I have too many children

[Queen Droxxanna]

so because I'm using the multiple spouse mod, I have lots of children. I started out in the first year having 4 children, all which grew into toddlers.
I then installed the Child to NPC mod to get them to grow up. It came with several glitches, and while they all grew up into school aged children, they also dissappeared from my social list. In trying to fix the errors that occurred two of the middle children when back to wearing toddler outfits, while the oldest and youngest of the first 4 are wearing clothes, and wander around town, and go to school.
I can see and interact with all 4 of them and they still live in my house on the farm, but none of them are on the social friendship list so I cant see how many hearts they have for me.

However all of them are on the Relationship list on the CJB cheats menu.

Now that my farm is in the second year, my many wives are having more children, Right now there are 5 babies in the crib. Thats right five babies in one crib. They are ALL ON my social friendship list and each have 2 hearts.

What i need to know is, what will happen as the new 5 babies age up to toddlers and children NPC's.
And is there a way for me to delete ONE child at a time?????
Although I still get an error message about Bradley (and none of the others), he is the oldest (first born) and works fine as an npc, goes to school and talks to me. He even sits at a desk in the little red school house. The same goes for Ringo,

So how can i get rid of one child at a time, eliminate the ones that are not working right and keep the others.

[Queen Droxxanna]

does anyone know of a way to get rid of ONE CHILD at a time??