Bossy kid

[Spirit3057]

Hail and well met. My adopted kid keeps sending me a note with the courier telling me to come home. I would like to stop that once a day note message. Unfortunately i can not remember the mod that causes the kid(s) to tell the parent to come home.

[John]

The remedy is to either look for mods, or, hear me out on this, don't adopt children in this game. It's such a useless feature and more annoying than a reward.

[Longhaul]

https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrimspecialedition/mods/1108

[Skumboni]

Ignore the notes, just throw them away. Treat it like any other 'I'll do that quest later' event.

[Despiser]

Originally posted by Spirit3057:

Hail and well met. My adopted kid keeps sending me a note with the courier telling me to come home. I would like to stop that once a day note message. Unfortunately i can not remember the mod that causes the kid(s) to tell the parent to come home.

Bossy kid? What kind of parent leaves a small child alone unattended for days on end in a world rife with thieves, murderers and predators?

[Xenon The Noble]

Originally posted by Despiser:

What kind of parent leaves a small child alone unattended for days on end in a world rife with thieves, murderers and predators?

Sounds like a 1950s parent. It wasn't all Leave It To Beaver and Father Knows Best.

[Spirit3057]

Bossy kid? What kind of parent leaves a small child alone unattended for days on end in a world rife with thieves, murderers and predators?

The parent that has to go out and save Skyrim from those bag things out in the world. The kid(not a name dropper) lives in a castle with guards and tradespeople all around. Never ALONE. Also, I normally enchant and smith up a sword for the kid to carry that could one shot a dragon. Do NOT mess with my kid(s).

[alexander_dougherty]

You don't leave in a house with a housecarl?
or a steward?
I always have, and have never gotten that note.

[Spirit3057]

Lydia is always parked in the Castle.She leaves Whiterun and moves into the Castle and stays there.

[Trent]

Lydia is always parked in the Castle. She leaves Whiterun and moves into the Castle and stays there.

If you purchase Breezehome, she will move there instead of the castle.

[Despiser]

Originally posted by Trent:

Lydia is always parked in the Castle. She leaves Whiterun and moves into the Castle and stays there.

If you purchase Breezehome, she will move there instead of the castle.

Or if you escort her to another dwelling you own.

[Spirit3057]

No I can tell her the Castle is her new home and she stays there.

[Sunny]

it's in 'I'm Glad You're Here' MCM to turn it off