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10 Hearts with others after marriage?
So I jumped into the whole marriage aspect of the game, cause it was love at first sight, yadi yada...

But now I want to get 10 hearts with the other characters, however, I don't want to offend my spouse. If I gave the boquet to the other people, would I face permanent problems or just a temporary one, like losing a few hearts?

I don't want to divorce her, nor wash her brain out with witch's magic. I just want to complete the game to have the other hearts.

There's so many conflicting answers regarding this question, so I was just wondering if someone here can give me a concrete one.
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Hina Feb 2, 2018 @ 3:42pm 
It's not possible to get ten hearts with the other potential spouses after marriage because you're already married. So you'll have to in the least divorce your current spouse and then you can try building up ten hearts with the other potential spouses. Either that start a new save file.
Devilish Dave Feb 2, 2018 @ 3:51pm 
Originally posted by Hina:
It's not possible to get ten hearts with the other potential spouses after marriage because you're already married. So you'll have to in the least divorce your current spouse and then you can try building up ten hearts with the other potential spouses. Either that start a new save file.


I see, so they wouldn't accept the boquet of flowers?
werwolfgaming Feb 2, 2018 @ 5:02pm 
they would accept it ive given them boquet and they all takes it the only thing u cant do it marry them
Devilish Dave Feb 2, 2018 @ 5:50pm 
Originally posted by Werwolfgaming:
they would accept it ive given them boquet and they all takes it the only thing u cant do it marry them

Don't even want to.
Is that the only way to get 10 hearts, is to marry them as well?

Because if it is, then it explains a lot, I thought you can get 10 hearts without having to marry.
You can get to ten hearts without marriage. The bouquet unlocks the 9th and 10th heart. I have like 4 of the potential spouses at 10 hearts and my character isn't married at all.
Devilish Dave Feb 2, 2018 @ 8:27pm 
Originally posted by Tardis:
You can get to ten hearts without marriage. The bouquet unlocks the 9th and 10th heart. I have like 4 of the potential spouses at 10 hearts and my character isn't married at all.


Now this is my question, I already have a wife in the game, but I don't want to lose her. I did however, try it out and so far my wife hasn't noticed anything and I still have all her hearts so I might just do each one by one and only give gifts when the Fortune Teller on TV says that my luck is high.
Originally posted by 󠁿󠁿 󠁿󠁿 󠁿󠁿 󠁿:
Originally posted by Tardis:
You can get to ten hearts without marriage. The bouquet unlocks the 9th and 10th heart. I have like 4 of the potential spouses at 10 hearts and my character isn't married at all.


Now this is my question, I already have a wife in the game, but I don't want to lose her. I did however, try it out and so far my wife hasn't noticed anything and I still have all her hearts so I might just do each one by one and only give gifts when the Fortune Teller on TV says that my luck is high.

You can still gift/woo the other potential spouses. You just risk the ire of your spouse. You won't lose them in terms of them divorcing you (you're the only one who can initiate the divorce).

You will possibly lose friendship points and get "do I need to be suspicious' conversation. But usually gifting them loved gifts helps to counteract any point lose.
Devilish Dave Feb 2, 2018 @ 9:13pm 
Originally posted by Tardis:
Originally posted by 󠁿󠁿 󠁿󠁿 󠁿󠁿 󠁿:


Now this is my question, I already have a wife in the game, but I don't want to lose her. I did however, try it out and so far my wife hasn't noticed anything and I still have all her hearts so I might just do each one by one and only give gifts when the Fortune Teller on TV says that my luck is high.

You can still gift/woo the other potential spouses. You just risk the ire of your spouse. You won't lose them in terms of them divorcing you (you're the only one who can initiate the divorce).

You will possibly lose friendship points and get "do I need to be suspicious' conversation. But usually gifting them loved gifts helps to counteract any point lose.

Alright, I had that happen once and yea I gift her an amethyst every morning :D
Frosty May 4, 2021 @ 8:25pm 
So I have been curious about this as well. I am married but want to complete the 10 hearts for all marriage candidates. Ultimately I am willing to divorce and wipe his mind to get 10 hears again with him. With that being said, will "starting over" trigger the 10 heart event for all candidates now that I am newly single, or would it not trigger at all due to the previous marriage?
Stardustfire May 4, 2021 @ 10:38pm 
if you have read what stands above you already know the answer:
marriage DONT hinders 10 hearths for all in the slightest. only thing exclusive to marriage is the 14 hearth event.
only problem you face when married is the jealous approach when you gift bachelors of same gender like your spouse.
Frosty May 5, 2021 @ 8:44am 
Maybe I didn't phrase my question properly. I want to trigger the 10 heart group events with ALL eligible bachelors. I was asking, if I divorce, wipe memory, and get to 10 hearts again, will that trigger the 10 heart group events for the bachelors (IE; going to the saloon/Emily's house and everyone getting mad that their being dated all at once)
Uncoelacanth May 5, 2021 @ 10:03am 
Originally posted by Frosty:
Maybe I didn't phrase my question properly. I want to trigger the 10 heart group events with ALL eligible bachelors. I was asking, if I divorce, wipe memory, and get to 10 hearts again, will that trigger the 10 heart group events for the bachelors (IE; going to the saloon/Emily's house and everyone getting mad that their being dated all at once)

Yes, this will work. I spent much of my current save married to Haley. I subsequently divorced Haley, erased her memories, and wooed her back to 10 hearts, and was able to witness both Group 10-Heart events (all the other Bachelorettes, and all the Bachelors had been at 10 hearts for some time.)

As per the wiki, each Group 10-Heart event will trigger only once per save, but it doesn't matter if you were previously marred, as long as you aren't currently married when the conditions are met.
Last edited by Uncoelacanth; May 5, 2021 @ 10:08am
Frosty May 10, 2021 @ 1:09pm 
Originally posted by Uncoelacanth:
Originally posted by Frosty:
Maybe I didn't phrase my question properly. I want to trigger the 10 heart group events with ALL eligible bachelors. I was asking, if I divorce, wipe memory, and get to 10 hearts again, will that trigger the 10 heart group events for the bachelors (IE; going to the saloon/Emily's house and everyone getting mad that their being dated all at once)

Yes, this will work. I spent much of my current save married to Haley. I subsequently divorced Haley, erased her memories, and wooed her back to 10 hearts, and was able to witness both Group 10-Heart events (all the other Bachelorettes, and all the Bachelors had been at 10 hearts for some time.)

As per the wiki, each Group 10-Heart event will trigger only once per save, but it doesn't matter if you were previously marred, as long as you aren't currently married when the conditions are met.

YES THANK YOU SO MUCH! that is the answer I was searching for. I was not sure if it could/would work so I wanted to be absolutely sure before I dove off into the dating again with all the eligible bachelors/ bachelorettes.
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Date Posted: Feb 2, 2018 @ 2:55pm
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