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Autumn Elf Apr 17, 2016 @ 6:02pm
Husband Elliot Sleeps In and is Grumpy?!
I try to kiss my husband every day. I don't gift him all the time. At one point he became grumpy and slept in bed. His hearts were 12, and I didn't think anything of it.

Then his birthday came. He was sleeping in bed. OK so I brought him a gift and kissed him. There was a heart, but he said "Get your own breakfast today!" How rude!

After that he was okay for a couple of weeks. I've been gifting him one of his favorites (duck feather). Early in this last week he was 13/12 hearts. Great I thought! Then yesterday he's back in bed...hmmm....

Has anyone else experienced grumpy spouses who lounge in bed? I'm in year 5. Maybe the kids are getting on his nerves. :D
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MadamLizzy Apr 17, 2016 @ 6:11pm 
I just got married to Sam. He visits his family a lot. Didn't know you could kiss them. I'll have to try.
amsayyy Apr 17, 2016 @ 6:16pm 
I'm married to Elliot too, but I've never heard him say that. He sleeps in sometimes all day because I think he's got depression and sometimes just needs a day to be in bed. Don't we all?

Though my Elliot is always so loving. He said he wouldn't trade me for millions of star drops and writes me poems.
Autumn Elf Apr 17, 2016 @ 6:20pm 
The thing is, we've been married 3 years and he's just started sleeping in bed sometimes? I don't mind but then he snapped at me to go fix my own breakfast. Yikes! He gets two days out. One at the beach and the other I don't know where the heck he is (maybe still in bed and I don't know!) haha at least he makes me coffee regularly and fixes the fences ocasionally....
Autumn Elf Apr 17, 2016 @ 6:21pm 
Originally posted by MadamLizzy:
I just got married to Sam. He visits his family a lot. Didn't know you could kiss them. I'll have to try.

Yeah you can kiss them daily and still gift them. It is to your advantage to keep the hearts up. Don't want to spoil for you. Just talk to him till he's done then talk again and kiss.
MadamLizzy Apr 17, 2016 @ 7:53pm 
Originally posted by Orionza:
Originally posted by MadamLizzy:
I just got married to Sam. He visits his family a lot. Didn't know you could kiss them. I'll have to try.

Yeah you can kiss them daily and still gift them. It is to your advantage to keep the hearts up. Don't want to spoil for you. Just talk to him till he's done then talk again and kiss.
Thanks! I will do that, and thank you.
Muffinsaur Apr 17, 2016 @ 11:58pm 
Originally posted by MadamLizzy:
I just got married to Sam. He visits his family a lot. Didn't know you could kiss them. I'll have to try.
I love Sam's family. (Well Jodi. I have max hearts with her. Not kidding.)
softsloth Apr 18, 2016 @ 5:11am 
A similar thing happens to me with Leah. It's the whole tortured artist thing.
Autumn Elf Apr 18, 2016 @ 5:46am 
Originally posted by millie_minx:
A similar thing happens to me with Leah. It's the whole tortured artist thing.

Oh gahhh he's gotta stop that! :D
Happened to me with Haley. It happens.
Rambo First Blunt Apr 18, 2016 @ 7:17am 
Originally posted by millie_minx:
A similar thing happens to me with Leah. It's the whole tortured artist thing.

Really , every morning she is always up at six am.
Bear^ Apr 18, 2016 @ 7:23am 
I have a wife ... Once a month she turns evil, and I can't defeat her. The cat runs away to hide somewhere in the woods, the cows don't produce milk and the chickens won't come out. Even the monsters in the mines and skull cave is afraid of her.

But she makes me pancakes, and I love me some pancakes.
softsloth Apr 18, 2016 @ 7:28am 
Originally posted by Rambo First Blunt:
Originally posted by millie_minx:
A similar thing happens to me with Leah. It's the whole tortured artist thing.

Really , every morning she is always up at six am.

I don't know what to tell you. I kiss her, I bring her salads. I even put her sculpture in pride of place. Idk what more she wants from me
Last edited by softsloth; Apr 18, 2016 @ 7:28am
Rambo First Blunt Apr 18, 2016 @ 7:34am 
Originally posted by millie_minx:
Originally posted by Rambo First Blunt:

Really , every morning she is always up at six am.

I don't know what to tell you. I kiss her, I bring her salads. I even put her sculpture in pride of place. Idk what more she wants from me

I've seen some screen shots of people's houses. Mine looks like a real house with no clutter. Did you clutter your house with a bunch of crap, i don't know if that makes them mad or not.
Maralyndia Apr 18, 2016 @ 11:46am 
Luckily, I've never had to deal with grumpy Elliott laying in bed. He's told me he was feeling down and didn't wanna do anything, but it's rare. Although, he did get mad at me for giving gifts to the other singles on their b-day. Even had a bug where he completely disappeared from my farm and even the town. I had thought he left me.

Just talk to him everyday, give him gifts everyday and hopefully he'll be good. I kiss him multiple times a day, so maybe that helps too. He's a romantic, so you gotta treat him the same.
Last edited by Maralyndia; Apr 18, 2016 @ 11:46am
softsloth Apr 18, 2016 @ 2:16pm 
Originally posted by Rambo First Blunt:
Originally posted by millie_minx:

I don't know what to tell you. I kiss her, I bring her salads. I even put her sculpture in pride of place. Idk what more she wants from me

I've seen some screen shots of people's houses. Mine looks like a real house with no clutter. Did you clutter your house with a bunch of crap, i don't know if that makes them mad or not.
Nah, it's pretty empty. It was quite soon after we were married so i think she was still on 12 hearts at that point
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Date Posted: Apr 17, 2016 @ 6:02pm
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