problem

[Harry Tardato]

we tryed to play together but we cuuld not join the server in any way
what are we doing wrong?

[Kadser]

so
if you want to join your own server click on host server and join the instructions. to join ur own server you need to read the text hidden in the server folder of ur game. if you go to direct ip you can join your own server with the right settings. Your friends should be able to join your game on the server list.
i hope it helps