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Question about spouse heart decay
New to the game. From what I gather of friendship on the wiki, I think I understand how the heart system works, however I can't find an answer to something specific I'm confused about.

If I max hearts with my spouse to 14, I know that the daily decay rate is higher since we're married, however the wiki says there is no end to the decay unlike pre-marriage. So if I'm not mistaken, theoretically you could go down to 0 hearts with your spouse if you never interact with them?
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Kitsune Dzelda Jan 17, 2020 @ 9:39am 
If you dont interact with your spouse for that long, then you likely shouldnt have gotten married in the first place.
MightyJean Jan 17, 2020 @ 9:58am 
Originally posted by Snoopy:
So if I'm not mistaken, theoretically you could go down to 0 hearts with your spouse if you never interact with them?
Never tried but yes. It would still take years though since each heart is worth 250 friendship points and the decay is 20 points per day you don't interact.
Dschinghis Pan Jan 17, 2020 @ 9:59am 
Propably. Though they start of the day in the house or in front of it - so interacting with them once per day is not a problem.
Stardustfire Jan 17, 2020 @ 10:07am 
not to mentation you spouse can receive a gift daily from you, not only twice a week. and many love or at least like some kind of gem, so one crystalarium ends all worrys.
Bee Larry King Jan 17, 2020 @ 10:10am 
Thanks for replies. I'd like to point out I don't plan to ignore my spouse, it just seemed weird to me that everyone else can stay locked at 10 hearts except the spouse could go down to nothing.
Turtleswatter Jan 17, 2020 @ 1:14pm 
Originally posted by Snoopy:
Thanks for replies. I'd like to point out I don't plan to ignore my spouse, it just seemed weird to me that everyone else can stay locked at 10 hearts except the spouse could go down to nothing.
You have to work at a marriage :)
Kitsune Dzelda Jan 17, 2020 @ 2:53pm 
If people know you in a general sense, its not hard for their expectatins to stay at a certain level. But a relationship changes once they get close to you. The joy of being close to someone also comes hand in hand with the ability to be hurt by them more easily. Thats why Id suppose it is in there. It feels realistic.
thos beans Jan 17, 2020 @ 5:20pm 
Man this thread about a farming sim just got too real
Kitsune Dzelda Jan 17, 2020 @ 7:59pm 
Originally posted by jumbospice:
Man this thread about a farming sim just got too real
Fun fact: Theres been people who have played this game who have been inspired to start a farm irl too ^^ Isnt it beautiful?
-Na Shagul- Jan 17, 2020 @ 9:30pm 
Originally posted by Snoopy:
Thanks for replies. I'd like to point out I don't plan to ignore my spouse, it just seemed weird to me that everyone else can stay locked at 10 hearts except the spouse could go down to nothing.

Honestly I wouldn't worry about that, every time you talk to a person you gain 20 affection and the natural decay is -2 per day or something so you'd have to purposefully ignore your spouse, or anyone for that matter, for a very, very, very, -VERY- long time for it to degenerate to the point that it's a problem lol.
Last edited by -Na Shagul-; Jan 17, 2020 @ 9:46pm
Geothermal1159 Jan 17, 2020 @ 11:11pm 
Originally posted by Kitsune Dzelda:
Originally posted by jumbospice:
Man this thread about a farming sim just got too real
Fun fact: Theres been people who have played this game who have been inspired to start a farm irl too ^^ Isnt it beautiful?

I am one of those people actually.
Got so inspired I started up my own rabbit farm.
Just waiting now for them to drop their feet so that I can rake in the cash......

Any day now those feet will jump right off of their little bunny legs..... any day now...
seannixon1357 Mar 31, 2021 @ 12:39pm 
Can confirm my wife has gotten to zero hearts in pursuit of pure profits.
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Date Posted: Jan 17, 2020 @ 9:36am
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