Break up then make up

[AbsBloodLust]

Coming back to the game after a while and saw there withered bouquet now for breaking up. My question is after breaking up can you get the hearts back up and give them a normal bouquet again to date?

[Avilyn]

If you weren't married to them, but just dating, then yes it is possible to regain the hearts with them.

[siggesatan]

well dont forget the shrine of forgetfullness.
that make them forget any grudge they have against you even if you divorce them once as well.
so tecnicaly you could marry them over an over again

[ChrillBill]

And also the wilted bouquet is made by placing a regular bouquet into a furnace and it will cost you one piece of coal as well :> It can also be used on the sewing machine to craft a gorgeous darkness suit!

[Queen Droxxanna]

in my last farm after 17 marriages in year 1, I had 8 divorces in year 2. To avoid paying the bill for each divorce, I put the blame and cost on my soon-to-be ex spouses.

For the remainder of that year they refused to talk to me or accept gifts from me. However if you complete quests posted by your ex on the job board, they will eventually like you again and begin to accept you.
The Member of the community mods helps greatly as any time you talk to someone or give gifts to someone, every one who SEES you do it will also like you more.

Or if you don't want to spend the time working on rebuilding the relationship, you can visit the shrine of forgetfulness, as mentioned above, pay the ransom fee, and you ex's will totally forget how you threw them out of the house, and begin to like you again.

Or you can use the CJB Cheat mods, which allow you to fix the relationship hearts at any level any time.
Note: if you date 2 people in the same house at the same time and one of them catches you together with the other one, they will both get mad and throw you out of the house.

[siggesatan]

ah thats nothing i used to date all bachelor and bacheloretes at the same time... lets just say it didnt end good for me when all the girls and all the bois chose to confront me on 2 diferent ocations at the same day... can be prevented with a rabits foot but yeah it is the group 10 heart event.
if i remember corectly i even think you get a achivment for dating them all and get busted as the town nr 1 player :P

[Queen Droxxanna]

Originally posted by siggesatan:

ah thats nothing i used to date all bachelor and bacheloretes at the same time... lets just say it didnt end good for me when all the girls and all the bois chose to confront me on 2 diferent ocations at the same day... can be prevented with a rabits foot but yeah it is the group 10 heart event.
if i remember corectly i even think you get a achivment for dating them all and get busted as the town nr 1 player :P

yes I am aware that all the girls will confront you, but I have not seen it happen myself.

[siggesatan]

Originally posted by soaringfreedom:

Originally posted by siggesatan:

ah thats nothing i used to date all bachelor and bacheloretes at the same time... lets just say it didnt end good for me when all the girls and all the bois chose to confront me on 2 diferent ocations at the same day... can be prevented with a rabits foot but yeah it is the group 10 heart event.
if i remember corectly i even think you get a achivment for dating them all and get busted as the town nr 1 player :P

yes I am aware that all the girls will confront you, but I have not seen it happen myself.

all the boys can to.

for boys: date all of them get all to 10 hearts and enter the pub with out a rabbit foot in inventory
(rabbit foot prevent both event from triggering )
for girls: do the same as for boys but instead of the pub entering Emmily and Haleys home with out the rabbit foot

[Sstavix]

Originally posted by siggesatan:

if i remember corectly i even think you get a achivment for dating them all and get busted as the town nr 1 player :P

Nope, not an achievement. I have been trying to get 100% completion on this one, and that isn't an achievement.

I think there is something like that in My Time At Portia, though....