ping > 500ms

[Bicky sensei]

Whenever i try to online multiplayer, wheter i host or join, i get a massive ping (above 300 at least)
My connection is stable, i can download at 30 mo/s, i can play bg3 online without any problem, or other games for that matters.
The only one i can't is Barony.
My friends are on the epic game version, while i'm on steam. cross play enabled.
everyone has tried to host, we've restarted the game multiple times, tried over multiple days and even through direct ip via hamachi.
I don't understand why it won't work proprely...
Anybody's got an idea? Admins?
Thx for reading me :)

[Arteon]

the problem is in the game's netcode. The developers made it so that any action and their order goes to the server and until all of them happen, you cannot start new ones. If you compare, it's like watching a recorded video of a stream, and not the stream itself online

[Lord of Asshes]

Originally posted by Arteon:

the problem is in the game's netcode. The developers made it so that any action and their order goes to the server and until all of them happen, you cannot start new ones. If you compare, it's like watching a recorded video of a stream, and not the stream itself online

Any idea, why it can appear only for a minority of player base?
If I'm connecting to some random lobbies, everything is OK - 20ms at worst.
While i with friend trying to create a lobby for private gaming - >500 ms instantly.

Da fuq?