here' anymore?" I always have to remind them of what happened. Not fun at all.
-Until I was in high school, I was the worst at drawing ever. Thankfully, that one didn't get replaced with something else.
I guess the point I'm trying to make here is no matter how hard you're bullied, there's always going to be somebody that got bullied worse than you. Be grateful you're not me.
If that is the future generation... I fear the future.
The good news is that this will lessen somewhat by high school and almost entirely by the time you're in college. By then, the bullying types will have either overcome their insecurity or they'll fall in with other insecure types (misery loves company) and you won't have to interact with them much.
Post-college, depending on the circles you move in there isn't likely to be much bullying because everyone's happy doing his or her own thing in the little free time he/she has. My friends now are unabashedly into the coolest, craziest stuff and nobody knocks what anybody else is doing. But I know where you're coming from; in junior high I used to hide the fanfiction I was writing in a notebook that I'd never let anyone else read, lest they think it was stupid.
Hang in there, it will get better!
I was basically bullied for not liking the same exact things as everybody else (basically Sports, COD, and GTA). In early elementary school I was a big Nintendo fan, while everybody else despised Nintendo, and later on I began playing a bunch of other things. Hell, I even did a real sport in 6th grade (Track and Field). However, nobody ever stopped tormenting me, even my own teachers had slight hatred for me at times (and I had good grades!). In 5th grade, I was shoved off of the top of a 20 foot high snow bank, and I ended up breaking the bones in my forearm in half, which lead to two surgeries and lots of pain (luckily I sued the person who pushed me).
However, I am in 7th grade now, and my parents sent me to a charter school due to me having depression over being bullied so much. Fortunately, I have made friends (a good amount of FNaF fans included) and I'm much happier than I was for the seven years prior to this one.
So stay strong! One day, life will get better, you just have to have patience, if you want to talk to me for help, feel free to send me a friend request, I am perfectly up to chat :)
Hear, Hear!
Fanfictioneers get it pretty hard. I remember those days until I got into poetry and debate. Poetry helped me get over talking with young women and debate shaped my outlook on life. When the two were really actualized and I was doing it for my own enjoyment, Bullying in general became a lot easier to ignore and move on from.
But the thing to keep in mind is that High school (And by extension, Middle school) is a beta-test for social interaction through life. What I mean is that whether you are in school, college, work or just out and about, there is always someone that is going to demean you in a way to improve their own outlook on life.
Many of the people that will berate others to make them feel superior to others have extreme self-esteem issues. Unfortunately, be it from a broken home, an over developed sense of self importance they don't identify within themselves or just recreating situations of abuse the only way they know how, these people quickly find themselves steeped in the annuls of substance abuse and extremist organizations.
The ins and outs are simple; Doug doesn't or won't recognize things he's good at doing, therefore, Doug reflects poorly on himself. Doug sees Hank; Hank isn't perfect. Doug goes out of his way to make sure, without a shadow of a doubt, that Hank knows he is imperfect. Hank starts taking classes in machine shop and is proud to take apart a lawnmower engine and put it back together again.
Doug could do that since he was 11, but instead of being helpful, he berates Hank for not knowing that already. From Doug's perspective, Hank is acting outside of the norm and should hurt like he does. From Hank's Perspective, Doug is an ass hat. Hank avoids Doug. Doug fings a new Hank and the cycle continues.
Eventually, Doug is going to run out of Hanks. It's just a law of the universe. But, since the problem isn't resolved, Doug still needs an outlet to artificially make him feel better about himself. So... People that he associates with are all going to be hyper-critical (Not Hypocritical) of one another. Poor decisions are going to be embraced, just so that they are all in line with one another. A kinship of suffering, of sorts, if that makes sense. When someone offers a substance, such as Weed, Beer and even casual sex, this numbs the pain they inflict on themselves and quickly moves into a dependency.
So, while people are learning healthy social interactions and generating positive relationships with each other, Bullies quickly find themselves tearing themselves and each other down. Non-bullies will support and grow with each other, while bullies end up suicidal, teen parents or homeless.
If you are in high school now, and you know the clique I'm talking about, I bet you can immediately identify the one with the best self esteem; He's the one they pick on when their usual marks leave them in the dust. Every Doug needs a Hank, or they become self destructive.
I don't pity you for being bullied; I pity your bullies. You can't save everyone, but you don't need help, They do. This is why your teachers want you to report class room bullies. Its to help save them.
*shrug*